Hey, I haven't spoken to you much on here. That really sucks man, I hope your father makes a full recovery and your family goes through this well. Two months after I started dating my ex her mum was diagnosed with type 2 cancer of the liver and it spread quickly to her stomach and lungs. So i've been through it before, if you want someone to talk to who understands but is seperate from your real life etc. then feel free to send me a pm.