Gay marriage (again) (14 Viewers)

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    Why do so many lesbians marry women that act, dress and look like men?
    Why do so many gay men take care of themselves to the extent that society expects women too? It allows them to have their own identity in what way does it affect anyone else how they behave/dress?

    (You could also down the sexual fantasy route of 'dominance' or wanting to dominate)
     

    GordoDeCentral

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    1. You are happy to finance the 'choice' of straight people?
    2. Being gay is a 'choice'?

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    1. You are happy to finance the 'choice' of straight people?
    2. Being gay is a 'choice'?
    1. yes
    2. dont go there, getting 'married' is the choice referred to here

    Are you also against a man and a woman financing their 'choice'?
    i dont want to finance anything :D but i can see the benefits of having a 'normal' home and how encouraging it is beneficial for the economy and society as a whole. So if it were up to me i'd relate it to my personal experience and what i have seen, and reward parents as opposed to just couples.
     

    ALC

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    I had a gym teacher like that in middle school. I had to do a double check to make sure my eyes weren't messing with me.

    My high school gym teacher on the other hand, was a dime piece. So sexy.
     

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    i dont want to finance anything :D but i can see the benefits of having a 'normal' home and how encouraging it is beneficial for the economy and society as a whole. So if it were up to me i'd relate it to my personal experience and what i have seen, and reward parents as opposed to just couples.
    I don't reward people for adding weight to the current carrying capacity.:stuckup:
     
    OP
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    1. yes
    2. dont go there, getting 'married' is the choice referred to here
    My bad man, drunk and mis-read.

    I don't get why straight couples are allowed tax break but not gay - given that gay couples are still paying taxes towards systems that they wont use if the don't have kids - which they can't do unless they adopt - which is helping the country out anyway. (of if a lesbian couple goes down a sperm donor route/gay couple finds a surrogate mother)
     

    swag

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    I said on facebook that a government should always view you as an individual. If you want to give tax breaks from co-habitation then it should be for all cohabitation. Get around your flaw - any house which is an HMO should get breaks, based on an HMO licence. simple.
    Problem is that governments, like the US, view corporations as individuals as well.

    And governments like India's view gods as minors. (True story.)

    really? :S . -rep for utter bigotry.
    Raz disappoints me as a person with fellow Lugan roots because apparently he's decided he can put himself in the position to judge what's normal and what isn't. I don't know who voted for him to do that, but I didn't vote for him as king...

    the only reason homosexuals want to call it marriage and legitimize it is to take advantage of these 'benefits'.
    No way, Jose. We have plenty of domestic partnership regulations in California. Nobody even wants to mess with that. As such, the whole issue of Prop 8 here would be a moot point: they already have their money, so shuddup.

    The reason why Prop 8 here in Cali was such a big deal, and why so many gays pressed it, had nothing to do with economics. That hand had played out years ago. It had everything to do with social parity and acceptance. It's that if a guy is into another guy enough to marry him, he's not going to be thrown out of a golf club or hospital visitation just because he likes his man's deck.

    On the one hand, you have advocates who are trying to force the issue and drive a wedge, causing a lot of social friction. On the other hand you have others who don't want to cause friction so much as to not have to fear being treated as second class citizens with second class relationships in many contexts.
     
    OP
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    Raz disappoints me as a person with fellow Lugan roots because apparently he's decided he can put himself in the position to judge what's normal and what isn't. I don't know who voted for him to do that, but I didn't vote for him as king...
    We know that because you voted me king for life in 2009, the next election is in 2013 with the opposition nominations starting in november, and a good choice it was too!!! :agree:
     

    swag

    L'autista
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    with all due respect fellow chicagoan, but that is a load of bull and i dont buy it, it's taxes and benefits.
    It's not. If it was, gay marriage would have been a non-issue in California over a decade ago.
     

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    Problem is that governments, like the US, view corporations as individuals as well.

    And governments like India's view gods as minors. (True story.)
    Except at the state level. There was an interesting case that went to the WV Supreme Court this past year. A farmer was suing the County over some tax detail he thought the Assessor failed to process or notice or whatever. Anywho, he is the owner of his property and owner of the family farm on the property which happens to be a business. So he sued as a representative of his business.

    Well, according to state law, a person who is not an attorney cannot represent a corporation. IE, the person who owns the corporation cannot be considered to be the corporation. So the Judge threw it out, when the farmer refused to retain counsel. The case went all the way to the state Supreme Court and was upheld at every level. Interesting enough all 50 states have the same law.

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    with all due respect fellow chicagoan, but that is a load of bull and i dont buy it, it's taxes and benefits.
    Wait, you think homos don't love? Come on man, we call them fags for a reason.
     

    swag

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    Wait, you think homos don't love? Come on man, we call them fags for a reason.
    Abel may need to have a surprising "Alan Greenspan holy fuck" subprime implosion moment where he recognizes that people are frequently motivated by things that have nothing to do with the best interests of their personal financial gain.
     

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    Abel may need to have a surprising "Alan Greenspan holy fuck" subprime implosion moment where he recognizes that people are frequently motivated by things that have nothing to do with the best interests of their personal financial gain.
    We all get that eventually.
     

    Nzoric

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    Raz disappoints me as a person with fellow Lugan roots because apparently he's decided he can put himself in the position to judge what's normal and what isn't. I don't know who voted for him to do that, but I didn't vote for him as king...
    my dad is a bit like him, far from his extreme views - but he think that gay people shouldn't be able to marry, adopt kids etc. every time we have the discussion it ends in a big fight because he can't give me a better argument than "it's not natural" .

    straight sex has been perverted to it's most extreme limit (i own a sex swing and a velcro sex wall f.e ) . yet i doubt that raz is disgusted by himself when some bitch in a porn movie is a chocked a bit or when a doggy scene comes up. if we're using the puritan example of natural and normal (which is the only well defined version that is) then hardly anything can fit under that category in this day and age.

    not that i'm against it, i like to play rough for fun :klin:
     

    IliveForJuve

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    Jan 17, 2011
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    my dad is a bit like him, far from his extreme views - but he think that gay people shouldn't be able to marry, adopt kids etc. every time we have the discussion it ends in a big fight because he can't give me a better argument than "it's not natural" .

    straight sex has been perverted to it's most extreme limit (i own a sex swing and a velcro sex wall f.e ) . yet i doubt that raz is disgusted by himself when some bitch in a porn movie is a chocked a bit or when a doggy scene comes up. if we're using the puritan example of natural and normal (which is the only well defined version that is) then hardly anything can fit under that category in this day and age.

    not that i'm against it, i like to play rough for fun :klin:
    Exactly what my mom says when we have that argument.
     

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