Gym and fitness (214 Viewers)

[Zacheryah]

I'm just teasing.

I figured, but the thing i said about how rape disgusts me physically is a real thing. When someone links me with it even for jokes and giggles, i'll make that well clear

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That was a yes, right?

Yeah. She doesnt want me to go out alone, will even make trouble if i go on a saturday afternoon to a friend ("we could have done something instead").

What i do is simply my way of balancing out

 

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[Raz]

Thats a one sided view. How about never beeing allowed to go out alone ? Cant even go have a drink with a friend in a bar down the street when he wants to talk about his work related issues.


Coins have two sides

That might be a problem because she's always panicking? Or that she's one of those crazy types.

Ether way, I still prefer my girl to feel safe and comftable with rather then panicky and edgy.

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Yeah. She doesnt want me to go out alone, will even make trouble if i go on a saturday afternoon to a friend ("we could have done something instead").

What i do is simply my way of balancing out

That doesn't sound very healthy in the long run. I know quite a few people with girls like that, and it sure ain't pretty :/ and not the way it should be.

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Zach, a question. Are you happy with this kind of dynamic? Like I said i know quite a few people with the same situation and most of them say they love her or are happy, but man they really not look happy...

 

[Zacheryah]

I've learned to live with it. But its one of the reasons i plan my trainingdays as they are now, so i can have some chats with the mates.


I'm also not really the guy who "holds back" cause his girlfriend is there, if she comes along to a friend. I'm not gonna hit on some other girls (would be a douche thing if you are in a relation), but i wont change my language.


I hate the idea that alot of men come home from a mates out night, and have their spouse complain about the slang language he talks

 

[Raz]

Well whatever makes you happy. But this situation is familiar to me, I have one of my childhood best friends in this situation, needles to say we are not hanging out a lot anymore. Just on occasions and even then there is problems with all this crazy stuff.

 

[Fr3sh]

They call that being whipped.

 

[Raz]

I wonder if it's down to luck now. Cos I remember when they first met and started things, it was a gradual evolution of events. I don't think it's down to luck though, but if it is I hope I'm not loosing my luck anytime soon

 

[Osman]

Thats a one sided view. How about never beeing allowed to go out alone ? Cant even go have a drink with a friend in a bar down the street when he wants to talk about his work related issues.


Coins have two sides

Yeah. She doesnt want me to go out alone, will even make trouble if i go on a saturday afternoon to a friend ("we could have done something instead").

What i do is simply my way of balancing out

Dude, grow some backbone, and I dont mean muscles...

 

[Zacheryah]

Well whatever makes you happy. But this situation is familiar to me, I have one of my childhood best friends in this situation, needles to say we are not hanging out a lot anymore. Just on occasions and even then there is problems with all this crazy stuff.

Well when i hang out she comes along. Shes social and has a high tolerance for male or sexist remarks, or acts cute about it, i dont mind her beeing there, and since she looks good, none of my friends are.
What i dont like is her usually wanting to leave early, whilst i'm actually someone who doesnt go home untill the morning if i like it.
The issue is offcourse when she cant come along..

Luckely, internets and texts make it easyer these days to keep in touch when you cant meet that often

 

[Raz]

Zach, I'm with Osman on this one. And if anything I really don't think you trying to make her jelious or edgy will make anything better in these situations.

 

[Post Ironic]

They call that being whipped.

I dated this East Vancouver girl a few years back, she'd go down to the park each spring and get a big supply of the green willow shoots, and then whip my body with them, leave little red welts, draw a tiny bit of blood maybe, turned her on like crazy, and oddly enough it felt pretty amazing, the stinging.

 

[Fr3sh]

I wonder if it's down to luck now. Cos I remember when they first met and started things, it was a gradual evolution of events. I don't think it's down to luck though, but if it is I hope I'm not loosing my luck anytime soon

Nah man, it's no luck man. She got 'em by the balls if she dictates who he can see and when he can see them. And it was most definitely a gradual evolution, you got to cut that from the root before it even grows man, gotta let her know man is free, but my dick is yours.

