i got this in the mail (1 Viewer)

Jan 7, 2004
29,704
#1
How To Tell If She's Interested


OK, I have a quick trick question for you.

That's right, I said a quick TRICK question.

How can you tell if a woman is interested in you?

Answer quickly.

So what gives?

Why am I asking you a trick question?

Simple.

Because I'm trying to make you THINK.

I'm sure that, just like me, you've read a hundred
books and articles that say things like:

"If she tilts her head to one side and strokes her
neck, that's a sign of interest..."

"If she licks her lips in a longing fashion, that means
she's interested in you..."

"If she laughs a lot, makes positive eye contact, and
touches you often, then she likes you..."

DUH!

I remember when I first read all this stuff.

I thought to myself "Wow, cool! I must have been
missing these hints because I didn't know to look
for them. Now I'll know when a woman is interested
in me...".

Well, there was ONE SMALL problem...

The problem is that women display these MAJOR
INTEREST signals in about 1 of 1,000 interactions
with men...

And there was one BIG problem...

That problem was that none of the damn books I
read said a single thing about how to MAKE women give
you these signals.

In other words, what I realized is that average
guys like me who don't get "approached" by women need
to learn not only WHAT to look for, but, more importantly,
how to actually CREATE ATTRACTION in women so they
GAVE me these signals in the FIRST PLACE.

So let me share with you some ideas on how to MAKE
women feel ATTRACTION for you... and then I'll share
some ideas on what to LOOK FOR to tell if a woman is
interested.

And my ideas will be a WEEEEEE BIT different than
the ones you read in your flirting books.

OK, so you're out at a bar with a few friends, and
it's time to meet some interesting women.

You look around, and none of the hot young babes
in there seem to be tilting their heads to one side,
looking you in the eye, and licking their lips...
so you decide to DO SOMETHING.

What do most guys do in this situation?

Either:

1) Nothing, because they're scared, or...

2) Something typical, like ask a girl to dance, or
if he can buy her a drink.

If you're guilty of doing these, raise your hand.

Then take your raised hand, and slap yourself silly.
Not too hard. But silly.

Here's a thought for you...

If you put 100 guys in a bar with one beautiful
women sitting alone, and you say to all 100 of the
guys "Hey guys, which one of you can walk over to
that woman and do something to make that woman feel
a SEXUAL ATTRACTION for you?"... I'd say that if you're
LUCKY, one of them will claim that he can do it.

In other words, for most guys, the idea of walking
up to a girl they don't know and doing something that
will TRIGGER an attraction is completely outside of
their universe.

This is one of the reasons why guys do things like
asking girls to dance, buying them drinks, etc.

Now, something you must understand when it comes
to women and ATTRACTION is that women don't feel
ATTRACTION for WUSSIES.

ATTRACTION isn't a CHOICE.

It isn't logical (at least, on the surface).

But once you start to "get it", everything changes.
Your entire perspective changes once you "get it",
and your results change instantly as well.

So here's something for you to try:

MESS WITH WOMEN.

That's right "mess with" them.

Tease.

Bust on.

Be difficult.

Why?

Because it INSTANTLY communicates that:

1) You could care less what she thinks of you.

2) You're a fun person.

3) You're unpredictable.

4) You're a bit of a "wild card"

5) You GET IT.

Now, you might be shaking your head right now and
saying "That's doesn't make any sense. Why would a
woman feel attracted to me if I mess with her instead
of being nice?".

That's a good question.

But for now, take the hand that you slapped yourself
with earlier, and slap yourself again.

Good.

I want you to STOP following your "be nice and
kiss ass" instincts when you first meet a woman, and
instead practice MESSING WITH HER.

Make fun of something.

Go to hand her something, then pull it away at
the last second.

Shake your head in despair and tell her that she's
screwing up her chances with you.

Say something Cocky & Funny, then turn around and
walk away before she can respond to your face.

Can ya feel me, dog?

Now the good stuff...


HOW TO TELL IF SHE'S INTERESTED

Well this is what you were looking for, so here
it is...

I'm going to give you a stupid-proof formula for
knowing whether or not a woman is interested in you.

Here it is:

1) You engage her.

2) She engages you back.

Yes, that's it. Please stop the applause long enough
that I can finish. You can clap later.

I know that this sounds a little "Duh-ish", but
stay with me here.

If I walk into a restaurant, and the hostess asks
me how many are in my party, and I answer with "Well,
there are three of us. I guess there will be FOUR
if YOU join us..." and she laughs at my joke, then
IT'S ON!

If I'm standing at the bar, and the woman next
to me bumps into my arm, and I turn and say "Hey,
watch it, OK? Keep some space here, I need at least
a foot of room..." in a serious tone of voice... and
she starts playing along by smiling and moving away
from me then back again playfully, then IT'S ON!

If I'm talking to a woman that I met at the magazine
rack, and I ask her "What's with that huge purse of
yours? You got a dog in there or something?" and she
starts laughing and making excuses, then IT'S ON!

In a nutshell, what I'm trying to say is:

1) Stop looking around for signals from women that
they're "interested" in you.

2) Stop CARING whether or not a particular woman is
interested in you.

3) Instead, start TRIGGERING the interest, and watching
to see if women ENGAGE. If they do, then assume that
IT'S ON!

As long as you use how she's responding to what
YOU do as your gauge, then you'll have a MUCH easier
time spotting the "she wants me" clues...

