What Are You Doing Right Now? (144 Viewers)

[Ford Prefect]

Link please.

The woman running this debate is a bint.

 

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[IliveForJuve]

I agree with Matty. A good friend of mine has been with this girl for about 5 months and it's been 4 months since we don't hang out. Even when he rarely talks to me on facebook or messenger, he only talks about his girlfriend.

The guy even talks about marrying her! Wtf! He's only 18 years old!

 

[Nzoric]

This will make more sense when you get older and you have friends who get married, go through divorces, etc.

I'm twenty, I have two good friends who have kids already and are on their way to marriage. This hasn't stopped us from calling eachother up, hanging out whenever the opportunity shows itself etc. There is a difference between not having time enough to maintain a relationship and simply not caring because you are satisfied at the moment, and when the moment of satisfaction passes you return to your old friends acting like nothing has happened.

 

[Byrone]

It's been a shitty week, some people acting like children and ruining it all for the rest of us.

That's what you get for being nice.

Just got a message from a high school buddy saying "Whats up man, just broke up with my girlfriend wanna get together saturday and swing back some beers" . He is such a douchebag, everytime he can't really seem to make anything work for him he calls me up.

"No" fu

I don't know why you're complaining. He'll end up buying all the booze, just leech off him until he hooks up with another girl.

Man, you are in for a disappointing surprise. That's all I'm gonna say.

Totally but that's life, he needs to learn.

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

Exactly. Where's the balance? Has your whole life become one person? Those are the people that get hit hardest when the relationship gets rocky.

 

[Byrone]

Exactly. Where's the balance? Has your whole life become one person? Those are the people that get hit hardest when the relationship gets rocky.

Well some people just can't function on their own, simply put. They have to be in a relationship even if the person they're with makes them miserable. It all boils down to self esteem.

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

Well some people just can't function on their own, simply put. They have to be in a relationship even if the person they're with makes them miserable. It all boils down to self esteem.

I know those. Especially the girls. The kind that call you to tell you that their boyfriends are hitting them and they don't know what to do.

 

[Kate]

Exactly. Where's the balance? Has your whole life become one person? Those are the people that get hit hardest when the relationship gets rocky.

It happens to the best of us. Never rule out you doing the same thing one day.

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

It happens to the best of us. Never rule out you doing the same thing one day.

I know it happens, but at that point you commit yourself to that relationship. I'm talking about these stupid little ones with my friends that I know won't last.

 

[.zero]

I'm Hungry. Dru, what you got in your fridge?

Dude I have a fridge full of homemade food courtesy of my mom visiting this week

You are more than welcome to come join me in chowing down

Haven't heard from him in a year now, and before that there was a period of 7 months with no contact from his side.

Thats how us douches roll

love it or hate it thats the troof

 

[Kate]

I know it happens, but at that point you commit yourself to that relationship. I'm talking about these stupid little ones with my friends that I know won't last.

That's a stranger, deeper problem, yes. There are a lot of those people out there, I suppose it's good when they find one another. At least then they can start hunting in packs, I guess.

 

[Itztli]

Dude I have a fridge full of homemade food courtesy of my mom visiting this week

You are more than welcome to come join me in chowing down

Aww yeah!

 

[.zero]

Its almost lunchtime and I'm getting hungrraaayyyyy

 

[.zero]

Aite I'm outta here

 

[Nzoric]

http://www.cracked.com/article_19488_14-luxury-sex-toys-extremely-rich-creepy_p2.html

Reading this, hilarious

 

[Juve_fanatic]

My best best friend has been dating with his girlfriend for like a year now. And nothing, and i mean nothing has changed between us. We are hanging out every day, do all this stuff together.... It really depends on what kind of a person you are nothing more. What Swag is saying is completely true but it is only true for people who are beginning to get serious, got married, have children, jobs etc. When it is a simple "childish" relationship and nothing is certain, then it is utterly stupid to ditch your friends because of a girl....... My friend has made it clear to his girlfriend; "I have my life, you have your life. If you call me and ask me out when i have already made plans with my friends, sorry i wont come out with you, but on the other hand, if i have made plans with you and my friends call me i wont cancel you to go with them"

 

[Bezzy]

reading this make me proud at myself :strong:

 

[Kate]

reading this make me proud at myself :strong:

"Proud of myself" Reading what?

 

[Bezzy]

"Proud of myself" Reading what?

I see

everything here about friends combine with being in a relationship

 

[swag]

No, I can understand if you're married, but for a girl you've been with 3 months?

Some guys are like that with girls, whether married or just girlfriends. You know the kind -- the kind who spend their days without a girlfriend anguishing over when they will next get one. The people who aren't good being alone or by themselves for very long.

And it gets insanely worse once said friends have kids. Even your best of best friends. They totally fall off the planet pretty much.

I don't know why you're complaining. He'll end up buying all the booze, just leech off him until he hooks up with another girl.

Totally but that's life, he needs to learn.

Byrone is showing his worldly wisdom here, big time.

Exactly. Where's the balance? Has your whole life become one person? Those are the people that get hit hardest when the relationship gets rocky.

Yep. And they are who they are. Some of my best friends just can't be left alone with their personal demons. I'm glad when a woman fills that, even though it may put a real cramp on our interactions. Everybody still has to make an effort. But hey -- he's a good friend, I've known him a long time, and it could be 6 months since we chatted and we can pick up where we left off. Life is like that sometimes.