The Perfect Guy (8 Viewers)

gray

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++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++
maybe yes.

but i wouldn't like to marry him.

i want the best for me and my future family
I meant if he were to lose his job and his money after you'd married him
 

gray

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++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++

gray...
i am just 17...
how am able to know now...????
Because all of you seem to know exactly what criteria a guy must fulfill to be good enough for you, but I somehow doubt that you can say with confidence that you'd stay with a loved one if he was in an accident that disfigured his face, or if he lost all his wealth.

Just an observation, i'm not trying to criticise anyone here
 

Lilianna

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++ [ originally posted by Graham ] ++


Because all of you seem to know exactly what criteria a guy must fulfill to be good enough for you, but I somehow doubt that you can say with confidence that you'd stay with a loved one if he was in an accident that disfigured his face, or if he lost all his wealth.

Just an observation, i'm not trying to criticise anyone here
same for the guys...
if your gf would gain 15 kilos...
it wouldn't be nice,would it...??

and the perfect guy is theoretical,we've talked about it a million times.

since this moment,we haven't found him
and i think none of us is looking for him....cause he simply doesn;t exist...

you can never know what you want from a person until you find him.

and i never thought i would be able to have ashirt bf but the last guy i liked veeeery much was just few cm taller than me and it didn;t bother me at all....

so....neither the girls,nor the boys can KNOW for sure what they wan from the opposite sex
 

gray

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++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++

same for the guys...
if your gf would gain 15 kilos...
it wouldn't be nice,would it...??
But if you were to ask me if i'd love her any less, the answer would be no without hesitation. Now compare this with your answer to my question about your guy losing all his money:

++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++
gray...
i am just 17...
how am able to know now...????
Whether you're 17 or 27, IMO you should have your morals and values pretty much established, and I think it's sad that anyone would consider leaving a person because they don't have as much money as they used to :down:
 

Slagathor

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++ [ originally posted by kaizer ] ++
well if u say wanting a future husband that is average looking, with a decent and stable job, and a fun-loving personality is highly unrealistic.....so be it m8
Actually I was referring to the money bit but maybe I misunderstood? :undecide:
 

Layce Erayce

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ok here is my theory: a woman's idea of the perfect man is in essence another woman.

why? elementary- when you ask a girl what she wants in a man, you are bound to come across terms such as "sensitive", "loving", "caring", "intelligent", "good looking", "funny", etc

now lets contrast and compare between two important members of a man's circle of friends- his girl, and his drinking buddy. check the person you feel most fits this description.

________________GIRL________DRINKING BUDDY
sensitive?
loving?
caring?
intelligent?
good looking?

I didnt put funny in there because guy buddies are funnier. But think about this- would your girlfriend laugh at any of the jokes your guy-friends would tell?

Right.
 

Zizou

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Zlatan - Whatever you say kid ;)

Nina - :confused:

Graham - Why sad? I'm not ready to get into a serious relationship after my last experience. I just want to enjoy myself before getting into something that big so I'll know I'm ready without having any regrets. It might be in a year time, a month's time or even tomorrow but right now this is my situation.

Vicky - And why am I shallow? I said it, I don't go out with girls based on looks. I enjoy more a night full of good discussions rather that just sexual stuff. Secondly I didn't use what you call the rockstar thing to get them as I'm not a rockstar. And what's with all these personal attacks? I don't remember ever throwing your rattle out of your pram.

Baggio - Beauty is subjective so what you consider butt ugly might be considered nice or average by others.
 

gray

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Apr 22, 2003
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++ [ originally posted by Josh ] ++
ok here is my theory: a woman's idea of the perfect man is in essence another woman.

why? elementary- when you ask a girl what she wants in a man, you are bound to come across terms such as "sensitive", "loving", "caring", "intelligent", "good looking", "funny", etc
I knew it! They're all dykes deep down inside!

Very interesting Josh, I've never seen it that way
 

Dragon

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Age doesnt matter and neither does money, but as Ive grown up Ive realized older men (20 and up) are better. My friends are mostly 18, 19 but I'd never date any of them
 

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