...Because YOU ARE THE ONE CAUSING THEM.

ever got spam THIS interesting?
 

River

Senior Member
Jun 15, 2004
2,261
#3
heh i read it.

Its a load of shit. Those jokes the guy recommends are lame, and no one is gonna be interested in some idiot that makes them, or does that stupid stuff.
 

swag

L'autista
Administrator
Sep 23, 2003
76,320
#5
Well, it's better than all those unclaimed multi-million-dollar bank accounts in Nigeria I keep hearing about.
 

Martin

Senior Member
Dec 31, 2000
56,859
#6
++ [ originally posted by swag ] ++
Well, it's better than all those unclaimed multi-million-dollar bank accounts in Nigeria I keep hearing about.
Can't believe you're dissing these nice people who just want to share their wealth... :groan:
 

ADP Timers

Senior Member
Feb 4, 2004
1,837
#8
Don Bes

You got that email because a while back you signed up for Double Your Dating, some Ebook online.

That email comes from ... Dating Tips [[email protected]]

I only know this, because I too signed up for it a while back. It provides some interesting things, but for the most part, I only read them now if the subject appeals to me. I received that on 8/13. You must have too.

Copyright information....
"Copyright 2004 David DeAngelo Communications Inc., All Rights Reserved. Double Your Dating and David DeAngelo are trademarks of David DeAngelo Communications Inc. You agree to all of the following by accepting and reading this: You understand this to be an expression of opinions and not professional advice. It is only to be used for personal entertainment purposes. You are solely responsible for the use of the ideas, concepts, and content and hold David DeAngelo Communications Inc. and all members and affiliates harmless in any event or claim. If you are under the age of 18, please go to the link at the end of this e-letter to stop receiving it or send mail to "DDMI" 3960 Howard HughesPkwy, 5th Floor Las Vegas, NV 89109."
I dont know if you were posting this trying to be funny or what, but ya, this is why you have been receiving those emails.

Take care
-Jake
 
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Lawnchair Bes
Jan 7, 2004
29,704
#9
thnx for the info jake. as usual i dont remeber any such signing.


@ River ;) thnx for makin me look less loser. the guy was supposed to be very serious as he was trying to sell his book
 

River

Senior Member
Jun 15, 2004
2,261
#10
++ [ originally posted by Martin ] ++


Can't believe you're dissing these nice people who just want to share their wealth... :groan:
yeah, give em a break. Ive made a good friend called Maxwell Eze because of such a letter. Hes such a nice guy :D
 

Srecka

Senior Member
Jan 22, 2004
2,172
#11
Anyways, someone send me this through email. Its nice and I want to share it with everyone:

One day Friendship and Love met. Love asked why do you exists when I am here, friendship ans I am here to leave smile where u leave tears.

FRIENDSHIP
knows no season,
knows no time,
it has a sole intention
of bringing two people together
to a Moment
called...

"F O R E V E R"

Friendship is a relation where no Charges of Activation,
Free incoming, Free Outgoing, with roaming facility all over the World!!

Love says "If u ever need anything,I'll b there" but friendship says " You'll never need anything if I'll b there "

A Good friend is like a Computer,
Enter your life, 'Save' u in their heart,
'format' ur problems,
'shift' u to opportunities &
never 'delete' u from memory!

Have a nice night/morning everyone :)
 

River

Senior Member
Jun 15, 2004
2,261
#12
Ive actually had a death threat through email, and one in the comments of my blog.

This damn internet is against me :D
 

gray

Senior Member
Moderator
Apr 22, 2003
30,093
#15
What a load of bull

If I walk into a restaurant, and the hostess asks
me how many are in my party, and I answer with "Well,
there are three of us. I guess there will be FOUR
if YOU join us..." and she laughs at my joke, then
IT'S ON!

If I'm standing at the bar, and the woman next
to me bumps into my arm, and I turn and say "Hey,
watch it, OK? Keep some space here, I need at least
a foot of room..." in a serious tone of voice... and
she starts playing along by smiling and moving away
from me then back again playfully, then IT'S ON!

If I'm talking to a woman that I met at the magazine
rack, and I ask her "What's with that huge purse of
yours? You got a dog in there or something?" and she
starts laughing and making excuses, then IT'S ON!
First he says "don't do the typical things like try to be nice or funny", then he comes up with some cheesy pathetic things like this?

The first is just tacky, the second will make you look like a jerk, and the third will make her look at you funny.
 

Zlatan

Senior Member
Jun 9, 2003
23,031
#16
Agreed. Just be yourself Bes. Except for the sarcastic comments. And the lameness. And try to actually say more than one word at a time. Also, try to make yourself look interesting....


Ahhh, just be the complete opposite of yourself and you'll be fine :)
 

Erkka

Senior Member
Mar 31, 2004
3,863
#17
ahh, now I see, this thread was all about Don who still isn't getting any... :down:

Bes, it isn't that hard, honestly... :)
 
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Lawnchair Bes
Jan 7, 2004
29,704
#20
++ [ originally posted by Zlatan ] ++
Agreed. Just be yourself Bes. Except for the sarcastic comments. And the lameness. And try to actually say more than one word at a time. Also, try to make yourself look interesting....


Ahhh, just be the complete opposite of yourself and you'll be fine :)


:cheesy:
 

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