++ [ originally posted by Martin ] ++
Quite, but that's not quite how I read your first post. I somehow got the impression that upon realizing that your goal is not being met, you then lower your standards to avoid disappointment. In this instance, you don't get the hot girl so you say to yourself something to suggest that you are just as happy with the "average" girl. Or was I mistaken?
Quite, but that's not quite how I read your first post. I somehow got the impression that upon realizing that your goal is not being met, you then lower your standards to avoid disappointment. In this instance, you don't get the hot girl so you say to yourself something to suggest that you are just as happy with the "average" girl. Or was I mistaken?
i second that...Lowering your standards seemed like a punishment and that is why i referred to it in that matter.
