[MENTION=5409]Juventino[RUS][/MENTION] it doesnt show you as banned, also please tread lightly some of this stuff is sacred to some peoiple, discuss your ideas but dont make it personal
Amen
http://www.xojane.com/sex/true-love-waits-pledge?utm_medium=facebook
"I believed it. Why wouldn't I? I was young and these were people I trusted. Everyone knew I'd taken the virginity vow, of course. Gossip is the lifeblood of the Baptist Church. My parents were so proud of me for making such a spiritual decision. The church congregation applauded my righteousness.For more than a decade, I wore my virginity like a badge of honor. My church encouraged me to do so, saying my testimony would inspire other young girls to follow suit. If the topic ever came up in conversation, I was happy to let people know that I had taken a pledge of purity."
"Ten-year-old girls want to believe in fairy tales. Take this pledge and God will love you so much and be so proud of you, they told me. If you wait to have sex until marriage, God will bring you a wonderful Christian husband and you'll get married and live happily ever after, they said. Waiting didn't give me a happily ever after. Instead, it controlled my identity for over a decade, landed me in therapy, and left me a stranger in my own skin. I was so completely ashamed of my body and my sexuality that it made having sex a demoralizing experience."
just what i said minutes ago, leave all kids alone, let em grow and decide what they want to believe in
"The idea that a woman's worth resides entirely in her hymen is disgusting. "Purity" is for drugs and gold, not people"
brilliant