All true. But I also do think systemically of the outer conditions that bring people to a certain state as well.
Like that Nazi apologist video that
@AlexDP705 shared above, people are trying to make moral equivalences without acknowledging the dynamics of the Germans being the colonizers and the Palestinians being the colonized. Both actions are reprehensible, and trying to pick winners of the Atrocity Olympics is as lame a proposition as trying to pick winners of the Oppression Olympics.
Now I know diplomacy is a luxury of those without existential blood on their family lines. But I'll turn more to the adage of insanity defined as doing the same things over again and expecting a different outcome. I feel pretty confident to say that internal and external policy wrt Israel has been an abject failure.
Europe was once characterized by borders of death and bloodshed. Yet today we mostly kick footballs around, hurl insults at players, and threaten to withhold EU funding. Not great. But an improvement? Immensely. Something shifted, and part of that are the conditions that allowed that shift. Including an acknowledgement of the horrors of the alternatives.
Arabs and Jews are equally culpable in this, and I would also point to the irony that they have more in common globally than they are different. Egypt has been an illustrative exception of what's possible, even if they are not coliving in the same nation state.
I'm still dumbfounded about US relations with the UK, for example. Even if it took a century or more. When the US staged its colonized revolution, the guerilla tactics and Tea Parties of the colonies was perceived as the terrorism of its time by the British. And yet today, despite over 25,000 American revolutionary soldiers giving their lives so that America could rid itself of the English royalty, conservative rags like Fox News cover the British royals like they want them back in power.
It's going to be more than just giving some land back. But without it, somehow you have to trust Israel to rule a pluralistic state without a form of apartheid. I really don't see that happening. With some land back, I do think there are better chances... at least to afford some life dignity and self-determination for Palestinians. And for Israel to better control and buttress formal defenses with walls and bombs and machine gun turrets and whatever else they need while allowing their own neo-Nazi settlers from flaring up new bloodshed at the easiest opportunity. At least until both have the opportunity to allow those walls to fade more with generations to come.