But that's not practical. How many partners have you had who met with an accident that left them paralysed? How many people in this forum have had such a partner? I'd imagine 0.
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But those conditions you talk about are very extreme Kate. And even then it's hardly justifiable. You put your trust in someone and that someone puts their trust in you, then breaking it is the biggest sin... Hello btw 
Hey, I watched a documentary on them the other day, it happens! And the whole thing rather stuck in my mind. But if it happened to James, I would feel as if it were cheating for me to go off and have sex with someone else.
In a number of cases, cheating is a sign of emotional immaturity of not being able to confront issues head on. It's like the employee at a company who hates his job but doesn't have the balls to tell his boss and see if he can make it better -- it's just easier and more convenient to not confront it and take another job. Often in those cases of both relationships and employment, you're typically dealing with someone who is unable to escape themselves -- as the same or similar problems appear with the next girlfriend, the next job, etc.
In cases like that, the cheating isn't so much an emotional attachment as it is an escape, as Kate mentions. If the cheater can realize how f*ed up they are in being able to manage themselves and confront problems better directly, that could be reason to take them back if the offended partner otherwise sees too much good to lose along with the bad. But that partner sure as well won't trust the cheater, and the cheater is going to have to earn it like hell ... and may never get full trust ever again.
In cases like that, the cheating isn't so much an emotional attachment as it is an escape, as Kate mentions. If the cheater can realize how f*ed up they are in being able to manage themselves and confront problems better directly, that could be reason to take them back if the offended partner otherwise sees too much good to lose along with the bad. But that partner sure as well won't trust the cheater, and the cheater is going to have to earn it like hell ... and may never get full trust ever again.
There's a difference between 'psycho-bitch' and girl that stands up for themselves. It's not black and white. Murdering your ex's cat is not the same a landing a right hook on the slut he slept with, if you catch my drift.
People fail to live up to these lofty ambitions even half the time, everybody is 'petty' to a certain extent. You can interact with people in an adult manner but if they refuse to reciprocate you shouldn't consider paying the respect of being your equal. Your girl cheats, dump her, on the spot. No need to be petty if it's in isolation. It show such a lack of self-respect to let somebody act like that toward you over an extended period of time. It's psychological and social self-defence rather than a vendetta.
Also, if somebody says let's buy a Burger from a street vendor at 4am, kick them in the vagina
People fail to live up to these lofty ambitions even half the time, everybody is 'petty' to a certain extent. You can interact with people in an adult manner but if they refuse to reciprocate you shouldn't consider paying the respect of being your equal. Your girl cheats, dump her, on the spot. No need to be petty if it's in isolation. It show such a lack of self-respect to let somebody act like that toward you over an extended period of time. It's psychological and social self-defence rather than a vendetta.
Also, if somebody says let's buy a Burger from a street vendor at 4am, kick them in the vagina
I'm so tempted to write down my history with these 2 girls between 2006-08, it was all so fucked up.
It ended up with me breaking up with the most amazing girl ive ever been with,because i cheated on her. I regret it almost every passing day. Strange thing is i knew if i begged i would have easily got back together but knew it wouldnt be the same again. As much as i wanted it i just let it go.
It ended up with me breaking up with the most amazing girl ive ever been with,because i cheated on her. I regret it almost every passing day. Strange thing is i knew if i begged i would have easily got back together but knew it wouldnt be the same again. As much as i wanted it i just let it go.
De nada.
Standing up for yourself means knowing when a person is toxic and your future interactions with them will only be toxic as well.
But what do you really achieve by murdering an ex's cat or giving her a black eye? What does that solve or fix? If the problem is your own sense of being wronged, isn't that problem internal -- you -- and not external -- her?
No argument there, though. I just think the revenge fantasies are childish bullshit. They only give a false sense of reciprocation while making both parties look like petty idiots.
Standing up for yourself means knowing when a person is toxic and your future interactions with them will only be toxic as well.
But what do you really achieve by murdering an ex's cat or giving her a black eye? What does that solve or fix? If the problem is your own sense of being wronged, isn't that problem internal -- you -- and not external -- her?
No argument there, though. I just think the revenge fantasies are childish bullshit. They only give a false sense of reciprocation while making both parties look like petty idiots.
