How Can You Forget Someone? (1 Viewer)

ßöмßäяðîëя · Jan 9, 2005

Well, it has been my experience that it all passes faster if you find some reason to hate the person. (that is if you were the one "dumped") If you were the one who did the "dumping" then you should just get out and frolic with other persons.

Gandalf · Jan 9, 2005

I back up most of the people here.. should I bother speaking..?

however, I repeat Besmir's question.. why should we forget about a person..??? especially if he/she didn't hurt us..???

the best thing to do in case of breaking-up.. make yourself busy with something/someone.. the process of forgetting or "getting over" will take time.. but, it might as well cause a lot of depression and stays for a very long time depends on
1. how much the other person meant for us or..
2. the man who tries to forget is a poor mind controller.. let's his feelings affects his normal life activities..
3. no good substitue...

:undecide:

Lawnchair Bes · Jan 9, 2005

fahad the real question is do you really want to forget about her ? not only because she is moving on. if you do, then just give it time and it should be easily done

Majed · Jan 9, 2005

:frown:
Now you understand why I never wanted you to have a similar avatar!
falsly appearing smarter than I actually am then getting shot back down to earth is emotionaly damaging to me! I have no self-esteem, no confidence, and no self-respect. :down:

You've revealed my true colors. :down:
Goodbye everyone! :sob:

Fahad, May I join your "feeling like crap" club?

...
and thanks for the support Tom! :stress: Don't you have a thread to close?!

Lawnchair Bes · Jan 9, 2005

++ [ originally posted by Majed ] ++

:frown:
Now you understand why I never wanted you to have a similar avatar!
looking smarter than I actually am then getting shot back down to earth is emotionaly damaging to me! I have no self-esteem, no confidence, and no self-respect. :down:

You've revealed my true colors. :down:
Goodbye everyone! :sob:

Fahad, May I join your feeling like crap club?

...
and thanks for the support Tom! :stress: Don't you have a thread to close?!

noooooooooooo majed dont go. i still think you are smart. who is gonna mentor me now ?

Majed · Jan 9, 2005

Is that all I get...

Bes saying that I'm smart...Bes!!? of all people!! Bes?!

Now i'm more depressed! :groan:

Lawnchair Bes · Jan 9, 2005

o go to hell. why do i bother

Majed · Jan 9, 2005

:LOL:

Wings · Jan 9, 2005

Indeed Fahad it is never easy to let go but as Muhammad suggested it is very useful to get involved in many activities as this keeps your mind busy. My advice is to avoid lonely situations. Good luck.

PS/ This thread is an oldie goldmine

Good to see you guys around

Majed · Jan 9, 2005

Welcome back... Ali!

How's it going? Long time no see.

you post so rarely now, it seems like you get this response from me everytime you post!

Wings · Jan 9, 2005

Thanks Majed. Am always on the run since getting hitched in August '04. Things have changed drastically - for the better

. Was in Stockholm for 3 months since Aug 04 and have done over 8,500km driving around with wifey here in Kenya. But I am now back at work so expect to see a lot more of me face

Majed · Jan 9, 2005

Glad you're having a great time!

May it last forever! :touched:

Good to hear that you're sticking around :thumb:

Desmond · Jan 9, 2005

nice to see you around btw

Desmond · Jan 9, 2005

Fahad,I'm afraid I can't offer any advice on how to forget her.What I'm going to suggest may seem contradictory to what you're trying to do but I hope it proves of some use to you,as I have seen first hand that it works and is probably a better solution as well.

I suggest you two become good friends.This will help lessen the pain,firstly,and wouldn't be difficult(since you agreed to move on,i'm assuming you didn't leave on too unfriendly terms?)Accept that she has someone else and even hang out with them-it'll help you adjust to the fact that she has moved on and that you can too.Like you said,you'll have to see her every day at work,so being friends will make things easier for the both of you instead of having to avoid one another and ending up in certain awkward situations.You can't look for love,unfortunately,but if you do manage to find it I'm sure it will be the perfect panacea for you.

Anyways I'm sorry to hear that something like that has happened but all is not lost,although it may seem that way.It always seems like she's the one but trust me falling in love always feels more intense each time than the last.

Wings · Jan 9, 2005

Thanks guys

You have to be careful not to rebound though.

Slagathor · Jan 9, 2005

++ [ originally posted by Majed ] ++
:frown:
Now you understand why I never wanted you to have a similar avatar!
falsly appearing smarter than I actually am then getting shot back down to earth is emotionaly damaging to me! I have no self-esteem, no confidence, and no self-respect. :down:

You've revealed my true colors. :down:
Goodbye everyone! :sob:

Fahad, May I join your "feeling like crap" club?

Now, now, that doesn't mean I don't like you. I have stupid friends too

Lawnchair Bes · Jan 11, 2005

in Albania we say, tell me who your friends are and i will tell you what kind of person you are.

its allright, your friends cant be worse than Majed

Martin · Jan 11, 2005

hey! :groan:

Majed · Jan 11, 2005

Now I feel better

Martin · Jan 11, 2005

I think we established we're both stupid last night...

Still Erik didn't have to blabber all about it.

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