Well, let me throw my own little piece into this fray...
Love is not overrated, it exists and is the beautifullest thing that can happen to someone (pardon my grammar)
I once used to be quite cynical about it, but ovbiously I'm not anymore.
I think people who jump from one relationship to another are in need of something that they can't find in the one, and actually need to settle down and take a long, hard look at themselves to figure out where they are going wrong.
Granted if things don't work out between Uju and myself in the final analysis, life would have to go on eventually, but the truth is that I have to fight all that I can to keep her even with the distance between us because I am yang and she is ying.
The truth is this: "Once in a lifetime, you get lucky to meet that one person, most people never do, but if you do, you are fucked, because the rest of the world pales in comparison."