Bisco

Senior Member
Nov 21, 2005
14,420
Pretty angry. I know I was bringing it upon myself by responding to a comment on YouTube, but why, the minute you say you enjoy sex, do you become a "slut".
kate kate kate :D you cant impress every one, thats sth i learned the hard way. dear you enjoy sex, or you enjoy drinking, or you enjoy smoking, or what ever it is you enjoy you will always have people who think other wise. on the sex topic its human nature to enjoy sex, and by the way it makes perfect sense too. animals enjoy sex so it would be shocking if humans dont. its shocking you r called this in yr society considering the general view of expressing yr opinion about such topics is pretty much not a taboo compared to here for instance where you will be called a slut for even giving advice on the topic. i have a very good friend of mine who had a best friend who graduated from pharmacy to go on to become a specialist when it comes to the sexual relations specially among couples who r newly married or others who have been together for too long, in an attempt to help them improve the encounter and nail in there heads that sex is an important and vital part of any relationship and its not just sth to get babies via, and she had to go to a shrink bec of all the horrible things she was called. the bottom line is, dont be angry and dont let such people bring you down or change yr point of view. its perfectly human for you to have yr own pleasures and what pleases you might not please others. at least you speak up, i have seen grown up men, my dad's age come to pharmacists and ask in secret if a pharmacist can help him spies up things with his old lady in the bedroom as if its a sin or crime. i pity them bec its a science and a perfectly normal pleasure in life to love and enjoy.

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I had an old housemate who was a PhD political science student (the kind of profession most Asians would laugh at ;) ). He specialized in studying political revolutions.

When UC Berkeley was having a riot over some university land use issue years ago, he went out there to observe. I learned from him that revolutions can happen in different cultures with different people in different circumstances, but many of the same problems affect them all. You and Hoori sound, unfortunately, par for the course.
that has a lot of truth in it greg, my whole point of view on revolutions has changed dramatically. at first when my country had the rev i was backing it up 100% and even now i back it up but how the rev goes on to fix things is where a lot of crap tends to show up. you would be mistakened to think every one see's the kind of change a revolution seeks to bring out the same way. trust me there are a 1000 views on how tings should be in egypt and sadly not a single one is being forwarded since every one has become a che after the toppling of the regime, and one massive flaw in the egyptain rev for instance is that we never learned from hoori's version. in fact at times we were on a crash course to what happened in iran. a revolution is as good in my opinion as the level of education and general awareness in the community. the lack of that means you are in for a bumpy ride that sooner or later will back fire as evident after egypts first presidential elections.
 

Kate

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Feb 7, 2011
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I don't think I can be arsed :D it's more fun to troll people here.

kate kate kate :D you cant impress every one, thats sth i learned the hard way. dear you enjoy sex, or you enjoy drinking, or you enjoy smoking, or what ever it is you enjoy you will always have people who think other wise. on the sex topic its human nature to enjoy sex, and by the way it makes perfect sense too. animals enjoy sex so it would be shocking if humans dont. its shocking you r called this in yr society considering the general view of expressing yr opinion about such topics is pretty much not a taboo compared to here for instance where you will be called a slut for even giving advice on the topic. i have a very good friend of mine who had a best friend who graduated from pharmacy to go on to become a specialist when it comes to the sexual relations specially among couples who r newly married or others who have been together for too long, in an attempt to help them improve the encounter and nail in there heads that sex is an important and vital part of any relationship and its not just sth to get babies via, and she had to go to a shrink bec of all the horrible things she was called. the bottom line is, dont be angry and dont let such people bring you down or change yr point of view. its perfectly human for you to have yr own pleasures and what pleases you might not please others. at least you speak up, i have seen grown up men, my dad's age come to pharmacists and ask in secret if a pharmacist can help him spies up things with his old lady in the bedroom as if its a sin or crime. i pity them bec its a science and a perfectly normal pleasure in life to love and enjoy.
You are right, it would be much worse to feel you're not even allowed to enjoy the pleasures you do. It just drives me nuts to see people who have such stupid ideas about women and about sex in general. You can tell they have likely never enjoyed a meaningful relationship...
 

Bisco

Senior Member
Nov 21, 2005
14,420
I don't think I can be arsed :D it's more fun to troll people here.



You are right, it would be much worse to feel you're not even allowed to enjoy the pleasures you do. It just drives me nuts to see people who have such stupid ideas about women and about sex in general. You can tell they have likely never enjoyed a meaningful relationship...
exactly kate :tup: cheer up and good job trolling them :beer: such lame ass losers.
 

Bisco

Senior Member
Nov 21, 2005
14,420
I've ended the conversation. The moment he told me I'll never find a husband who wants to take on my slutty past and emotional baggage, I just responded with an "Oh no!!!" and let it go.

:lol: :lol: wow that hurts!! :rofl: i wish him luck finding a wife with his retarded mentality, he should just worry about that and not the poor guy who will marry you with yr colourful past. i think he is 12 kate i would'nt be surprised if he has'nt hit puberty just yet :D
 

Kate

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Feb 7, 2011
18,595
:lol: :lol: wow that hurts!! :rofl: i wish him luck finding a wife with his retarded mentality, he should just worry about that and not the poor guy who will marry you with yr colourful past. i think he is 12 kate i would'nt be surprised if he has'nt hit puberty just yet :D
I imagine he's older, and I pity his wife!
 

GordoDeCentral

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Apr 14, 2005
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I've ended the conversation. The moment he told me I'll never find a husband who wants to take on my slutty past and emotional baggage, I just responded with an "Oh no!!!" and let it go.
kateness!

Hello everyone! How are we all doing today?
Sorry people are being nasty to you, Kate.
Who's your daddy and what does he do?
 

KatieDiFran

Senior Member
Sep 25, 2009
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You are right, it would be much worse to feel you're not even allowed to enjoy the pleasures you do. It just drives me nuts to see people who have such stupid ideas about women and about sex in general. You can tell they have likely never enjoyed a meaningful relationship...
truth

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how everyone be?!??!!?!?
 

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