Fr3sh

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Jul 12, 2011
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Insults from a "loved one"
Cutting off ties is hard, but sometimes it's something that needs to be done.

Personally, actions hurt me more than words. If I rate someone, if I respect you and decide to walk with you, I expect a certain level of respect. If that expectation is not met, then said individual is not worthy of walking with me, period.

When I moved to Edmonton, I got really close with this Moroccan guy, we were really close friends. From '09 till about 2013, I used to kick it with him on the regular. If I don't see him for a while, call him up, see if all is good, dude was like a brother to me. As the years went on, we racked up a shit ton of mutual friends, hung out in the several different social circles. Other people started coming around and started telling me Buddy is spreading such and such words about you, I paid no mind. There was this one class we took together, I had super shitty grade in a midterm while he killed it, he bragged about it to the whole world by comparing his 90+% grade to my 55% grade, I paid no mind. He talks serious shit over the pool table (in the student lounge), I laugh with him.

Then one day, I go to him, ask him advice about some girl I was pulling moves on. Next thing you know fucker went to Mexico with her over reading week. Came back orange as fuck and tried to gimme one of them handshake/hugs when he came back, I clocked the fucker. Never looked at him in the eye ever again.
 

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Cutting off ties is hard, but sometimes it's something that needs to be done.

Personally, actions hurt me more than words. If I rate someone, if I respect you and decide to walk with you, I expect a certain level of respect. If that expectation is not met, then said individual is not worthy of walking with me, period.

When I moved to Edmonton, I got really close with this Moroccan guy, we were really close friends. From '09 till about 2013, I used to kick it with him on the regular. If I don't see him for a while, call him up, see if all is good, dude was like a brother to me. As the years went on, we racked up a shit ton of mutual friends, hung out in the several different social circles. Other people started coming around and started telling me Buddy is spreading such and such words about you, I paid no mind. There was this one class we took together, I had super shitty grade in a midterm while he killed it, he bragged about it to the whole world by comparing his 90+% grade to my 55% grade, I paid no mind. He talks serious shit over the pool table (in the student lounge), I laugh with him.

Then one day, I go to him, ask him advice about some girl I was pulling moves on. Next thing you know fucker went to Mexico with her over reading week. Came back orange as fuck and tried to gimme one of them handshake/hugs when he came back, I clocked the fucker. Never looked at him in the eye ever again.
Damn bro. That sucks. I could never do that to my warrior brotha.
 

Ragazza

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Jul 22, 2013
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Cutting off ties is hard, but sometimes it's something that needs to be done.

Personally, actions hurt me more than words. If I rate someone, if I respect you and decide to walk with you, I expect a certain level of respect. If that expectation is not met, then said individual is not worthy of walking with me, period.

When I moved to Edmonton, I got really close with this Moroccan guy, we were really close friends. From '09 till about 2013, I used to kick it with him on the regular. If I don't see him for a while, call him up, see if all is good, dude was like a brother to me. As the years went on, we racked up a shit ton of mutual friends, hung out in the several different social circles. Other people started coming around and started telling me Buddy is spreading such and such words about you, I paid no mind. There was this one class we took together, I had super shitty grade in a midterm while he killed it, he bragged about it to the whole world by comparing his 90+% grade to my 55% grade, I paid no mind. He talks serious shit over the pool table (in the student lounge), I laugh with him.

Then one day, I go to him, ask him advice about some girl I was pulling moves on. Next thing you know fucker went to Mexico with her over reading week. Came back orange as fuck and tried to gimme one of them handshake/hugs when he came back, I clocked the fucker. Never looked at him in the eye ever again.
That's really shitty man. I'm no stranger to "friends" turning on me and talking shit behind my back, but that takes the cake. Especially fucked up of him to come up to you after he got back and act like everything was cool. Definitely someone you don't need in your life. What did you end up doing about all the mutual friends though?
 

Fr3sh

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Damn bro. That sucks. I could never do that to my warrior brotha.
He's a faggot and a half. I'm glad this happened then, and rather than with the mother of my kids ffs.

That's really shitty man. I'm no stranger to "friends" turning on me and talking shit behind my back, but that takes the cake. Especially fucked up of him to come up to you after he got back and act like everything was cool. Definitely someone you don't need in your life. What did you end up doing about all the mutual friends though?
That don't mean I can't see them, even in random meet-ups or whatever, whether he's there or not doesn't change shit for me. My relations with the other haven't changed, if anything maybe a little less trusting.

The only thing that got weird was his girlfriend, the one I tried to pull moves on. Shit gets real awkward when she's there, cause she knows I'd tear that pussy up the minute I get a chance, and there's definite tension between me and her, tension in the good way, but she don't know how to deal with it. Regardless, that door is closed for me, I need to find that chick form the bus.

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Also, I don't need an interesti's sympathy :stuckup:
 

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Ragazza

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That don't mean I can't see them, even in random meet-ups or whatever, whether he's there or not doesn't change shit for me. My relations with the other haven't changed, if anything maybe a little less trusting.

The only thing that got weird was his girlfriend, the one I tried to pull moves on. Shit gets real awkward when she's there, cause she knows I'd tear that pussy up the minute I get a chance, and there's definite tension between me and her, tension in the good way, but she don't know how to deal with it. Regardless, that door is closed for me, I need to find that chick form the bus.

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Also, I don't need an interesti's sympathy :stuckup:
Oh so you still see him with your friends, you just don't interact with him if you can help it. Well that's pretty strong of you, I usually don't go places if I know someone I've fallen out with is going to be there. And yeah, I agree you shouldn't go after the girl, whether it's for revenge or you're still actually attracted to her, it's best to be the bigger person in the situation.

And you're just mad I autolynched you. :heart:
 

Fr3sh

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Oh so you still see him with your friends, you just don't interact with him if you can help it. Well that's pretty strong of you, I usually don't go places if I know someone I've fallen out with is going to be there. And yeah, I agree you shouldn't go after the girl, whether it's for revenge or you're still actually attracted to her, it's best to be the bigger person in the situation.

And you're just mad I autolynched you. :heart:
Like Matt said, you can't let people have power over you. Heck there's even occasions where, I see him at a pub during CL games with some of our mutual friends, I go to the table, say wassup to everyone (but him fuck that fool), take a seat and watch the damn game. What can he do? Tell me to leave the table? Dude ate my fist once, and he knows I wouldn't hold back for serving him seconds.
 

Ragazza

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Like Matt said, you can't let people have power over you. Heck there's even occasions where, I see him at a pub during CL games with some of our mutual friends, I go to the table, say wassup to everyone (but him fuck that fool), take a seat and watch the damn game. What can he do? Tell me to leave the table? Dude ate my fist once, and he knows I wouldn't hold back for serving him seconds.
Well the reason I don't is not just because of me, but also because I don't want the rest of the group to be caught in the middle. One time I did go hang out with some friends and one of my ex-friends was there too, she just took it as an opportunity to talk more shit about me and people were clearly uncomfortable. "Why was she invited, she's this, she did this, blah blah blah". But since she'd been friends with most of the people in the group for much longer than me, they didn't want to just stop inviting her out, so I eliminated myself from the situation. For a while I mostly just went out with individuals from the group or a smaller number of them at a time.

These days I don't even hang out with any of them anymore because I started getting a feeling that they were believing the stuff she was saying about me.
 

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