I watched Becoming Jane last weekend, he is delicious, isn't he?
Ah! Then unfortunately that sort of thing does happen a lot in Austen. Elizabeth Bennet narrowly avoided it

They're not always first cousins, though, and still call one another "cousin". If that helps...
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Dang, I think I'll read P and P again now once I'm done with my current book.