++ [ originally posted by River ] ++
How does one know for sure about their religion. The way I see most people now adays are born into a religion, grow up with it and just accept it. Much like myself. However I found myself asking. What has my life in religion done for me? Without playing the sad story my life really couldnt have been much worse, when I might have needed something, turning to religion never helped. Sure everything perhaps happens for a reason, but thats aload of crap, I would be way better of if I had things normal.
How do you know that your religion is true? Has something ever happened to you that just made you know? How do you know it wasnt a coincidence. Surely there needs to be something on a personal level that convinces you.
Before answering with 'religion makes you feel better' or something, consider that alot of things make you feel better. Couldnt it simply be the learning and determination that is making you feel better? Loads of things make me feel better, drugs and alcohol can make someone feel better.
Isnt it entirely possible that your faith is nothing more than a tradition passed from your parents? That you feel obliged to continue and pass to your children and so the circle continues.
Let me say that I haven't tasted Islam, I haven't sampled Hinduism and I haven't dabbled in Buddhism either. I've read a lot of information regarding these religions and their teachings, and (no offence to anyone of those religions) I came to the conclusion of Christianity. As you said in your example, I was born into a Christian family, but nobody accepts their faith blindly. Of course I had my questions and doubts, but those questions were answered to my satisfaction.
As for "what has my life in religion done for me", I'm not in it for my own benefit, and it does make me feel better, but that's not what draws me to it, nor do I seek brownie points from God. For me, serving God is a natural reaction to what I've learned about his love for me and the salvation from inevitable damnation that I believe can only come from God.
++ [ originally posted by River ] ++
Also I heard once that certain religions tell that unexplainable things that could happen when you join a particular religion could be an act of satan. Satan can use such things to get people to join and practice that religion. So if this is true, shouldnt you ask yourself if thats the case with you?
I haven't heard about this before, but I get the feeling that Satan's plan has failed if he intended for me to become a Christian and somehow fit into his plan. I mean why would he want me to join a religion that loves God and detests sin?
++ [ originally posted by River ] ++Furthermore, why hasnt religion changed? Or advanced. Surely everything cannot have been given to us. Surely there is more required of us or that we could do. Why are we a more advance people, still practicing an old unchanged religion of our ancesters. From a christian point of view it dosent seem enough. Yeah you can find anything in the bible, but you can find anything if you dont know what you are looking for or if you dont quite understand what you are reading. Who has made up these guidelines on all modern day things?
The purpose of religions is not to change to suit the times; in fact it's quite the opposite. If for example Christianity 'advanced' to suit the times we live in, it would be nothing more than a wishy-washy guideline by which to live. How exactly do you propose that religions evolve? By taking a lax standpoint on the decay that is so blatantly apparent in society? I don't really understand what you mean by that. Also, the God we serve never changes, so why should those who serve him change the way we live?
++ [ originally posted by Andy ] ++
I've heard that the people who believe in God suffer the most, and the people who don't won't know suffering until they reach the Judgement Day. I know many fellow Catholics who are very good people, who never miss a mass and pray the Rosery everyday. And these people, sadly, seem to have had their fair share of suffering. Deaths, among other problems, seem to be most common occurences.
I haven't heard of this before, and I don't think it's true. Of course Christians are going to have their fair share of suffering too, and that's perfectly natural since God loves all of us equally and doesn't play favourites, but even in the midst of pain, the promise God has made is that he'll always be with us no matter what suffering or grievances we may go through.
++ [ originally posted by Andy ] ++
I do believe that the people who suffer most in Life will suffer the least when they die, and vice versa for the people who don't have a place for God in their lives. But thats just an opinion, and no offense to anyone. But isn't it strange?
I also disagree with this, and as you said, it is a strange theory. To be honest, I see little reason why the people who have no place for God in their lives should/would be rewarded.
++ [ originally posted by Zlatan ] ++
But why do you have to suffer at all? This whole God thing is a bit strange to me. I mean, if God is all mighty, all powerful, perfect etc, why does he need us? Why did he create humans? What, was it just to ffffwatch us struggle day in and day out. To amuse himself? What is it to him if we go to heaven or not, of we live or die, if we're good or bad? Why does he need us to worship him, is it an ego thing?
God created humans so that he could be in a loving relationship with us. God is love, and we are created in God's image, which is why we are naturally 'programmed' to love and be loved.
++ [ originally posted by Minfana ] ++
Why is "god" always a he?
It's a figurative term, God was described as a "He" because the character of God is most likened to a father who cares for and protects his children, which is why they say "God the Father" etc.
++ [ originally posted by Minfana ] ++
The dead do not feel anything any more. Besides, what is so horrible about dying? Who wants to live forever anyway...
