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swag

L'autista
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Sep 23, 2003
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++ [ originally posted by jaecole ] ++
One thing I don't understand is how some people of mixed nationality are extremely patriotic to each. How is this possible? Sure there will be a respect there, but don't you just feel like for example an American that dosen't fit in in Italy? How can an american with an american accent, an american attitude and an american life consider himself Italian in such a strong way?

I say this because I spent alot of time in Ireland, the development years if you will, now I feel like an English man who just dosen't get it, I hate most English for what they are and be glad I'm not, I don't feel any real attachment to either country though I feel at home in Ireland, I feel at ease there, mostly just because my personality clashes with the English usual. That said i'm not Irish in anyway, never have been and don't want to be. Then again I've always been the alternative to everything. If I can't find a real reason I will disgard it. Therefore Tradition dosen't cut it with me.

This isn't a diss, just wanted to hear some thoughts.
It's an odd phenomenon that seems to have some things wrapped up into identity. Part of that identity is unified with others. Part of that identity is separate from others.

I grew up on the South Side of Chicago, where every ethnic group in the area wore their hyphenated American stripes proudly on jackets, T-shirts, bumper stickers, etc. Italian-Americans. Irish-Americans. Mexican-Americans. Polish-Americans. Croatian-Americans. (Yes, even some Lithuanian-Americans, which was the clan I came from.)

On the one end, they all seem to identify themselves as Americans at some point or in some situations -- and particularly when it comes down to issues on a global scale. Many will wave the U.S. flag as much as anyone. And many see themselves as Americans when it comes to things like terrorism and issues of national pride.

But they also seem to have a strong sense of personal identity separate from each other wrapped into the first part of their hyphenations. It's what makes the Czech-Americans different from the German-Americans there. I'd liken it a little to the identities people get when they wear the T-shirts of certain bands, or even the sports teams that they follow. But they revel in those differences that aren't distinctively American at all.

The real irony is that for the groups that seemed to express both identities the strongest, they seemed to be less of a fully feldge member of either. Not exactly quite American. Not exactly quite their hyphenation. But within their own group, yes.
 

The Pado

Filthy Gobbo
Jul 12, 2002
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++ [ originally posted by jaecole ] ++
One thing I don't understand is how some people of mixed nationality are extremely patriotic to each. How is this possible? Sure there will be a respect there, but don't you just feel like for example an American that dosen't fit in in Italy? How can an american with an american accent, an american attitude and an american life consider himself Italian in such a strong way?
Jae, in America I feel like I'm Italian and I feel like an American when I'm visiting Italy. You are absolutely correct, we don't fit in anywhere. I am thankful that my family raised me with an awareness of my ancestoral roots, but I chose to really embrace all things Italian as I got older and met with discrimination due to my Italian name and ethnicity. Honestly, nobody in New Jersey (where I was raised) ever considered me or other Italian-Americans as "American" until one polarising event: November 4, 1979. I was 13 years old when the American embassy in Tehran was overrun and Amercian hostages were held captive for 444 days. As of that day, Americans had an enemy and Italians and Greeks and Poles were no longer "foreigners" in our own neighborhoods.
 

The Pado

Filthy Gobbo
Jul 12, 2002
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@Libero - thanks for your response, and yes, I did think that you were among the Christian Democrats. My wife supports that party, but she is unaware of its criminal past. You make a good point about the former Communists who have shifted toward the center without reconciling their past. This is why Fidel Castro is my political ideal - Once a Communist, always a Communist. Why should he change?

Andreotti, I have always suspected, was one step above being knee-deep in mafia activity. I believe that he enjoyed all the mafia money and benefitted from never having to fear for his life, without ever having to call the Salvo brothers or Ciancimino and ask them what he should do. Andreotti was a far enough removed to avoid a conviction, but his greatest fear was an audit fo the money trail.
 

Max

Senior Member
Jul 15, 2003
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++ [ originally posted by IncuboRossonero ] ++
Happy Canada Day to our Canadian friends....

actually, do we even have any Canadians here. Donny has indicated he was born and raised in Albania.
*Cough* :down:

I think that I may be the only person who was born and raised in Canada on this forum.
 

