++ [ originally posted by jaecole ] ++
One thing I don't understand is how some people of mixed nationality are extremely patriotic to each. How is this possible? Sure there will be a respect there, but don't you just feel like for example an American that dosen't fit in in Italy? How can an american with an american accent, an american attitude and an american life consider himself Italian in such a strong way?
I say this because I spent alot of time in Ireland, the development years if you will, now I feel like an English man who just dosen't get it, I hate most English for what they are and be glad I'm not, I don't feel any real attachment to either country though I feel at home in Ireland, I feel at ease there, mostly just because my personality clashes with the English usual. That said i'm not Irish in anyway, never have been and don't want to be. Then again I've always been the alternative to everything. If I can't find a real reason I will disgard it. Therefore Tradition dosen't cut it with me.
This isn't a diss, just wanted to hear some thoughts.
It's an odd phenomenon that seems to have some things wrapped up into identity. Part of that identity is unified with others. Part of that identity is separate from others.
I grew up on the South Side of Chicago, where every ethnic group in the area wore their hyphenated American stripes proudly on jackets, T-shirts, bumper stickers, etc. Italian-Americans. Irish-Americans. Mexican-Americans. Polish-Americans. Croatian-Americans. (Yes, even some Lithuanian-Americans, which was the clan I came from.)
On the one end, they all seem to identify themselves as Americans at some point or in some situations -- and particularly when it comes down to issues on a global scale. Many will wave the U.S. flag as much as anyone. And many see themselves as Americans when it comes to things like terrorism and issues of national pride.
But they also seem to have a strong sense of personal identity separate from each other wrapped into the first part of their hyphenations. It's what makes the Czech-Americans different from the German-Americans there. I'd liken it a little to the identities people get when they wear the T-shirts of certain bands, or even the sports teams that they follow. But they revel in those differences that aren't distinctively American at all.
The real irony is that for the groups that seemed to express both identities the strongest, they seemed to be less of a fully feldge member of either. Not exactly quite American. Not exactly quite their hyphenation. But within their own group, yes.