Fred

Senior Member
Oct 2, 2003
41,113
Would she really be offended? Why? It's not like you're saying you want to rape her

You seem to be unaware of the cultural differences between people in the gulf(who are the most conservative even in the arab world) and others. Hell theres a big difference in culture between here and North Africa.

Believe me, a question such as that, would offend her deeply. There's not a lot of things you can say to offend her more than that too.


Come on, she'll never see these posts. She's probably sleeping now and she won't open this thread in the near future. She wasn't here for months.

So...if she looks fine...would you?

She probably won't see this post. But still, like i said it would offend her if she did. You can crack jokes all you want Alen(when its about me, you know i can take them) as long as you don't offend anyone, and this way, you are seriously offending Asma.
 

Fred

Senior Member
Oct 2, 2003
41,113
She might not have sex before marriage, but no girl gets offended if she finds out that men are attracted to her.
Thats true.


But when she hears the question "would you do her", she'd feel like some sort of commodity, some sort of thing thrown in the street just waiting for guys to do her.

If you asked me, would you find her pretty? Would you fall for a girl like her if you found out she was good looking, that would all be ok.

But the way you put the question might be ok in western culture, but its not ok here. Most girls would be offended by that here, and i am sure of this, its not something i am speculating about.

I'm sure you don't intend any harm. But i'm just giving you the heads up, if she's ever around, don't ask that sort of question about her in front of her.
 

Alen

Ѕenior Аdmin
Apr 2, 2007
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There's a difference in that culture between saying "you're pretty" and "I want to have sex with you".
It's the same case in many other middle-East countries and I know for a fact that there are girls there who do not get offended by that and who'd gladly have or had pre-martial sex, even if it's forbidden.

Lets not put them all in the same basket, because there is a number, and I'm guessing a big one, who aren't that conservative.
 

Fred

Senior Member
Oct 2, 2003
41,113
It's the same case in many other middle-East countries and I know for a fact that there are girls there who do not get offended by that and who'd gladly have or had pre-martial sex, even if it's forbidden.

Lets not put them all in the same basket, because there is a number, and I'm guessing a big one, who aren't that conservative.
This is true too. I thought i made it clear, i was talking about culture in the gulf.
 

Alen

Ѕenior Аdmin
Apr 2, 2007
54,023
This is true too. I thought i made it clear, i was talking about culture in the gulf.
Yeah, then just keep your mouth shut and let me explore the ground when Asma is here. Who knows, maybe she won't get offended and you can make further steps :eyebrows:

If she does get offended then I'll be the asshole and you can attack me with everything so she'll see how you defend her :p
 

GordoDeCentral

Diez
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Apr 14, 2005
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It's the same case in many other middle-East countries and I know for a fact that there are girls there who do not get offended by that and who'd gladly have or had pre-martial sex, even if it's forbidden.

Lets not put them all in the same basket, because there is a number, and I'm guessing a big one, who aren't that conservative.
you dirty pig you :D
 

Fred

Senior Member
Oct 2, 2003
41,113
Yeah, then just keep your mouth shut and let me explore the ground when Asma is here. Who knows, maybe she won't get offended and you can make further steps :eyebrows:

If she does get offended then I'll be the asshole and you can attack me with everything so she'll see how you defend her :p

You enjoy being a matchmaker or something? :p
 

swag

L'autista
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Sep 23, 2003
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There's a difference in that culture between saying "you're pretty" and "I want to have sex with you".
Fred's a traditional romantic from his cultural point of reference. I actually think it's pretty refreshing, actually.

In a culture that shoves a woman's hoochie in your TV screen for a booty call regularly, and has the phat beats that go with it, sex has been horribly commoditized rather than valued.
 

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