Bjerknes

"Top Economist"
Mar 16, 2004
116,149
++ [ originally posted by Padovano ] ++


Jae, in America I feel like I'm Italian and I feel like an American when I'm visiting Italy. You are absolutely correct, we don't fit in anywhere. I am thankful that my family raised me with an awareness of my ancestoral roots, but I chose to really embrace all things Italian as I got older and met with discrimination due to my Italian name and ethnicity. Honestly, nobody in New Jersey (where I was raised) ever considered me or other Italian-Americans as "American" until one polarising event: November 4, 1979. I was 13 years old when the American embassy in Tehran was overrun and Amercian hostages were held captive for 444 days. As of that day, Americans had an enemy and Italians and Greeks and Poles were no longer "foreigners" in our own neighborhoods.
Interesting...I knew the Hostage Crisis brought Americans together, but not as far as breaking the ice between different ethnic groups and the rest of America.
 

adams

Junior Member
Mar 5, 2005
450
++ [ originally posted by swag ] ++


It's an odd phenomenon that seems to have some things wrapped up into identity. Part of that identity is unified with others. Part of that identity is separate from others.

I grew up on the South Side of Chicago, where every ethnic group in the area wore their hyphenated American stripes proudly on jackets, T-shirts, bumper stickers, etc. Italian-Americans. Irish-Americans. Mexican-Americans. Polish-Americans. Croatian-Americans. (Yes, even some Lithuanian-Americans, which was the clan I came from.)

On the one end, they all seem to identify themselves as Americans at some point or in some situations -- and particularly when it comes down to issues on a global scale. Many will wave the U.S. flag as much as anyone. And many see themselves as Americans when it comes to things like terrorism and issues of national pride.

But they also seem to have a strong sense of personal identity separate from each other wrapped into the first part of their hyphenations. It's what makes the Czech-Americans different from the German-Americans there. I'd liken it a little to the identities people get when they wear the T-shirts of certain bands, or even the sports teams that they follow. But they revel in those differences that aren't distinctively American at all.

The real irony is that for the groups that seemed to express both identities the strongest, they seemed to be less of a fully feldge member of either. Not exactly quite American. Not exactly quite their hyphenation. But within their own group, yes.
That made me think.

One analogy is how you can always bicker with your family, but no matter what, if an outside force comes against it all the bickering drops and theres unity that wasnt seen before.

I suppose its like belonging to a group within a group.

As for two equal groups- I believe thats where the real conflict will lie. A certain ex was a redhead. Irish mom, Polish dad, yet her inclination was wholly towards Irish pride.
 

Bjerknes

"Top Economist"
Mar 16, 2004
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Greg, would I be correct to say the Southside of Chicago is where the majority of European immigrants called home years ago while the Northside is where primarily the South and Central Americans and Asians settled in the city?

I drove through many of the parts of North Chicago, right through Chinatown and parts of the Korean and Costa Rican sectors of the city. To be honest I have never really seen something like that before, even in Washington DC and the parts of New York I visited.
 

jaecole

Senior Member
Apr 7, 2005
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++ [ originally posted by IncuboRossonero ] ++
A thought: In essence Martin Nathell paid 1k to have the likes of us here...without the posters (or the core posters) it would be worthless.
Don't kid yourself. He paid for a site that has a fantastic search engine placement and huge amount of traffic. He can increase the rankings of his own money making sites with this and also make a killing from ads. If it dosen't work, he can sell this site tomorrow on Sitepoint.com for $3000 easy. He surely didn't pay for you.
 

adams

Junior Member
Mar 5, 2005
450
++ [ originally posted by jaecole ] ++


Don't kid yourself. He paid for a site that has a fantastic search engine placement and huge amount of traffic. He can increase the rankings of his own money making sites with this and also make a killing from ads. If it dosen't work, he can sell this site tomorrow on Sitepoint.com for $3000 easy. He surely didn't pay for you.
thats harsh jaecole.

besides, stop trying to sniff around, hypothesizing what or what's not going to happen at his hands. its unpredictable, and thats whats special about it
 

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