I'm not saying that's untrue, but on the other hand this is how we all mix, get to know each other. How many of our Juventuz friends would like to live in a town where there are no Persians or Pakistanis or immigrants of any kind? That'd be really depressing imo.
I would. To me, it's not having to speak in a language other than my native language or mixing with people other than Iranians, it's, at least to me, just making the right decision concerning both my future and what that's going to happen to Iran's future.
"have to leave", sure. But on the other hand people shouldn't be trying to raise their kids in a bubble where there are only "our kind of people" around and they never have to be confronted with this "otherness".
Raising kids in Iran would be a horrible thing to do. Schools fill the kid's head with nonsense about religion, the auntie believes that the history's biggest tragedy is the "Arab conquest of Persia", the uncle believes Shah's son must take control of Iran, the government is talking about a new public enemy everyday, state tv says Muslims will conquer the whole world one day, grandma says her prayers everyday but believes that Islam is why we are so poor and underdeveloped. Even better, everyone thinks they know the whole truth. So you, as a parent, can never teach the kid that "you go your way, I'll go your way too"
Contradictions, that's what we are made of
Just do a paper marriage. After five years cite irreconcilable differences and go about your business. It's even better if you can live in different towns, then you can also blame the distance.