 

[Zacheryah]

Dude, grow some backbone, and I dont mean muscles...

Oh she takes more bs from me compared to this. And i'm not that much into going out considering financial situation due to beeing a self sustaining student on a well below minimum wage payment.


That and i'm training on saturdaynoon (gym closes at 4pm), so i cant make it late on fryday and should rest and recover on saturday.

 

[Fr3sh]

I dated this East Vancouver girl a few years back, she'd go down to the park each spring and get a big supply of the green willow shoots, and then whip my body with them, leave little red welts, draw a tiny bit of blood maybe, turned her on like crazy, and oddly enough it felt pretty amazing, the stinging.

Yo you are fucked, didn't I set this straight? You're not normal.

 

[Post Ironic]

Yo you are $#@!ed, didn't I set this straight? You're not normal.

I know. I have issues. :frown:

 

[Raz]

Nah man, it's no luck man. She got 'em by the balls if she dictates who he can see and when he can see them. And it was most definitely a gradual evolution, you got to cut that from the root before it even grows man, gotta let her know man is free, but my dick is yours.

The fucking truth! I can't rep you, but this is 10 out of 10. Now I wanna celebrate this, but my gf is away for three days

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Oh she takes more bs from me compared to this. And i'm not that much into going out considering financial situation due to beeing a self sustaining student on a well below minimum wage payment.


That and i'm training on saturdaynoon (gym closes at 4pm), so i cant make it late on fryday and should rest and recover on saturday.

I don't think that meant giving her bs, but actually doing something.

 

[Fr3sh]

The fucking truth! I can't rep you, but this is 10 out of 10. Now I wanna celebrate this, but my gf is away for three days

Should've made some porn with your gf so you can jerk off to it. Or check out this porn actress Dani Daniels lawd knows what I'd do to that!

 

[Osman]

They call that being whipped.

No, being whipped is having her some control over you in needless harmless things, this is just obbsessive and uber controlling relationship, way beyond whipped. Its not healthy for a single second, let alone being together for years as he describes...I shouldnt judge on two posts alone, but what he said is enough, super unhealthy.


I known peeps who are in relationships like this, never turn out well, gets alot worse down the line, at younger age I left more then 1 relationship myself due to getting overly obbssessive/ controlling or showing signs for it (even one who questionned why I go to cinema with my own frigging sister). You take controll in balanced way and REALLY get comfortable and trusting with eachother in the basics (there is a frigging limit to insecurities, dont feed it) or you leave the unhealthy dynamic.

 

[Raz]

Should've made some porn with your gf so you can jerk off to it. Or check out this porn actress Dani Daniels lawd knows what I'd do to that!

Will think about that

 

[Fr3sh]

No, being whipped is having her some control over you in needless harmless things, this is just obbsessive and uber controlling relationship, way beyond whipped. Its not healthy for a single second, let alone being together for years as he describes...I shouldnt judge on two posts alone, but what he said is enough, super unhealthy.


I known peeps who are in relationships like this, never turn out well, gets alot worse, at younger age left more then 1 relationship myself due to getting overly obbssessive or controlling (even one who questionned why I go to cinema with my own frigging sister). You take controll in balanced way and REALLY get comfortable and trusting with eachother in the basics (there is a frigging limit to insecurities, dont feed it) or you leave the unhealthy dynamic.

So tell me how did that happen, she tripped cause you saw a movie with your sister?

 

[Raz]

I known peeps who are in relationships like this, never turn out well, gets alot worse down the line, at younger age I left more then 1 relationship myself due to getting overly obbssessive/ controlling or showing signs for it (even one who questionned why I go to cinema with my own frigging sister). You take controll in balanced way and REALLY get comfortable and trusting with eachother in the basics (there is a frigging limit to insecurities, dont feed it) or you leave the unhealthy dynamic.