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JCK

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++ [ originally posted by Altair ] ++
Spot on mr Jeeks, but I along with mista baggio find it hard to believe that one would get so attached A girl. lotsa things on this earth are disposable, and girlfriends would have to be amongst them.
This doesn\t mean that there are certain people who think otherwise. No one is telling you or DJ that you are wrong, whereas DJ is trying to show Chxta how wrong he is.
 
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Chxta

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    When you meet me in person, Altair, then you'd understand why it is very difficult for me to find one who matches me like she does.

    It had always been very easy to find them when I just wanted to jump into a bed, but then one outgrows that...
     

    Bozi

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    ++ [ originally posted by Chxta ] ++
    When you meet me in person, Altair, then you'd understand why it is very difficult for me to find one who matches me like she does.
    It had always been very easy to find them when I just wanted to jump into a bed, but then one outgrows that...
    easy to find a midden,not easy to find a girl you connect with,until that happens you will not understand. i never thought i would be this way with anyone until i met my woman, before her i was only interested in women till i got them into bed then got bored with them. i am happier now
     
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    Chxta

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    ++ [ originally posted by Bozi.78 ] ++


    easy to find a midden,not easy to find a girl you connect with,until that happens you will not understand. i never thought i would be this way with anyone until i met my woman, before her i was only interested in women till i got them into bed then got bored with them. i am happier now
    :thumb:

    Exactly the same here!
     

    baggio

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    ++ [ originally posted by Jeeks ] ++


    Not because others don't think the way you do, you have to prove them wrong. I can argue with you about this subject untinext week, you saying I am wrong and me saying you are wrong. You like the bachelor life, others prefer the serious relationship. This is life and it has different kinds of people. Neither is wrong, each has his&her own preferneces.

    Tell me Jeekster, where I implied CHX was wrong. Infact, I strongly believe, the world is what it is, because of diversity of thought and action. Like Altair, very correctly stated, nothing in life is indispensable and girlfriends even moreso. What is implied where you quote me, is not questioning CHX's preferences, but his state of mind.
     

    baggio

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    ++ [ originally posted by Bozi.78 ] ++


    hey why? fair enough if you dont believe in this, i just know i am lucky as hell


    Re-read the post, this comment was made for and you'll understand why.
     

    baggio

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    ++ [ originally posted by Altair ] ++
    Spot on mr Jeeks, but I along with mista baggio find it hard to believe that one would get so attached A girl. lotsa things on this earth are disposable, and girlfriends would have to be amongst them.

    Why aren't we on msn yet?
     

    JCK

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    ++ [ originally posted by baggio ] ++



    Tell me Jeekster, where I implied CHX was wrong. Infact, I strongly believe, the world is what it is, because of diversity of thought and action. Like Altair, very correctly stated, nothing in life is indispensable and girlfriends even moreso. What is implied where you quote me, is not questioning CHX's preferences, but his state of mind.
    Maybe not wrong, a problem of inability, maybe

    ++ [ originally posted by baggio ] ++


    You obviously think you cant get anybody else then.
    You repeatedly say things like that whenever anyone mentions them. The better you, Altair, said it in a muc better way by implying on what he prefers and what he thinks. 'He can't imagine himslef with one woman'

    You repeatedly say that love is overrated, it is useless and long term relationships are just for those who can't get anybody else.
     

    baggio

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    ++ [ originally posted by Jeeks ] ++

    You repeatedly say things like that whenever anyone mentions them. The better you, Altair, said it in a muc better way by implying on what he prefers and what he thinks. 'He can't imagine himslef with one woman'

    You repeatedly say that love is overrated, it is useless and long term relationships are just for those who can't get anybody else.

    Yea Jeeks, if you slow down, you'll realise what I have said there. I have said the words 'You obviously think you cant get anybody else then.' vis a vis 'I obviously think you cant get anybody else then.' See the difference.


    Yes, those are my beliefs about love. I dont see my expression as being wrong because I'm purely expressing my perspective, the way I've experienced it. Its obvious, you dont see it the way I do and are therefore contending the expression. Which is pretty much a contradiction to what you are trying to say.
     
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    Chxta

    Chxta

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    Well, let me throw my own little piece into this fray...

    Love is not overrated, it exists and is the beautifullest thing that can happen to someone (pardon my grammar)

    I once used to be quite cynical about it, but ovbiously I'm not anymore.

    I think people who jump from one relationship to another are in need of something that they can't find in the one, and actually need to settle down and take a long, hard look at themselves to figure out where they are going wrong.

    Granted if things don't work out between Uju and myself in the final analysis, life would have to go on eventually, but the truth is that I have to fight all that I can to keep her even with the distance between us because I am yang and she is ying.

    The truth is this: "Once in a lifetime, you get lucky to meet that one person, most people never do, but if you do, you are fucked, because the rest of the world pales in comparison."
     

    Enron

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    ++ [ originally posted by Altair ] ++


    this whole thing reminds me of the movie "Swingers"
    yeah man. beautiful babies that wanna party. and its true there are so many out there.

    you gotta be a bear man, a fvckin bear. cause shes just a little rabbit. and youre a bear man, a fvcking bear. so kill the rabbit.:D
     

    baggio

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    ++ [ originally posted by Chxta ] ++
    Well, let me throw my own little piece into this fray...

    Love is not overrated, it exists and is the beautifullest thing that can happen to someone (pardon my grammar)

    I once used to be quite cynical about it, but ovbiously I'm not anymore.

    I think people who jump from one relationship to another are in need of something that they can't find in the one, and actually need to settle down and take a long, hard look at themselves to figure out where they are going wrong.

    Granted if things don't work out between Uju and myself in the final analysis, life would have to go on eventually, but the truth is that I have to fight all that I can to keep her even with the distance between us because I am yang and she is ying.

    The truth is this: "Once in a lifetime, you get lucky to meet that one person, most people never do, but if you do, you are fucked, because the rest of the world pales in comparison."


    Look at what CHX is saying here Jeeks. Do you want to question the way he's made his opinion? I guess not, thats probably because your bent of mind is similar to his. That said, its the way he sees it and he therefore feels so strongly about it. Nothing wrong with that expression as far as I'm concerned.
     
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    Chxta

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    ++ [ originally posted by baggio ] ++




    Look at what CHX is saying here Jeeks. Do you want to question the way he's made his opinion? I guess not, thats probably because your bent of mind is similar to his. That said, its the way he sees it and he therefore feels so strongly about it. Nothing wrong with that expression as far as I'm concerned.
    What did she do to you?
     

    Bozi

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    someone either ****ed up his mind or he has yet to taste love.

    each to their own but no one could ever tell me that loving one woman and forsaking others is wrong, to me i am always looking at other women as inferior to my girlfriend. none seem as warm, fun, sweet and gorgeous as my woman
     

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