The argument is not a philosophical one, it's about a parent not having the control to raise a child the way they see fit, now that child may grow and decide he is gay, that's fine. I'm not sure what is confusing you.
Yes they were always around and always the minority and they probably will remain so, but the powers that run this world are using "thier cause" to take control away from masses by branding it shameful and inhumane to question laws which are made to castrate and shut up the strong male individual for the purpose of controlling and spreading thier own idealism, I didn't say they try to make every male into a homo.
These are not ideas for the benefit of mankind, they are just presented as such. Example, feminism..the single most damaging idea to the female individual.