Lilith

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May 19, 2006
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Everyone likes to party

even super-secret ultra clandestine societies
Apparently.


@Lilith

I'm surprised you aren't married yet, those guys in Trini are seriously retarded. So many hideous girls with even uglier personalities are married to chumps.

'til death do us part? :scared: Anyway who knows, maybe one day. At one point the idea of a relationship scared the hell outta me too.
 

Byrone

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Dec 19, 2005
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could be worse, at least you're not a paki :D
:D

Maybe in India or Pakistan those issues still play a big role in acceptance but things have changed for couples over here.

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'til death do us part? :scared: Anyway who knows, maybe one day. At one point the idea of a relationship scared the hell outta me too.
So you're still picky.:D
 

Dostoevsky

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May 27, 2007
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So you're still picky.:D
Unlike you.


:D

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We'll see how this one goes. My dad hates him. And I am being nice by using "hate". Should be interesting. :D

How about you? How goes it on your end?
Would you end up saying guy no if he asks you to marry him? Considering your dads opinion of course.

Because both of us know his opinion won't change. :D
 

Byrone

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Dec 19, 2005
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We'll see how this one goes. My dad hates him. And I am being nice by using "hate". Should be interesting. :D

How about you? How goes it on your end?
Ah having to please the parents. I've long abandoned that notion. What's so undesireable about this man?

My life is a joke right now, thinking about it makes me want to barf. Countless problems with poor decisions & having to deal with the consequences of those decisions.:D

Of course I am. Although I'm honest with myself, I simply can't sustain a relationship right now & my track record with party girls is abysmal.:D
 

Lilith

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Would you end up saying guy no if he asks you to marry him? Considering your dads opinion of course.

Because both of us know his opinion won't change. :D

Good question. I don't know...it kinda took months of what he termed "dating" and I termed "hanging out" to agree to even be his girlfriend because I wasn't interested in a relationship. I wonder if the married people have any advice on how do you know you're not making a big fat mistake?
 

Dostoevsky

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Good question. I don't know...it kinda took months of what he termed "dating" and I termed "hanging out" to agree to even be his girlfriend because I wasn't interested in a relationship. I wonder if the married people have any advice on how do you know you're not making a big fat mistake?
I highly doubt anyone knows that. Marriage is always a gamble IMO, especially if you're a guy. :D

You can be in love, both of you, but that's still like 50-50 chance it's gonna sustain. It's what I think at least.
 

Lilith

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May 19, 2006
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Ah having to please the parents. I've long abandoned that notion. What's so undesireable about this man?

My life is a joke right now, thinking about it makes me want to barf. Countless problems with poor decisions & having to deal with the consequences of those decisions.:D



Of course I am. Although I'm honest with myself, I simply can't sustain a relationship right now & my track record with party girls is abysmal.:D

Forget the party girls and date a good one instead. :p


As for my dad's problem, it's a stupid, silly one of culture/religion etc. He really needs to get out of the stone age. It's so bad though that he won't show up at some events if he knows the bf is there. It was pretty funny to see them attempt to be civil one day. My jaw literally dropped.

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I highly doubt anyone knows that. Marriage is always a gamble IMO, especially if you're a guy. :D

You can be in love, both of you, but that's still like 50-50 chance it's gonna sustain. It's what I think at least.
Bigger gamble if you're the girl. :D You're stuck with this hairy creature who lies on the couch all day. :D
 

Dostoevsky

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Forget the party girls and date a good one instead. :p


As for my dad's problem, it's a stupid, silly one of culture/religion etc. He really needs to get out of the stone age. It's so bad though that he won't show up at some events if he knows the bf is there. It was pretty funny to see them attempt to be civil one day. My jaw literally dropped.
Yeah that gotta such. But it's really hard, I think it's pretty screwed up if you're in a (serious) relationship and he's not in good terms with your parents. But it's also sad if you decide to ditch him cause of your dad opinion. Pretty sucky situation for you lol.

