Life is short.. (1 Viewer)

Juve_fanatic

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Apr 5, 2006
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#22
It is indeed.. I used to make fun of this phrase, never took things seriously, I hurt people a lot, did and said bad things to those I care, things that they didn't deserve, but never cared to apologize or show my love instead..

My father had/has a very serious health problem, I always argued with him, and never showed him the love he deserved. You will not understand me unless you live the same situation, unles you realize that you might lose someone you love soon..

What I am trying to say here is, treat people like it's their last day, show them their worth before it's too late, because life is shorter than you think, and full of unexpected surprises..


I want to dedicate to a special friend that I met here, my only (real) friend in this forum. To Cigdem.

You are a very special girl, I know you for more than 5 years by now. I am lucky to get to know to an amazing girl like you. You are smart, funny, caring, faithfull friend, beautiful and sexy too :p You stood by me at the worst times of my life, you always supported me when I needed support, every second I spent with you was a pleasure for me. I never believed in internet friendship, be it facebook msn and the likes, I never thought I would meet a friend over internet, and like this much.

I care too much about you, I wish the very best for you in your life. I hurt you a lot, and I still do, I am sorry for every hard feelings I gave you, you never deserved any. I hope you forgive me one day for things I did to you.
Your whole post is wonderful Snoop. There is nothing else to add to this. You said this very honestly and sincerely. I understand completely how you feel because my father also has serious health problems, his heart has weakened a lot in the past 2-3 years and im afraid that something might happen to him and it is really painful. I really hope that everything will be ok with your dad, all you can do now is stay strong and be there for him.
 
Aug 17, 2007
5,259
#25
It is indeed.. I used to make fun of this phrase, never took things seriously, I hurt people a lot, did and said bad things to those I care, things that they didn't deserve, but never cared to apologize or show my love instead..

My father had/has a very serious health problem, I always argued with him, and never showed him the love he deserved. You will not understand me unless you live the same situation, unles you realize that you might lose someone you love soon..

What I am trying to say here is, treat people like it's their last day, show them their worth before it's too late, because life is shorter than you think, and full of unexpected surprises..


I want to dedicate to a special friend that I met here, my only (real) friend in this forum. To Cigdem.

You are a very special girl, I know you for more than 5 years by now. I am lucky to get to know to an amazing girl like you. You are smart, funny, caring, faithfull friend, beautiful and sexy too :p You stood by me at the worst times of my life, you always supported me when I needed support, every second I spent with you was a pleasure for me. I never believed in internet friendship, be it facebook msn and the likes, I never thought I would meet a friend over internet, and like this much.

I care too much about you, I wish the very best for you in your life. I hurt you a lot, and I still do, I am sorry for every hard feelings I gave you, you never deserved any. I hope you forgive me one day for things I did to you.
Wish you and your father the best, man.
 

DVS

Must be patient
Nov 13, 2008
1,751
#26
It is indeed.. I used to make fun of this phrase, never took things seriously, I hurt people a lot, did and said bad things to those I care, things that they didn't deserve, but never cared to apologize or show my love instead..

My father had/has a very serious health problem, I always argued with him, and never showed him the love he deserved. You will not understand me unless you live the same situation, unles you realize that you might lose someone you love soon..

What I am trying to say here is, treat people like it's their last day, show them their worth before it's too late, because life is shorter than you think, and full of unexpected surprises..


I want to dedicate to a special friend that I met here, my only (real) friend in this forum. To Cigdem.

You are a very special girl, I know you for more than 5 years by now. I am lucky to get to know to an amazing girl like you. You are smart, funny, caring, faithfull friend, beautiful and sexy too :p You stood by me at the worst times of my life, you always supported me when I needed support, every second I spent with you was a pleasure for me. I never believed in internet friendship, be it facebook msn and the likes, I never thought I would meet a friend over internet, and like this much.

I care too much about you, I wish the very best for you in your life. I hurt you a lot, and I still do, I am sorry for every hard feelings I gave you, you never deserved any. I hope you forgive me one day for things I did to you.
Nice post I'm tearing up now. My dad past away a year and a half ago and it really sucked. He was a guy I could always go to when I was in crossroads and now its gone. Their is not a day in my life that passes that I don't think about him. His last 6 months were absolutely the worst time of my life. Keep strong bro as the ones who are closest to us never leave us.
 

