I think we can all come to a consensus that "both sides" means extremists on both sides.
But we have a winner here.
The overwhelming sentiment among Democrat lawmakers (and most people in general) was the peaceful protests were fine, and the rioting/looting was unacceptable. This has been stated ad nauseam by many prominent politicians, and honestly I'm very tired of hearing the opposite. It's just laziness at this point. I'd still like to see some sources of Democrats supporting the riots as you claimed. New York didn't deploy the National Guard either, wasn't necessary.
But beyond supporting riots, how about being part of them? This link should work for you I assume.
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/...awmakers-rioters-capitol-photos-b1784170.html
Actual elected officials attempting to essentially prevent the transition of power of the Presidency. Not really sure how you can "respect" that. Furthermore, when have Republicans come out against these conspiracy theories? I've only seen them be embraced (mostly by Trump, but regardless). At this point, it's almost becoming the party platform as you have politicians being elected for it
https://www.rollcall.com/2020/11/05/qanon-goes-to-washington-two-supporters-win-seats-in-congress/
Yes, both sides do have their extremists as mentioned in the quote above. As I've pointed out Democrats have spoken out against theirs, but Republicans up until this point have said absolutely nothing, even though their are clearly the greater threat to American democracy as a whole.