That's not exactly what I'm trying to do, and my point wasn't that you should mourn people you don't know. But rather, my point is that it's just a little strange that I could blow my own head off at a football match and get useless RIPs instead of innocent people not seeking attention. I'm more outraged that stupid people get the press all the time, or at least on this forum for that matter.
But why is one useless RIP better than another? It does nothing, right? And the only thing we really care about is things that affect us, so all the Western tourists in Thailand and stuff when the tsunami occurred. And yes, you can't differentiate between the tourists and the locals in good faith, especially because there were so many tourists and locals who helped each other and all that. But otherwise would there be such an uproar? If it wasn't our favorite holiday destination? What about Bali, lots of Western (well, Australian, but they qualify as one of us) tourists there too.
I agree that this psychology of sympathy is pretty interesting, because people don't know how to react. Heck, when I see these things I don't know what I should be doing myself. If someone shoots themselves isn't that sad? I mean the circumstances that must have led them to do this can't be happy can they? They must either have gone through a rough time or had mental health issues, neither of which are particularly cheerful. So what is wrong with sympathizing with that? Isn't that maybe something we relate to more easily than a natural disaster we could do nothing about?
I've read the article and I do believe in my limited intelligence. The article was filled with bullshit. If the writer would have limited his criticism to just the government, perhaps I'd agree with him. But instead, he tried bridge the argument to the people in general being uncivilized, which was just plain wrong. In no fashion did he state throw out places such as Myanmar, or Sudan, or what have you. The article was written with the intent to throw us all together as an entire uncivilized bunch in comparison to yes, the entire rest of the world.
So who wrote it, where was he from? If he was European I'm fairly confident he was comparing you with Europe, and maybe a couple of other countries like Japan etc that we feel have a similar standard of living. In other words "our world". Not with Myanmar, in fact people who would argue the US is less civilized than Myanmar probably don't exist, because they don't know what Myanmar is.