Osman

Koul Khara!
Aug 30, 2002
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So if the girl texted you first you'd like it?
It has happend on occasions, and yes, its fine. Personal opinion and all, cant speak for how others read into it, and it would be cliche (and in some cases, prolly true to the cliche, negative cliche, desperate or easy lay, though not necessarily negative :D, positive one, really really likes you).

Ofcourse depends on how you met the girl (but if you bothered to exchange numbers, it would entail some interest), and what she texts, but generally good in my experience (refreshing to take initiative instead of play games).
 

Bjerknes

"Top Economist"
Mar 16, 2004
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Hey Greg, thought you'd be happy to know that gold futures gapped down $20 on large volume tonight, along with the USD being down, breaking correlation. Something is rotten in the state of Gold bugs. ;)
 

fabianaceeee

Senior Member
Nov 1, 2009
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It has happend on occasions, and yes, its fine. Personal opinion and all, cant speak for how others read into it, and it would be cliche (and in some cases, prolly true to the cliche, negative cliche, desperate or easy lay, though not necessarily negative :D, positive one, really really likes you).

Ofcourse depends on how you met the girl (but if you bothered to exchange numbers, it would entail some interest), and what she texts, but generally good in my experience (refreshing to take initiative instead of play games).
Interesting, what kind of texts would be good?

Hehe, sorry, but that cliched attitude is rather off putting.
I know :( unfortunately I'm 100% cliche
 

Osman

Koul Khara!
Aug 30, 2002
61,509
You know, in a silly reunion I went to recently, or meeting old classmates I havent seen in a while, I had one or two convo's where a girl says she liked me back then and wondered why I never did anything. And thats because they were generally trying to play games too much, play uninterested at first, or expecting to be dolled on (for appearance sake or whatever). Its quite offputting, few are worth it :D And in that case ze "hunt may be fun :D But offputting in general, especially if one overdoes it. Just too vain.
 

Osman

Koul Khara!
Aug 30, 2002
61,509
And my experience is highschool stuff or even before that, I would think such childish attitude would be left behind one grows up (girls in general can subtly be like that, but overdoing it vainly is the childish part).
 

fabianaceeee

Senior Member
Nov 1, 2009
670
You know, in a silly reunion I went to recently, or meeting old classmates I havent seen in a while, I had one or two convo's where a girl says she liked me back then and wondered why I never did anything. And thats because they were generally trying to play games too much, play uninterested at first, or expecting to be dolled on (for appearance sake or whatever). Its quite offputting, few are worth it :D And in that case ze "hunt may be fun :D But offputting in general, especially if one overdoes it. Just too vain.
See, but I'm asking you guys what you think of a girl texting you first and you're saying "desperate!", "easy lay!", "really really likes me" ... And I'm saying that to avoid that I'd rather not do anything and just wait for the guy to do something first and now you say it's all cliche and nonsense :sergio:
 

GordoDeCentral

Diez
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Apr 14, 2005
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See, but I'm asking you guys what you think of a girl texting you first and you're saying "desperate!", "easy lay!", "really really likes me" ... And I'm saying that to avoid that I'd rather not do anything and just wait for the guy to do something first and now you say it's all cliche and nonsense :sergio:


but who doesnt like an "easy lay"? :D



on another note wheres vinman :p
 

Osman

Koul Khara!
Aug 30, 2002
61,509
Well I said those things because I figure that may be some cliche ways some read into (and in some cases, it may be true, in terms of easy lays :D and that has nothing to do with texting first or not, just know), not me persé at all. Already said its fine in general, prefer it.

And well you didnt say you just prefer the guy to text you first, but to expect him to do "all the work", and thats just downright silly shit, ecept to be dotted on. May have the reverse effect.
 

fabianaceeee

Senior Member
Nov 1, 2009
670
Well I said those things because I figure that may be some cliche ways some read into (and in some cases, it may be true, in terms of easy lays :D and that has nothing to do with texting first or not, just know), not me persé at all. Already said its fine in general, prefer it.

And well you didnt say you just prefer the guy to text you first, but to expect him to do "all the work", and thats just downright silly shit, ecept to be dotted on. May have the reverse effect.
Ohhh okay :)

With doing all the work I meant at first, like contacting me first, then after that it has to be mutual
 

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