IliveForJuve

Burn this club
Jan 17, 2011
18,923
#27
You touched my heart, Snoop. I know what you went through with your dad. About 2 years ago my father had/has (because it never goes away) a thrombosis, things got difficult. Doctors told him that cutting off his leg would solve the problem without risking his life but he didn't want to and he had those blood clots removed and even one of his main veins had to be replaced with a bypass, thankfully it went fine. Earlier this year my dad underwent surgery again because he had some more blood clots in his veins but it wasn't as serious as the first time.
 

Azzurri7

Pinturicchio
Moderator
Dec 16, 2003
72,692
#35
I care too much about you, I wish the very best for you in your life. I hurt you a lot, and I still do, I am sorry for every hard feelings I gave you, you never deserved any. I hope you forgive me one day for things I did to you.

If this part was directed to Cigdem, then WOW, man.
 

Alen

Ѕenior Аdmin
Apr 2, 2007
53,902
#36
My father had/has a very serious health problem, I always argued with him, and never showed him the love he deserved. You will not understand me unless you live the same situation, unles you realize that you might lose someone you love soon..
What's his illness?

The doctors gave 3 years to my father, one of which almost passed. I decided to live in denial and treat him like always, not even thinking about his illness and acting as if everything's all right. I'll face the truth when the time comes, now I won't. I take the boys every morning to his place and I let those three play all day long.
For me denial helps a lot. Try it.
 

Nzoric

Grazie Mirko
Jan 16, 2011
37,868
#37
What a way to start the morning, go into this thread and read this :( .

I'm sorry for you situation, I really am. I hope your father gets through it and you have a chance to mend whatever is wrong with your relationship. Best of thoughts.
 
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Snoop

Snoop

Sabet is a nasty virgin
Oct 2, 2001
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    Thanx all for the wishes, this wasn't my intention with making this thread. What I wanted to say is ;telling it from my late experience, treat people the way they deserve, before it's too late and before you regret. I am fine, really I am. Just spread the love :p

    What's his illness?

    The doctors gave 3 years to my father, one of which almost passed. I decided to live in denial and treat him like always, not even thinking about his illness and acting as if everything's all right. I'll face the truth when the time comes, now I won't. I take the boys every morning to his place and I let those three play all day long.
    For me denial helps a lot. Try it.
    Pancreas cancer! Steve Job's disease, and the one my aunt's husband suffered too, and he didn't last few months only. usually it is either up to six months, or up to maximum 5 years. The thing is you never know, you can't predict. The past two months was a hell for me, and specially at surgery times. Now he started chemotherapy, doctors says he will get rid of it, hopefully that is the case.

    He is in another country now for treatment, will be back in few weeks. I hope I can treat him the way you do, cause that's the right way. I can't make him feel all the time that he will die soon, that will kill him.. Hopefully I will learn with living in denial. But I feel much better these days, as he we could lose him at surgery. Everyday he lives is a gift, and I am thankful for that.

    I feel sorry about your dad. I hope doctors are wrong and he live way longer than they predicted.
     

    Nzoric

    Grazie Mirko
    Jan 16, 2011
    37,868
    #40
    Pancreas cancer! Steve Job's disease, and the one my aunt's husband suffered too, and he didn't last few months only. usually it is either up to six months, or up to maximum 5 years. The thing is you never know, you can't predict. The past two months was a hell for me, and specially at surgery times. Now he started chemotherapy, doctors says he will get rid of it, hopefully that is the case.

    He is in another country now for treatment, will be back in few weeks. I hope I can treat him the way you do, cause that's the right way. I can't make him feel all the time that he will die soon, that will kill him.. Hopefully I will learn with living in denial. But I feel much better these days, as he we could lose him at surgery. Everyday he lives is a gift, and I am thankful for that.

    I feel sorry about your dad. I hope doctors are wrong and he live way longer than they predicted.
    Shit, that's what god Bill Hicks too...

    Do you have a clear statement from the doctors on what your dads specific situation is?
     

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