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Bigger gamble if you're the girl. :D You're stuck with this hairy creature who lies on the couch all day. :D
Because that couch is busy so you can't go lie down? :D
 

ALC

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Good question. I don't know...it kinda took months of what he termed "dating" and I termed "hanging out" to agree to even be his girlfriend because I wasn't interested in a relationship. I wonder if the married people have any advice on how do you know you're not making a big fat mistake?
lol if it feels like a big fat mistake it probably is.
 

Byrone

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Dec 19, 2005
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Forget the party girls and date a good one instead. :p


As for my dad's problem, it's a stupid, silly one of culture/religion etc. He really needs to get out of the stone age. It's so bad though that he won't show up at some events if he knows the bf is there. It was pretty funny to see them attempt to be civil one day. My jaw literally dropped.

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Bigger gamble if you're the girl. :D You're stuck with this hairy creature who lies on the couch all day. :D
I know lots of them but they want to be house wives & that's not for me. It's very hard to find someone that's ambitious & actually a nice person.:D

Good luck with your dad, it's gonna be a bumpy road. My parents are just as traditional & set in their ways, that's why I've given up on pleasing them.
 

Dostoevsky

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I know lots of them but they want to be house wives & that's not for me. It's very hard to find someone that's ambitious & actually a nice person.:D

Good luck with your dad, it's gonna be a bumpy road. My parents are just as traditional & set in their ways, that's why I've given up on pleasing them.
What does that mean? Like doing nothing and spending your money? Every girl here is a house wife.
 

Lilith

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Because that couch is busy so you can't go lie down? :D
You know it. :p

It's a sucky situation to be in because my dad is one of my favourite people alive. He was so mad at me when he found out but he has cooled off considerably since then. Anyway as long as he is talking to me that's all I care about. There are still a lot of issues to be sorted out but maybe one day. My aunts had some pretty nasty stuff to say to me but they don't matter in the least. Let's just say being in this relationship has been on the stressful side. So far the bf has been nice but if that ever changes he will be kicked to the curb, especially after all the stress and tears with my dad...

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lol if it feels like a big fat mistake it probably is.
Unfortunately sometimes you don't find out that kind of crap til years later.

I know lots of them but they want to be house wives & that's not for me. It's very hard to find someone that's ambitious & actually a nice person.:D
Seriously? Not one of them? I am sure there must be.
 

Byrone

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What does that mean? Like doing nothing and spending your money? Every girl here is a house wife.
Exactly that. We both know how that ends. We both get fat, I cheat, she cheats. We get divorced, she takes my belongings/money becuase she's accustomed to that lifestyle & yet I can't continue to have sex with her because I was accustomed to having sex on special occasions like christmas & nye.
 

Dostoevsky

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You know it. :p

It's a sucky situation to be in because my dad is one of my favourite people alive. He was so mad at me when he found out but he has cooled off considerably since then. Anyway as long as he is talking to me that's all I care about. There are still a lot of issues to be sorted out but maybe one day. My aunts had some pretty nasty stuff to say to me but they don't matter in the least. Let's just say being in this relationship has been on the stressful side. So far the bf has been nice but if that ever changes he will be kicked to the curb, especially after all the stress and tears with my dad...
Well, good luck with that. It's a lot of trouble so hopefully the guy is well worth it. :tup: As for your dad, he will probably cool off even more with the time, he's probably being over protective at this point.
 

Byrone

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You know it. :p

It's a sucky situation to be in because my dad is one of my favourite people alive. He was so mad at me when he found out but he has cooled off considerably since then. Anyway as long as he is talking to me that's all I care about. There are still a lot of issues to be sorted out but maybe one day. My aunts had some pretty nasty stuff to say to me but they don't matter in the least. Let's just say being in this relationship has been on the stressful side. So far the bf has been nice but if that ever changes he will be kicked to the curb, especially after all the stress and tears with my dad...

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Unfortunately sometimes you don't find out that kind of crap til years later.



Seriously? Not one of them? I am sure there must be.
Probably, I must be giving off the wrong vibes.:p
 

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