Osman

Koul Khara!
Aug 30, 2002
61,505
fuck that, there are plenty of chicas it would be complete stupidity to gear your life towards a shitty job just to be with one.
If its just a new gf he isnt that committed to and just getting to know/not so into, yeah, dont let that stop your plans, but a job is just a job, wether its right there or the other side of the planet. But meeting that potential special someone and given it time to stay with them is not something to take for granted or belittle. But saying gf doesnt say anything in itself, casual relationship, just being with someone for the sake of being with someone, or really is someone who is the right fit for you in every way.
 

swag

L'autista
Administrator
Sep 23, 2003
84,790
I'd tend to be on the other side; if it's the right chica, then it's worth it.
the more you sacrifice the more "right" persons there are out there, the trick then is to do it with the least amount of sacrifice
Scary. I kind of have to side with A here. If you're not married, you shouldn't have to put up with a shitty job to be with someone. That's just resentment waiting to happen that will blow up your cherished relationship anyway.

Good relationships have to survive times where things aren't going so well for one if not both. But making that sacrifice before you've even had much of a time where you're both operating from strong lives seems a little premature, IMO.
 

Kate

Moderator
Feb 7, 2011
18,595
Scary. I kind of have to side with A here. If you're not married, you shouldn't have to put up with a shitty job to be with someone. That's just resentment waiting to happen that will blow up your cherished relationship anyway.

Good relationships have to survive times where things aren't going so well for one if not both. But making that sacrifice before you've even had much of a time where you're both operating from strong lives seems a little premature, IMO.
I guess it depends on the priorities, and I don't know Os' history with this person. It's worked for us, but I know that's just one instance.
 

Osman

Koul Khara!
Aug 30, 2002
61,505
I guess it depends on the priorities, and I don't know Os' history with this person. It's worked for us, but I know that's just one instance.
No history with any person, I was talking hypothetical based on what IZ was going through as options. I lived in same city for 18 years so not much such choices to make :D

If anything few relationships of mine ended because I wouldnt move away to their location of choice that only suited them etc. Hypocritical of me to preach what I dont practice :D But as I said main difference being if its for the right someone (casual relationships aint that).
 

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