RIP to all the Sharons who got burned to a crisp. It's similar here with the Kathrins. Dermatologists are gonna have a field day
Usually Radiation Lobster Melanoma Fest happens down here in Portugal, where many Brits feel cheated on their vacation if they didn't come home needing skin grafts on 70% of their pale Beluga whale bodies. But in this era of de-globalization and Brexit, it looks like the UK is now building an effective local supply chain.
Well, I just broke up with my girlfriend. I was upfront and told her how I felt - that the spark was gone and I'm not being fair to her by giving less than I get... I still love her I think, I just don't know if I'm in love. I also don't know if I made a mistake. I guess time will tell.
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4 years together, holy fuck
Congrats. I think. No, I think this is the sort of confused decision that isn't taken lightly and if your guts and heart took you this far, you're being honest with yourself and not just her.
Having kids is gay. Ask
@swag
True. But the kids aren't gay. The parents are.
Becoming one of those is like Kafka's
The Metamorphosis, except you're better off waking up as a cockroach.
I think the prospect of getting other coochie is what got me here.
I can see that happening. Very easy. Your choices in life are either the endless hunt for new coochie now and then ... or finding ways to make it work with an existing one long term, knowing that familiarity is going to be a boner-killer over time and you're still gonna oggle dat random hoochie like you're still 17 years old.
And you're gonna meet a lot of hot chicas who, after you are satiated with that urge, you will find lame and boring and will want to simply eat their heads off like a female preying mantis. It can be a weird phenomenon. As a friend once put it (he had been with the same woman for 30+ years and yet never married), "I fall in love every day, but
liking a person... that's really rare."
I think when you get a bit older you realise that that phrase is meaningless. It's impossible to be in love all the time. Maybe if you're Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively it happens, but it doesn't for most. You'll find that love lasts much longer, but it involves making rational choices about your partner.
I'd say it changes. Life changes. Priorities change. What you want changes. You still get those high school hormone ragers, but you get wiser about the horrors that typically lie underneath the surface... and inevitably follow.
Lack of testosterons in this thread.
But plenty of chicharrones.