since i'm 'back', re-intro. (1 Viewer)

[Slagathor]

++ [ originally posted by snoop ] ++
well these are personal things,that makes you feel rergret or ashamed. you can talk (if you really need to) with your friends,but I don't get why would someone tell these on forums?I had some of these problems that mentioned here,and I don't feel proud of them to tell it here :undecide:

I'm not proud but I'm also not ashamed. I'm a relatively good person nowadays and that's what also helped me get here.

 

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[Ian]

++ [ originally posted by snoop ] ++
well these are personal things,that makes you feel rergret or ashamed. you can talk (if you really need to) with your friends,but I don't get why would someone tell these on forums?I had some of these problems that mentioned here,and I don't feel proud of them to tell it here :undecide:

Personally, I'm totally fine with everything that I've done in my life. It took me a long time to get to that point. I didn't post what I did with any concern for pride. I try to be an open and honest person. I don't have any problem with anyone knowing whatever they would like to know about me, whether they happen to be a forum poster, or a geezer on the street, or my best friend.

 

[Pete]

Oh don't get me wrong, I'm past my 'experimental' phase..I have a bottle of lager twice a week if that, when not on a night out and haven't touched the green stuff for about 2 years. As for sex, for me..sex is a good thing, nothing to be ashamed of. Meaningless sex with a person you don't actually feel anything for is the wrong...man, I need a girlfriend.
Oh and Z, I salute you.

 

[nedved34]

++ [ originally posted by Ian ] ++


Why pass judgement man? I mean, we're all here communicating with people from all around the world in one of the most free atmospheres available. If it's entertaining or pointless or earth-shattering, what's the difference. All of this stuff is what we make of it, so why make it pathetic when you could make it a unique social experience.

actually,that "super cool" thing I meant for one person. she keep tells to everyone 24/7 that she is on drugs etc. etc. that one is pathetic..

 

[Tom]

++ [ originally posted by Pete ] ++
As for sex, for me..sex is a good thing, nothing to be ashamed of. Meaningless sex with a person you don't actually feel anything for is the wrong...

Why? I mean if its two consenting adullts after a bit of fun... neither of them in a committed relationship I don't see any problem with it.

 

[Ian]

++ [ originally posted by snoop ] ++
actually,that "super cool" thing I meant for one person. she keep tells to everyone 24/7 that she is on drugs etc. etc. that one is pathetic..

I don't understand that either. If she is on drugs all the time, then that's obviously a huge part of her life, so why is it pathetic for here to talk about it?

 

[Ian]

++ [ originally posted by Tom ] ++
Why? I mean if its two consenting adullts after a bit of fun... neither of them in a committed relationship I don't see any problem with it.

I agree, Tom. But, there is something to be said for the fact that sex is better with love. I don't care what people tell you, but marriage can be the best thing ever. If you've got a girl who loves you as much as you love her, then there's nothing better and that gets you the best sex you can possibly imagine...

 

[Slagathor]

++ [ originally posted by Tom ] ++
Why? I mean if its two consenting adullts after a bit of fun... neither of them in a committed relationship I don't see any problem with it.

Yeah I'm gonna have to agree with that.

Otherwise I'd be in trouble

 

[Nicole]

The things you've done in your past make you the person you are now

 

[nedved34]

++ [ originally posted by Ian ] ++


I don't understand that either. If she is on drugs all the time, then that's obviously a huge part of her life, so why is it pathetic for here to talk about it?

I am not against drugs or drug addicts,but like I said,when you keep tell everyone that you are on drug (to show that you are cool),that's pathetic.. look at the first post to understand what I mean

 

[Tom]

++ [ originally posted by Ian ] ++
I agree, Tom. But, there is something to be said for the fact that sex is better with love. I don't care what people tell you, but marriage can be the best thing ever. If you've got a girl who loves you as much as you love her, then there's nothing better and that gets you the best sex you can possibly imagine...

