I understand where you're coming from especially with regard to your father, my father also worked 70 hour weeks from the bottom to the top of his job. Did he ask for anything? no, but if he was sick, the state would make him better or his wife better or his sons better, he didn't have to struggle to ensure that his family had the right to live and be secure, neither did the leeches. The flaws are with the system not the social theory behind it. And you have no idea of entitlement mentality,try living in Ireland and then you'll understand what social protection gone insane is. Single Mother? here' $18000 a year, a free house and we'll pay your bills, don't worry, we'll pay for your child's schooling and healthcare too with no effort to get you to take personal responsibility for spreading your legs.
The american system is amateurish compared to what we have over here, but if you spent some time here, you would begin to understand the rationale behind socialised healthcare.