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I'd need a damn good reason to marry, that's what I meant :p
Just do a paper marriage. After five years cite irreconcilable differences and go about your business. It's even better if you can live in different towns, then you can also blame the distance.
 

Martin

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I have nothing against people moving around but you shouldn't have to be forced to make that decision.

It's more complex than that Martin.
I don't quite follow your argument here. First you say people should not be forced out of their own country? Is that a way of saying that your family was? Because if not then you're saying that it was a choice, and a choice that was painful in some ways, but probably was done for a good reason, giving up something to have something else?
 
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    I'm not saying that's untrue, but on the other hand this is how we all mix, get to know each other. How many of our Juventuz friends would like to live in a town where there are no Persians or Pakistanis or immigrants of any kind? That'd be really depressing imo.
    I would. To me, it's not having to speak in a language other than my native language or mixing with people other than Iranians, it's, at least to me, just making the right decision concerning both my future and what that's going to happen to Iran's future.

    "have to leave", sure. But on the other hand people shouldn't be trying to raise their kids in a bubble where there are only "our kind of people" around and they never have to be confronted with this "otherness".
    Raising kids in Iran would be a horrible thing to do. Schools fill the kid's head with nonsense about religion, the auntie believes that the history's biggest tragedy is the "Arab conquest of Persia", the uncle believes Shah's son must take control of Iran, the government is talking about a new public enemy everyday, state tv says Muslims will conquer the whole world one day, grandma says her prayers everyday but believes that Islam is why we are so poor and underdeveloped. Even better, everyone thinks they know the whole truth. So you, as a parent, can never teach the kid that "you go your way, I'll go your way too" :D

    Contradictions, that's what we are made of :p


    Just do a paper marriage. After five years cite irreconcilable differences and go about your business. It's even better if you can live in different towns, then you can also blame the distance.
    :D
     

    Martin

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    I would. To me, it's not having to speak in a language other than my native language or mixing with people other than Iranians, it's, at least to me, just making the right decision concerning both my future and what that's going to happen to Iran's future.
    Why? What makes Iranians so great? This is the exact opposite of my view on the same situation, I moved from a place that was not diverse enough for me to live in a place that is. And I can't speak "my" language around here, but so what? What makes "my" language so special, it's just a language like any other.

    The thing that makes Holland great is that there are not only immigrants but also lots of people who live here temporarily ("expats" as they like to style themselves) for work. Which means the local population has no choice but to deal with all these various people. And that makes the kind of "Norway is the best country in the world" idiotic rhetoric almost impossible.
     
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    Why? What makes Iranians so great? This is the exact opposite of my view on the same situation, I moved from a place that was not diverse enough for me to live in a place that is. And I can't speak "my" language around here, but so what? What makes "my" language so special, it's just a language like any other.

    The thing that makes Holland great is that there are not only immigrants but also lots of people who live here temporarily ("expats" as they like to style themselves) for work. Which means the local population has no choice but to deal with all these various people. And that makes the kind of "Norway is the best country in the world" idiotic rhetoric almost impossible.
    I think you got me wrong there Martin, you asked "How many of our Juventuz friends would like to live in a town where there are no Persians or Pakistanis or immigrants of any kind?" and I said I would. I don't care if there is no Iranian living in the place I live, neither do I care about living in a place where no one talks in my native language. That sort of things doesn't matter to me at all. Here:

    To me, it's not having to speak in a language other than my native language or mixing with people other than Iranians.
    I must have added: it's not having to speak in a language other than my native language which bothers me ;)
     

    Martin

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    - How many of our Juventuz friends would like to live in a town where there are no Persians or Pakistanis or immigrants of any kind?
    - I would

    Ergo, you would like to live in a town with Iranians only. :confused2
     

    JuveJay

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    mate i live in Scotland

    we can't even accept our own cultural differences,never mind other peoples
    Oh so you mean Scotland :p

    The empire led to Britain opening its doors to people long before other countries had en masse immigration from distant lands, people travelling thousands of miles to bring a completely different culture to these islands. You won't ever eradicate racism or xenophobia but having been around quite a few countries now including Japan, Italy, Germany and even France in the first world, my opinion is that they are trailing behind in this respect. One trait is quite common; religious segregation.
     
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    - How many of our Juventuz friends would like to live in a town where there are no Persians or Pakistanis or immigrants of any kind?
    - I would

    Ergo, you would like to live in a town with Iranians only. :confused2
    :disagree:

    - How many of our Juventuz friends would like to live in a town where there are no Persians?
    - I would.

    = I would like to live in a town where there are no Persians.

    :stuckup:
     

    Martin

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    :disagree:

    - How many of our Juventuz friends would like to live in a town where there are no Persians?
    - I would.

    = I would like to live in a town where there are no Persians.

    :stuckup:
    :sergio:

    I wrote Persians and Pakistanis because I was replying to Tahir and he brought them up. They were only meant as examples of immigrants in his environment, not to be taken concretely.
     
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    :sergio:

    I wrote Persians and Pakistanis because I was replying to Tahir and he brought them up. They were only meant as examples of immigrants in his environment, not to be taken concretely.
    The moment I read the word "Persian" the sentence was over for me :stuckup:
     

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    Oh yeah? What are their names?
    Nami was they name of the boy, we played soccer and had classes together. My other neighbors were from Mexico, they had a young boy about my age named Eduardo. Then there was the hillbilly kid named Joe from up the street. They were all pretty cool. Granted I only knew them from age 7 - 10.
     

    Martin

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    Nami was they name of the boy, we played soccer and had classes together. My other neighbors were from Mexico, they had a young boy about my age named Eduardo. Then there was the hillbilly kid named Joe from up the street. They were all pretty cool. Granted I only knew them from age 7 - 10.
    I'm afraid that's not good enough, I need proof.
     

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