Gay Adoption (6 Viewers)

WΏΏdy?

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Dec 23, 2005
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Rab i agree with you about a baby needing a mother, but you should remember the base on the discussion what when a orphan cannot find a "normal" family. Would you rather see him stay that way or is it better he gets adopted by a gay couple?
 

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Zlatan

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Jun 9, 2003
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Is that picture supposed to prove me wrong?

It's very simple, historically, in our daily life, scientifically, a baby needs a mother or women be it Granny, Aunt or even house made.

In Europe, Middle-East and Africa at least the places where I've lived and seen a lot, single or divorced men usually do leave their kids or babies with women. There can be few exceptions, VERY VERY few but you wont convince me than a man can raise up a child like a mother.

You obviously didnt see that movie :D
 

Azzurri7

Pinturicchio
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Dec 16, 2003
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Is it really proven that men alone can't take care of babies? Because what I witness in my daily life that the society I am living, men can take care of babies just as efficiently as women if not better. Do you know that we get paid for 18 months paternity leave in Sweden, not only that we also get an extra bonus if both parents (notice, I said parents as sex is insignificant) take an equal number of time at home. One parent is paid at a time, that means both cannot register themselves as taking care of the baby.

I find this insulting actually as I myself know that I can take care of a baby all by myself, I have done it and I know I will do it for even longer periods than I already have. And not only I will enjoy it but I learn a lot by spending quality times with my son.
You can take care of your baby, I can take care of my baby, most of us can, but the point is that babies or children are in-need of mothers more than fathers. Plus my main point is that a child wont/can't be raised in good manners and it wouldn't do our society good to be raised in a gay atmosphere. Mentally it's not healthy.

How would a child acts when he goes to school and know all his mates and friends parents are normal married couples except his? It affects specially when they're young. I would be affected to not have the same things my friends had in school back when I was a kid, how about having Gay parents? That's my point.
 

Zlatan

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Jun 9, 2003
23,049
You can take care of your baby, I can take care of my baby, most of us can, but the point is that babies or children are in-need of mothers more than fathers. Plus my main point is that a child wont/can't be raised in good manners and it wouldn't do our society good to be raised in a gay atmosphere. Mentally it's not healthy.

How would a child acts when he goes to school and know all his mates and friends parents are normal married couples except his? It affects specially when they're young. I would be affected to not have the same things my friends had in school back when I was a kid, how about having Gay parents? That's my point.

Again, thats a problem of the society, not of the children. We have to look at historical examples, 50 years ago black children were also discriminated in school, does that mean we should stop sending them to school or not fight it?
 

JCK

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JCK
May 11, 2004
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You can take care of your baby, I can take care of my baby, most of us can, but the point is that babies or children are in-need of mothers more than fathers. Plus my main point is that a child wont/can't be raised in good manners and it wouldn't do our society good to be raised in a gay atmosphere. Mentally it's not healthy.

How would a child acts when he goes to school and know all his mates and friends parents are normal married couples except his? It affects specially when they're young. I would be affected to not have the same things my friends had in school back when I was a kid, how about having Gay parents? That's my point.
Notice that I did not mention any word about the parents being gay and notice your reply.

Why are the parents more in need of their mother than their father? Who said that? Have you experienced it personally? Because I LIVE IT otherwise, Elias needs me as much as he needs his mother.
 

JCK

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JCK
May 11, 2004
125,418
You can take care of your baby, I can take care of my baby, most of us can, but the point is that babies or children are in-need of mothers more than fathers. Plus my main point is that a child wont/can't be raised in good manners and it wouldn't do our society good to be raised in a gay atmosphere. Mentally it's not healthy.

How would a child acts when he goes to school and know all his mates and friends parents are normal married couples except his? It affects specially when they're young. I would be affected to not have the same things my friends had in school back when I was a kid, how about having Gay parents? That's my point.
Notice that I did not mention any word about the parents being gay and notice your reply.

Why are the parents more in need of their mother than their father? Who said that? Have you experienced it personally? Because I LIVE IT otherwise, Elias needs me as much as he needs his mother.
 

Azzurri7

Pinturicchio
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Dec 16, 2003
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Again, thats a problem of the society, not of the children. We have to look at historical examples, 50 years ago black children were also discriminated in school, does that mean we should stop sending them to school or not fight it?
And you're planning on changing the whole society world-wide?

And the example you gave is totally something different. Blacks weren't discriminated world-wide so their hope of changing their societies wasn't a mission impossible.

P.S, keep in mind that for majority, big time majority population of this universe, men fucking each-others is against human's nature.
 

Azzurri7

Pinturicchio
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Dec 16, 2003
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Notice that I did not mention any word about the parents being gay and notice your reply.

Why are the parents more in need of their mother than their father? Who said that? Have you experienced it personally? Because I LIVE IT otherwise, Elias needs me as much as he needs his mother.
I was a child myself?

Any child needs both his parents (hence why I'm against having parents from same sex;)).
 

Lapa

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Sep 29, 2008
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I have A LOT OF gay friends and they would probably be way better parents than me and my imaginary girlfriend. :agree:
 

JCK

Biased
JCK
May 11, 2004
125,418
I was a child myself?

Any child needs both his parents (hence why I'm against having parents from same sex;)).
No, you said that a child needs his mother more than his father and I still don't understand why. You even said it was proven scientifically, where?
 

Noodle

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Jul 29, 2007
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And you're planning on changing the whole society world-wide?

And the example you gave is totally something different. Blacks weren't discriminated world-wide so their hope of changing their societies wasn't a mission impossible.
Homophobia has been an issue even in countries like Sweden, but look how far we have come. It isn't a mission impossible. :)
 

Kate

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Feb 7, 2011
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In what sources is it proven. I agree that, where possible, it is ideal to be able to give children an influence from both sexes, but when this is not possible I do not see the problem in placing a child with loving parents of the same sex. It is not unhealthy.
 

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