++ [ originally posted by fabiana ] ++
Life and humans are subjective, whatever I might think is right for me you can disagree with and its impossible to find a person that will think just like you do... if you dont like my "advise" dont take it... but Ill tell you something, you dont know what Ive gone through in my life to say Im not appropiate to give advise, so start thinking and proving that your IQ is too high for me whenever you say something. Every single person you meet in your life is there to teach you something, it doesnt matter if theyre 10 years younger than you and have problems, you arent perfect yourself
Bravo! You succesfully abstracted the specific issue beyond its bounds. Maybe I'm partly to blame though.
When I said that I shouldn't take advice from you, I concede that I was too abstract with that remark. My attempt at bringing in your drinking problem and implieng that what you said is useless made me falsly associate that with your age. I really meant that you didn't have anything usefull to offer.
That said, I'm still waiting for some eye-opening pieces of advice that have passed me by. I can't take whatever I already have fabi.
Sure fabi, I don't know what you have gone through. Nor do I what anyone here in the forums, or for real, have gone through. That goes for everyone else. I'll go straight to the point. YOUR ADVICE is either old news to me, or just useless.
The IQ thing was actually a sarcastic remark. It didn't even fit in the argument when you brought it up. I honestly don't even know your IQ score to compare it with mine... not that these tests really evaluate a person's mental capabilities that well.
About your little global "observation" in bold, I don't think you're quite on spot: Not EVERYONE you meet is there to teach you something. However, ANY age group, type, whatever person COULD teach you something. Notice the difference.
Also, that last line about nobody being perfect just tops it all off. My reply: NSS.
('N' stands for "No" and the last 'S' stands for "Sherlock"... guess the rest)
PS I only give respect to those whom, in my eyes, deserve it. That applies to the forums too, but on a smaller scale of course. I try my best to avoid confrontation, but somethings I have to leak some... "assholeness."
For Martin, this issue was really dead and burried until I got a few questions about what went on and now it's dug up again (to me delight :lazy ). [sarcastic] Also, congratulations to you Martin for not pissing in the fire. [/sarcastic]
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To the rest of you guys, I appologize for disrupting your conversation. You seem to have gone on a roll and I don't mean to be in the way.
Thank you