Not only is is a bad thing, it totally doesn't make sense, a kings number one duty in the middle ages is to war, the scheming only rears its head in times of transition, of course the North will elect a warrior king why the heck would they pick someone who can barely(pun intended) ride a horse in a time where there's a good chance the species might go extinct. Daenerys is where she is only because she has dragons, agents independent of herself. She is as good a ruler as her father. Yara of basically a man who only got where she is because of her brother's genital mutilation, imagine the outrage if that mutilation was done to a female character. The fact is throughout history women did rule but they were smart enough to know they had to do it mostly behind the scenes, both for practical and safety reasons.