Nothing is horrible about dying, it's what comes afterwards that is potentially horrible. As for living forever, it's not the same as living forever on this Earth, where we'll get bored and old. The eternal life that is written of is in Heaven, and
"No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love him" 1 Corinthians 2:9
Basically what that's saying is, you know how there's all these people who say that in heaven, everyone will drive a Rolls Royce and have great feasts all day long... what will be waiting for people in heaven is inconceivable to the human mind, and I'm very glad of that. I mean, if eternal life is going to spent in a place that the feeble human mind can imagine, I don't think it'll be very special at all. I hope that makes sense
++ [ originally posted by River ] ++
Mormon (dont disregard because of its 'bad' name, its a christian religion that follows all christian principles, except it has more).
I know this isn't the point here, but I must disagree here. Mormonism claims to be a Christian religion, but to simply say that "it has more" isn't exactly correct. Mormonism teaches things completely unfounded in the original Christian Scriptures, such as the belief that we can become like God. The entire basis of Mormonism is a man claiming that he received a vision from God choosing that man to lead the 'correct' religion, because the religions that already exist on Earth aren't entirely correct.
++ [ originally posted by River ] ++
They also explain the struggles etc etc as something God has given us, 'Free Agency', the right to choose what actions etc we will do, we will then be judged on these. God dosent interfere with your free agency hence murders, rapes etc. This is probably the same across all christian religions.
You're right, God has given us free will, and my belief is that this free will is necessary for the loving relationship I spoke of above. I've heard people say "why does God let us sin? Why doesn't he just force us to be good?", but that wouldn't be love, now would it? I'm sure a lot of you would have seen those dolls that say "I love you", when you squeeze them. If God didn't give us free will, we'd be little more than those dolls.
++ [ originally posted by River ] ++
And until ive had this discussion online (ive never actually discussed this with Islam etc) I consider the Mormon religion to be the only one that can answer every single question. Does this mean something?
Have you considered the possibility that maybe the fact that it has an answer to every question, could be a discredit to that religion? God requires faith from his believers, which is why some concepts (e.g. the Holy Trinity) will never be fathomed by the human mind, and if the Mormon religion has an answer to every question, doesn't that serve as an indication of the depth of it? I'm not saying that the complication of a religion is proportional to the significance of it, but I find it to be more than a coincidence that a religion based entirely on the claims of one man's visions can be understood completely by the limited minds of humans.
++ [ originally posted by Majed ] ++
Yes, the child abuse and sexual molesting thing is a discrace, but it's not the person's behavior that defines the religion, it's the opposite. The Bible is against all these terrible things that some priests do. they are bad apples who DONT follow their teachings, so it's unfair to blame religion for their acts. You can'r even say that it's religion's fault because child abuse and molesting could happen anywhere, but it only hits the front pages when a priest does it because it's shocking. These people are supposed to be role models who are more faithful to their religion.
Thanks M
++ [ originally posted by Majed ] ++
As for why we need priests, i dont know. maybe Gray can answer that. I'm a Muslim. The purpose of our "Imam" is to guide us. He serves as no medium to reach god what so ever. In Islam, it's between the individual and God. we pray to him, ask forgivness from him, and thank him. There are no confessions to mere people.
Same goes with Christian ministers/pastors. No offence to any Catholics here, but I've never understood the need to go to confession and to hear a person say "You are forgiven", nor the need to recite a mantra a certain number of times in order to be forgiven, since it's clearly stated that our sins are forgiven by faith, not by works. Nor we do we need a channel to God. When Jesus was crucified, the curtain of the temple was torn, which signified that every human had direct access and communion with God [HISTORY LESSON]In Old Testament times, there was a certain area of the temple that was closed off with a curtain, and only one ordained priest could enter that area and offer a sacrifice to God. If anyone else entered that place, they were struck dead. When the chosen priest entered that area, they would hand him a bell and attach a rope to his ankle, so that if that priest happened to die, they could drag him out without anyone needing to enter the area

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++ [ originally posted by Majed ] ++
No offense Graham, but It has always puzzled me how the Pope got the power to forgive sins?
Why would that offend me M?

I'm not a Catholic, and therefore have no connection or responsibility to the Pope in any way. I think I've explained this above, but just to make it clear I don't think that any human has the power to forgive sins, nor is it necessary for us to seek forgiveness through a person.
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There's so much to gain and so little for us to loose
Well said
++ [ originally posted by River ] ++
Yes but this is what I dont understand. Isnt God fair? For many people being part of a religion simply hasnt been an option. If you are taught by your parents to not worship then you wont do it etc, Is it fair to then be judged as someone who rejected God in your life? I cant see a loving God doing that. What about all the starving kids in africa who have never heard of God? I was hoping someone would quote me somethings for their respective religious books that might explain it, or atleast explain to me what way your religion deals with this. Surely its to big to be overlooked.
As you said, this is a big issue, and I think this post has gotten long enough :stress: I'm going out now, but I'll post an answer to this seperately when I get back. I'm glad to answer any questions you may have to the best of my ability
