++ [ originally posted by swag
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Ahhh... the
menage a troi of course.
So this is about looking where to move perhaps after college. Cool. My first move after college (which was to Maryland, believe it or not) started out as a really lonely time in my life at first ... I moved out for a job with no family or friends within 1,000 miles. And when you make that transition from school to work, unlike college, suddenly you're confronted with a lot of people of slightly different ages who are married and have families to go home to, etc. But it soon after became one of the best times of my life once I made some great friends and connected with people.
My advice? Chicago or New York are both great options. Live in a place where you will socialize with people around the same point in life as you. If you're in a smaller city, people get married and settle down as soon as they can legally drink (and sometimes because of it

). And commuting far away from where most recent graduates like to hang out and socialize can be limiting.