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Vicky

Senior Member
Jan 9, 2004
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#61
honesty is a part of personality too

hmm you guys say there is a lot of great looking people with great personalities and i disagree with that
IMO it's very hard to find a person that you'd match personalities with, and i'm not saying that it should be someone who's just like you, no just someone you would get along with and enjoy spending time with no matter what you're doing.
i only know a few people like that
and well when you do find a person with a great personality looks won't matter anymore
appearance is just the first step
like i know that i most of the times can tell if i could get along with someone by just looking at them or watching them talk for a few seconds.
after that i wouldn't care about what they look like
 

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kaizer

Senior Member
Nov 1, 2003
2,973
#63
++ [ originally posted by MiaWallace ] ++
IMO it's very hard to find a person that you'd match personalities with, and i'm not saying that it should be someone who's just like you, no just someone you would get along with and enjoy spending time with no matter what you're doing.
i found a guy like that, we're totally "compatible"......i really enjoy being with him. sometimes it's almost like we share the same brain or summink :p

but, i dont "feel" anything for him....now we're only frens :) and i can go crying to him whenever i feel like it


btw, i can unclog the sink myself ;) but why bother doing it when some else can do it for u :D
 

Vicky

Senior Member
Jan 9, 2004
1,566
#64
haha well i found one like that too about 2 years ago
and i'm still with him (of course)
but you don't see them perfect guys every day :) so me n you are lucky

and if i ever move in with him i'll probably be the one unclogging the sink lol
just get that feeling you know ?
 

baggio

Senior Member
Jun 3, 2003
19,250
#65
Kaizer thats a good thing. Your admitting you need the wealth, i admire that. What u c is what u get.

I dunno ppl, i think all of us are hypocrites when it comes to looks. There's no doubt id go with personality and intellect over looks, but i dont think looks would lose out to much else on that list.

Would you guys agree?

Cmon, when we say, oh my look at her, shes got this thing abt her or whatever. We wudnt even realise the girl existed if she wasnt good enuff to look at in the first place.
 

Vicky

Senior Member
Jan 9, 2004
1,566
#66
"that thing about her" is called charm
plus after you get to know someone you can't really judge their looks you just find things about their looks that you like and you pay more attention to that and you don't see what you don't like... or atleast that's how it works with me
 

kaizer

Senior Member
Nov 1, 2003
2,973
#67
++ [ originally posted by baggio ] ++
Kaizer thats a good thing. Your admitting you need the wealth, i admire that. What u c is what u get.

I dunno ppl, i think all of us are hypocrites when it comes to looks. There's no doubt id go with personality and intellect over looks, but i dont think looks would lose out to much else on that list.

Would you guys agree?

Cmon, when we say, oh my look at her, shes got this thing abt her or whatever. We wudnt even realise the girl existed if she wasnt good enuff to look at in the first place.
well to me, money is important baggio. even if the guy has gr8 personality, charming or whatever.....but he is doesnt have the money to support me, and i have to be the one doing the "supporting", then i dont see why i need stick to that kind of relationship....rite? i'm not talking bout being f*cked up rich, but just enuff for the both of us :)


and yes, i think looks are important.....it's 1st impression really. if the guy is hideous, than i wudnt have noticed him in the 1st place :D after i get to know him, if he's gr8 then it's a bonus rite? after that only looks take a back seat. but as i sed previously, he doesnt have to be drop dead handsome
 

Majed

Senior Member
Jul 17, 2002
9,630
#68
++ [ originally posted by kaizer ] ++


well to me, money is important baggio. even if the guy has gr8 personality, charming or whatever.....but he is doesnt have the money to support me, and i have to be the one doing the "supporting", then i dont see why i need stick to that kind of relationship....rite? i'm not talking bout being f*cked up rich, but just enuff for the both of us :)


and yes, i think looks are important.....it's 1st impression really. if the guy is hideous, than i wudnt have noticed him in the 1st place :D after i get to know him, if he's gr8 then it's a bonus rite? after that only looks take a back seat. but as i sed previously, he doesnt have to be drop dead handsome
:eek: you're a she?!?


<--- :wallbang: how could i not have noticed :angel:
 

kaizer

Senior Member
Nov 1, 2003
2,973
#69
++ [ originally posted by Majed ] ++


:eek: you're a she?!?


<--- :wallbang: how could i not have noticed :angel:
:LOL: majed.....how cud u? :D i'm practically an open book :p



haha well i found one like that too about 2 years ago
and i'm still with him (of course) but you don't see them perfect guys every day so me n you are lucky
mia, lucky u....unlucky me :D we (the guy and me) tried to make it work, but there just wasnt an "attraction". so we thot we're better off as buddies
 

nina

Senior Member
Feb 18, 2001
3,717
#71
++ [ originally posted by kaizer ] ++
well to me, money is important baggio. even if the guy has gr8 personality, charming or whatever.....but he is doesnt have the money to support me, and i have to be the one doing the "supporting", then i dont see why i need stick to that kind of relationship....rite? i'm not talking bout being f*cked up rich, but just enuff for the both of us :)
:LOL: :rolleyes:

For both of you? I suppose you're not going to school then or planning to get any kind of education and find yourself a job and support yourself!? Your thinking is way behind this centuary IMVHO.

Don't know about you, but I'm too proud to let a man support me.
 

kaizer

Senior Member
Nov 1, 2003
2,973
#75
++ [ originally posted by nina ] ++

:LOL: :rolleyes:

For both of you? I suppose you're not going to school then or planning to get any kind of education and find yourself a job and support yourself!? Your thinking is way behind this centuary IMVHO.

Don't know about you, but I'm too proud to let a man support me.
i am in college, dont worry.....:D

nina, i dont mean it that way. i mean, for him to take me to dinners, watch movies etc. not like, let him pay for every damn thing that i want. so, wanting a guy with money means i dont wanna work for it myself, i dont wanna have a life?

suddenly i'm being critized for being honest that i wud want my guy to have a job, a stability. sorry, i shud have explained it clearly.....damn, my english no good :D


erik, why are u asking? :frown:
 

Tom

The DJ
Oct 30, 2001
11,726
#77
Thats very old fashioned. if the bloke wants to pay for your every meal etc then fair play to him, but you can hardly turn people down because they expect you to foot the bill sometimes!
 

Zizou

Senior Member
Apr 21, 2003
3,965
#79
Wow reading this thread makes you wonder how shallow people can be in judging others.

Mind you there are some people who have said some really good things but then there are others who I on`t know how to classify! I blame it on their age.

Personally I like girls with personality over looks. Ok if they also have looks then that's extra cool but it's not so common and usually those that have the looks think to greatly of themselves and like to put others down.

Right now I'm going out with two different girls (obviously they don`t know about each other). None of them is a top model in looks, but I enjoy their company (apart from other things) though one of them has a great body and the other has nice tits. But bottom line is that if I had to judge people just by looks I`d probably wouldn`t have gone out with 3/4 of the girls I went out with.
 

Zlatan

Senior Member
Jun 9, 2003
23,049
#80
++ [ originally posted by Zizou ] ++
Wow reading this thread makes you wonder how shallow people can be in judging others.
++ [ originally posted by Zizou ] ++

though one of them has a great body and the other has nice tits.
Look who's talking :p



++ [ originally posted by Zizou ] ++

But bottom line is that if I had to judge people just by looks I`d probably wouldn`t have gone out with 3/4 of the girls I went out with.
Hey dude, if the girls judged you by your looks you wouldnt have gone out with 1/10 of them :p
 

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