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Let me check the "Italien Emergency Guide"
Chapter 7, Section 3, Paragraph 4
"In the event of inclimate weather causing any type of sauce, be it meat, primavera, or pizza, to run off of its designated place at a rate higher than what is normally expected, then your sole option is to blame the Spics and Jews."
There. Problem solved.
Chapter 7, Section 3, Paragraph 4
"In the event of inclimate weather causing any type of sauce, be it meat, primavera, or pizza, to run off of its designated place at a rate higher than what is normally expected, then your sole option is to blame the Spics and Jews."
There. Problem solved.
i dont find that wierd, i think it takes a lot of strength to really hold up during funerals.
once again its not every body, reasons vary thats for sure. some times the person who is no longer with us is not of exterme closeness hence being sad to the degree of crying would be strange ( some people are emotional by nature i guess, some people r extermly emotional they can cry there way thru a movie others dont) also lets be frank sometimes when people die at an old age after living a full life its not the same as some one who had a life ahead of him but had sth else in his destiny. i believe death in many cases is for a persons benefit ( ex people with terminal diseases, where the treatment is exteremly painful. i know some here might take this the wrong way but i think there is a lot of truth to this.
from my own personal expierence, two years ago i went thru the harshest times of my entire life, i was the first to know that my sister was no longer with us due to sustaining serious injuries to a car accident. when the guy told me the news i was pretty shaken but not to the degree of breaking down and crying. i think its also partly to the fact i had no idea if my mum would meet the same fate or not and so i realized that i had to be strong and take this the right way so i can carry on thru the day. at that point my dad was in saudi a totally different country and him finding out that his only daughter passed would be a horrible judgement call. i remember feeling horrible for not shedding a single tear for my sister that day, and i stayed that way until i got a phone call from my mum 4 hours later ( trust me those 4 hours from finding out about my sister and getting my mum's call were easily the worst of my life and i doubt anything would come close to that but when i heard her voice that was teh min i let go and just cried over the phone to cut the story short i think the only time i broke down and cried like never before was during the burial phase of the funeral ( might have been the spiritual side of the event i dont know). i think its when the reality of every thing that happened just hits you. let me tell u that up until i saw that coffin i was in complete denial!! once they laid her in the ground thats when i let go as i was solid just for the sake of my mum who had barely made it thru witnessing my sister part this world.
so the conclusion is not every one who does'nt cry is a heartless person, there are times specially if u r a dominant figure at home, in my case i'm the eldest son, and its my responsibility to control my feelings so my mum and dad can get back on track and trust me there does'nt go a day with out me remembering my sister but in the same time during the grieving period i was trying my best to make my parents and brother laugh just to get the upset phase out of there system slowly bec being too upset at old age can be very serious even if u r young too much sorrow breaks a person down. ( some people never recover but once again they realize life just keeps going on with out concern to there status so the sooner u get on yr feet the better u get slowly yes but u get there in the end thru a lot of help and support from loved ones)
i have'nt cried in any ones funeral apart from sister but i def agree with u. it all depends on the situation and the closeness of the person who has parted us.
in all honesty aaron no one has put this reality in better words than you. i've been to 3 funerals of guys my age who passed away for multiple reasons and thats when u first come head to head with the reality of death. may be thats what shapes how people react to death.
i think having some one who can hold his feelings during a funeral does more help than damage. specially when dealing with adults its very important some one holds up for there sake bec it takes a lot!!
once again its not every body, reasons vary thats for sure. some times the person who is no longer with us is not of exterme closeness hence being sad to the degree of crying would be strange ( some people are emotional by nature i guess, some people r extermly emotional they can cry there way thru a movie others dont) also lets be frank sometimes when people die at an old age after living a full life its not the same as some one who had a life ahead of him but had sth else in his destiny. i believe death in many cases is for a persons benefit ( ex people with terminal diseases, where the treatment is exteremly painful. i know some here might take this the wrong way but i think there is a lot of truth to this.
from my own personal expierence, two years ago i went thru the harshest times of my entire life, i was the first to know that my sister was no longer with us due to sustaining serious injuries to a car accident. when the guy told me the news i was pretty shaken but not to the degree of breaking down and crying. i think its also partly to the fact i had no idea if my mum would meet the same fate or not and so i realized that i had to be strong and take this the right way so i can carry on thru the day. at that point my dad was in saudi a totally different country and him finding out that his only daughter passed would be a horrible judgement call. i remember feeling horrible for not shedding a single tear for my sister that day, and i stayed that way until i got a phone call from my mum 4 hours later ( trust me those 4 hours from finding out about my sister and getting my mum's call were easily the worst of my life and i doubt anything would come close to that but when i heard her voice that was teh min i let go and just cried over the phone to cut the story short i think the only time i broke down and cried like never before was during the burial phase of the funeral ( might have been the spiritual side of the event i dont know). i think its when the reality of every thing that happened just hits you. let me tell u that up until i saw that coffin i was in complete denial!! once they laid her in the ground thats when i let go as i was solid just for the sake of my mum who had barely made it thru witnessing my sister part this world.
so the conclusion is not every one who does'nt cry is a heartless person, there are times specially if u r a dominant figure at home, in my case i'm the eldest son, and its my responsibility to control my feelings so my mum and dad can get back on track and trust me there does'nt go a day with out me remembering my sister but in the same time during the grieving period i was trying my best to make my parents and brother laugh just to get the upset phase out of there system slowly bec being too upset at old age can be very serious even if u r young too much sorrow breaks a person down. ( some people never recover but once again they realize life just keeps going on with out concern to there status so the sooner u get on yr feet the better u get slowly yes but u get there in the end thru a lot of help and support from loved ones)
i have'nt cried in any ones funeral apart from sister but i def agree with u. it all depends on the situation and the closeness of the person who has parted us.
in all honesty aaron no one has put this reality in better words than you. i've been to 3 funerals of guys my age who passed away for multiple reasons and thats when u first come head to head with the reality of death. may be thats what shapes how people react to death.
i think having some one who can hold his feelings during a funeral does more help than damage. specially when dealing with adults its very important some one holds up for there sake bec it takes a lot!!