Yeah I can certainly imagine that to be true, and look forward to the day immensely. For the time being though meaningless one night stands will have to suffice.

 

[Pete]

++ [ originally posted by Tom ] ++


Why? I mean if its two consenting adullts after a bit of fun... neither of them in a committed relationship I don't see any problem with it.

It just seems a bit shallow to me..you should at least know the person, have some sort of emotional attachment to her/him. I mean, I hear myself backtracking as over the summer I screwed about with my nextdoor neighbour's sister - I'm not going to marry her or anything, but I've had feelings for her for some time. It ain't love (ugh - I feel inclined to finish this sentence; 'why does it feel so good')..but it's something.
I just don't like: Boy meets girl in club. Boy says; 'wanna fuck?'. Girl obliges.

 

[Ian]

++ [ originally posted by snoop ] ++
I am not against drugs or drug addicts,but like I said,when you keep tell everyone that you are on drug (to show that you are cool),that's pathetic.. look at the first post to understand what I mean

I don't know man, I mean drugs like cannabis and mushrooms can have a serious affect on a person, changing their whole outlook on life, most times for the better. If drugs make you cool, then so be it. Not everyone is born cool, and even if not everyone craves coolness. I just don't think that it's pathetic to try to be cool, nor do I think that drug use is a bad way to go about it.

 

[Ian]

++ [ originally posted by Tom ] ++
Yeah I can certainly imagine that to be true, and look forward to the day immensely. For the time being though meaningless one night stands will have to suffice.

Right on, that's the spirit.

 

[swag]

I suppose taking drugs is cool until later in life when they end up being prescriptions for Lipitor and Viagra...

 

[Nicole]

Its no-one's business of whether someone wants to take drugs or not, and you dont have the right to talk about someone when they at least had the nerves to post all the things they done.

 

[Tom]

++ [ originally posted by Pete ] ++
It just seems a bit shallow to me..you should at least know the person, have some sort of emotional attachment to her/him. I mean, I hear myself backtracking as over the summer I screwed about with my nextdoor neighbour's sister - I'm not going to marry her or anything, but I've had feelings for her for some time. It ain't love (ugh - I feel inclined to finish this sentence; 'why does it feel so good')..but it's something.
I just don't like: Boy meets girl in club. Boy says; 'wanna fuck?'. Girl obliges.

Hmm.. you seem to fall somewhere in the middle of this particular debate. On the one hand there's your example in bold, then obviously there's the no sex before marriage theory. I can see where you're coming from - in an ideal world there will always be love or feelings in a good sexual relationship. Sometimes however if you need to relieve sexual tension and you're not wanting to enter into a committed relationship - there's only one way forward and that suits me to the ground.

 

[Ian]

++ [ originally posted by swag ] ++
I suppose taking drugs is cool until later in life when they end up being prescriptions for Lipitor and Viagra...

That's the great part about drugs usually, they end up sending you to the next great adventure before that unfortunate problem besets you.

 

[Nicole]

Its not my thing, but in my opinion, if 2 people are consensual, then although I dont agree with one-night stand there isnt really a problem with them.

 

[Ian]

++ [ originally posted by Tom ] ++
Hmm.. you seem to fall somewhere in the middle of this particular debate. On the one hand there's your example in bold, then obviously there's the no sex before marriage theory. I can see where you're coming from - in an ideal world there will always be love or feelings in a good sexual relationship. Sometimes however if you need to relieve sexual tension and you're not wanting to enter into a committed relationship - there's only one way forward and that suits me to the ground.

I don't know mate, I don't think that much thought goes into it. I mean, when I used to shop myself around (if you know what I mean), it had more to do with alchohol and hormones than conscious thought. I mean, I would wake up and say to myself, "Huh, I wonder how this happened?" Which is not to say that I didn't remember the events of the previous evening but rather I couldn't think of my motivation to do any of the things that I'd done...