What Are You Doing Right Now? (308 Viewers)

[swag]

poor salv, you really are fucked but the sooner you go through this the better

Salvo -- if you have to debate this for several pages on an Internet forum, this is way way way too f'ing complicated.

When %^$* works, %$#$ works. And when it works, it doesn't require a counsel of 15 psychoanalysts to navigate the situation with her at each exchange you guys have.

 

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[Lapa]

Salvo -- if you have to debate this for several pages on an Internet forum, this is way way way too f'ing complicated.

When %^$* works, %$#$ works. And when it works, it doesn't require a counsel of 15 psychoanalysts to navigate the situation with her at each exchange you guys have.

I feel so proud swag calling me a psychoanalyst.

 

[Salvo]

I'll see how It goes.

 

[.zero]

When %^$* works, %$#$ works. And when it works, it doesn't require a counsel of 15 psychoanalysts to navigate the situation with her at each exchange you guys have.

Psycho anal lists?

Please tell me more

 

[Martin]

I feel so proud swag calling me a psychoanalyst.

I didn't even realize. I'm so hanging this on the wall.

 

[Lapa]

I didn't even realize. I'm so hanging this on the wall.

Or maybe on your sig just under that ridiculous comment that I once made (no idea what it was for).

 

[Martin]

Or maybe on your sig just under that ridiculous comment that I once made (no idea what it was for).

You drink too much. You miss your greatest moments.

 

[Lapa]

You drink too much. You miss your greatest moments.

Yes. It really seems that my greatest moments really have been great.

 

[Sheik Yerbouti]

Just the girl I knew up until a bit ago was so awesome..

Tell her the same thing. See how she reacts.

 

[Salvo]

What do you mean sheiky?

 

[Sheik Yerbouti]

What do you mean sheiky?

Nevermind. It was a stupid idea anyway.

As for the flight situation, just put on your headphones and listen to music on full volume and close your eyes. Ignore her completely.

 

[Salvo]

Haha I can't, I actually can't. I'll be her friend. But not How I was.

 

[Lapa]

We both know how it goes...you will have few drinks, end up making out with her...then you will pass out...and after you wake up the situation starts really to be awkward for the first time.

 

[Salvo]

Ball would be in my court if that happens. We shall see. I do plan on getting her hammered

 

[Sheik Yerbouti]

Haha I can't, I actually can't. I'll be her friend. But not How I was.

I say be patient and see how the whole thing plays out. Moments like these will suck you in and make you feel miserable. But it's not the end. Things will change eventually. Just get some sleep now and rethink the whole thing tomorrow.

 

[Salvo]

Yeah man I am just giving her space. She knows how I feel now it's up to her to come back to me and explain herself properly.

 

[Sheik Yerbouti]

Yeah man I am just giving her space. She knows how I feel now it's up to her to come back to me and explain herself properly.

Now go get some sleep and let the universe play its game.

 

[Salvo]

Yep. Night guys. X

 

[Lapa]

Rethinking is for pussies. It doesn't help shit. I can rethink for days, be drunk at the same time without being able to sleep. So no rethinking for me. Things like those are like a fucking cancer, they will eat you up alive if you don't do anything...of course you can just decide not to do anything and let the booze to turn your inner core into ashes. I decided to do that and have regret it afterwards.

 

[Osman]

Here's a story for all y'all. So here I am in Italy a year ago, hook up with this girl. Nothing to major. We start talking, end up talking for a year. Some really sweet Shit, kisses, pet names. I come back this year, for family and partly for her. She is coming to Australia by the way, to live for the time being. She is meant to come back with me, same flight. So I get here all good, tell her I really like her. She says right now so much is going on I can only be a friend, give me some time. A lot has happened plus moving away so I'm like ok sweet. . Meant to see her Christmas night she doesn't respond at all for a day after. I randomly get a call saying come get a coffee. She tells me a guy she knows well and she is really close to him says he loves her. She said it's freaked me out I don't know what to do. I need space. I'm like Uhh ok. But I was meant to see her the next day, she doesn't respond all day so I'm like wtf. I'll go to her house. She only calls me and says pretty much the same Shit as the last day. Ok.. I message her that I'm like I hope we are sweet, I don't want it to be awkward. I get a reply the next morning "my boyfriend saw the messages and cracked it"... I'm like what? Boyfriend? I don't even know this guys name, but apparently I don't know him, doesn't have Facebook. I'm like what the fuck? I feel fucked around, you become boyfriend with this dude a week before leaving to Aus? When were you planning on telling me? She says it all happened so fast... Didn't want to hurt anyone, I didn't know you wanted me that much.. But now I have been told by close friends of hers and mine. That she talks a lot of Shit, they even think she has two personalities... So now I'm doubting whether this dude exists, like it might be an excuse? By the way, we are sitting next to each other on the plane.. What... Shit sorry it's long.

Text book manic manipulative type. Purge her from your mind and move the fuck on, asap, she will have you so mentally whipped in no time going back and forth with you otherwise (may be too late for you if you been talking for a year), you dont want to be her instant way to get validation and attention from now on (addicted to the melodrama of feeling wanted).