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Osman

Osman

Koul Khara!
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Aug 30, 2002
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Salvo said:
Here's a story for all y'all. So here I am in Italy a year ago, hook up with this girl. Nothing to major. We start talking, end up talking for a year. Some really sweet Shit, kisses, pet names. I come back this year, for family and partly for her. She is coming to Australia by the way, to live for the time being. She is meant to come back with me, same flight. So I get here all good, tell her I really like her. She says right now so much is going on I can only be a friend, give me some time. A lot has happened plus moving away so I'm like ok sweet. . Meant to see her Christmas night she doesn't respond at all for a day after. I randomly get a call saying come get a coffee. She tells me a guy she knows well and she is really close to him says he loves her. She said it's freaked me out I don't know what to do. I need space. I'm like Uhh ok. But I was meant to see her the next day, she doesn't respond all day so I'm like wtf. I'll go to her house. She only calls me and says pretty much the same Shit as the last day. Ok.. I message her that I'm like I hope we are sweet, I don't want it to be awkward. I get a reply the next morning "my boyfriend saw the messages and cracked it"... I'm like what? Boyfriend? I don't even know this guys name, but apparently I don't know him, doesn't have Facebook. I'm like what the fuck? I feel fucked around, you become boyfriend with this dude a week before leaving to Aus? When were you planning on telling me? She says it all happened so fast... Didn't want to hurt anyone, I didn't know you wanted me that much.. But now I have been told by close friends of hers and mine. That she talks a lot of Shit, they even think she has two personalities... So now I'm doubting whether this dude exists, like it might be an excuse? By the way, we are sitting next to each other on the plane.. What... Shit sorry it's long.
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Text book manic manipulative type. Purge her from your mind and move the fuck on, asap, she will have you so mentally whipped in no time going back and forth with you otherwise (may be too late for you if you been talking for a year), you dont want to be her instant way to get validation and attention from now on (addicted to the melodrama of feeling wanted).
 

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L'autista
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#305,662
Sep 23, 2003
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Osman said:
Text book manic manipulative type. Purge her from your mind and move the fuck on, asap, she will have you so mentally whipped in no time going back and forth with you otherwise (may be too late for you if you been talking for a year), you dont want to be her instant way to get validation and attention from now on (addicted to the melodrama of feeling wanted).
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O-man knows where it's at. That girl needs a handy roll of toilet paper, and fortunately for her she found you. :agree:
 
Ragazza

Ragazza

Calciopoli Director
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Jul 22, 2013
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@Salvo, as a girl myself I've seen other girls acting like this way too often. Like others have said, whether she's telling the truth or not about this guy, it seems like she's just seeking attention. And in my opinion, even if she realizes she's fucked up & apologizes, tries to get back with you again or whatever, that's a huge red flag in any relationship. What's to say she won't try to pull something like that later on?

Of course everyone has little personality flaws that you just have to learn to settle for in some cases, but people who intentionally fuck around with your feelings like that are likely repeat offenders, and aren't worth it in the end. I would even advise against keeping it casual/friends with benefits, even being platonic friends with her might prove difficult. Especially since she knows you are attracted to her, she might continue to use that against you.

I know it seems douchey, since it seems like you're the "nice guy" type, but she needs to know how you feel (whether it's literal or implied, but she needs to understand that she can't manipulate you). She's treating you like crap, she doesn't deserve to have you go out of your way to be nice to her.

On the flip side, it's possible she has some personality disorder & it's not entirely her fault (like you said, her friends brought up that they think she has two personalities?). But even so, that is not something you want to have to deal with if she can't realize she has a problem and/or seek help for it.

And I hope that makes sense cos I've been drinking.
 
ZoSo

ZoSo

Senior Member
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Jul 11, 2011
41,656
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swag said:
To beat a six year old, I prefer a rather standard wooden baseball bat.
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:lol2::lol2:

Lapa said:
:xfinger: Always wanted to be a shemale...so hopefully your advice is good.
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:rofl: wtf

Salvo said:
Here's a story for all y'all. So here I am in Italy a year ago, hook up with this girl. Nothing to major. We start talking, end up talking for a year. Some really sweet Shit, kisses, pet names. I come back this year, for family and partly for her. She is coming to Australia by the way, to live for the time being. She is meant to come back with me, same flight. So I get here all good, tell her I really like her. She says right now so much is going on I can only be a friend, give me some time. A lot has happened plus moving away so I'm like ok sweet. . Meant to see her Christmas night she doesn't respond at all for a day after. I randomly get a call saying come get a coffee. She tells me a guy she knows well and she is really close to him says he loves her. She said it's freaked me out I don't know what to do. I need space. I'm like Uhh ok. But I was meant to see her the next day, she doesn't respond all day so I'm like wtf. I'll go to her house. She only calls me and says pretty much the same Shit as the last day. Ok.. I message her that I'm like I hope we are sweet, I don't want it to be awkward. I get a reply the next morning "my boyfriend saw the messages and cracked it"... I'm like what? Boyfriend? I don't even know this guys name, but apparently I don't know him, doesn't have Facebook. I'm like what the fuck? I feel fucked around, you become boyfriend with this dude a week before leaving to Aus? When were you planning on telling me? She says it all happened so fast... Didn't want to hurt anyone, I didn't know you wanted me that much.. But now I have been told by close friends of hers and mine. That she talks a lot of Shit, they even think she has two personalities... So now I'm doubting whether this dude exists, like it might be an excuse? By the way, we are sitting next to each other on the plane.. What... Shit sorry it's long.
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it's not worth such trouble

not much is

relax
 
Lapa

Lapa

FLY, EAGLES FLY
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Sep 29, 2008
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Will so not open the next beer...time to go to sleep for me. Is this a fucking Narnia or what. I'm a bit scared, probably will be woke up by a Hulk tomorrow.


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Or even worse, dat horse guy...Tumnus or something like that! :shocked:
 
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