brothers...i wanna to cry now >,< (5 Viewers)

[Ahmedios]

What Ahmed said is true. Besides that, never never never show her that you're jealous (trust me in this).... just play your role normally, you can show her that you like her but not love her, keep your love feeling inside you.

Anyway, If your friend knew that you like this girl and he wants to be with her, then you shouldn't really be as close to him as before. Be normal, nothing more.

You remind me of those past good/bad days.

 

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[Azzurri7]

You remind me of those past good/bad days.

The highschool days eh???

 

[fender06]

sorry man i feel for u, but if she knows that u love and she still see u as a friend than the feeling is not mutual.

but i heard that if a girl knows u love her, and she doesn't keep away from u, that means u have chance?

 

[Azzurri7]

but i heard that if a girl knows u love her, and she doesn't keep away from u, that means u have chance?

Not really....could mean anything.

1- Yes, she wants to get close to you, meaning she loves you

2- Like your company

3- Like you as a friend

and many other things....

 

[Tobias]

the best thing you can do is throw a hoe at your mate, distract him and pull her to teh side. tell her that she is a great friend, but you could never sleep with her. she will be so riddled with self-doubt that she will end up sleeping with you just to prove she could do it

MEN!
PS: Never and i mean Neuer ask men(brothers) to give u advise on woman :faq1:

 

[fender06]

MEN!
PS: Never and i mean Neuer ask men(brothers) to give u advise on woman :faq1:

haha, i wouldn't do that

 

[Azzurri7]

MEN!
PS: Never and i mean Neuer ask men(brothers) to give u advise on woman :faq1:

I usually take my mom's advice

 

[RAMI-N]

MEN!
PS: Never and i mean Neuer ask men(brothers) to give u advise on woman :faq1:

Word. the best advice u can take fender about ur beloved woman, cant come from any1 but a woman!
Listen to fiore

 

[fender06]

brothers, i go to sleep now, see you~ thanks for your advices!

 

[Tobias]

I usually take my mom's advice

Mothers know best

 

[Ahmedios]

The highschool days eh???

Yeah, you are reading me.

 

[Tobias]

Word. the best advice u can take fender about ur beloved woman, cant come from any1 but a woman!
Listen to fiore

int:

 

[Zé Tahir]

seriously...........its never going to happen. your first mistake was to become a friend, the second mistake is to keep your feelings quiet.

the best thing you can do is throw a hoe at your mate, distract him and pull her to teh side. tell her that she is a great friend, but you could never sleep with her. she will be so riddled with self-doubt that she will end up sleeping with you just to prove she could do it

I agree with the Bozman on this one. If she knows you love her, and she doesn't care about it, then you need to move on. That "friendship" is giving you squat, just pain. There are way too many girls out there to be sweating over one.

 

[Maresca]

seriously...........its never going to happen. your first mistake was to become a friend, the second mistake is to keep your feelings quiet.

the best thing you can do is throw a hoe at your mate, distract him and pull her to teh side. tell her that she is a great friend, but you could never sleep with her. she will be so riddled with self-doubt that she will end up sleeping with you just to prove she could do it

fender06: the best thing you can do is to listen to Bozi, he is a specialist for such storys.. and he is also working in hospital..

 

[Elvin]

i dont want to sound like an asshole but can we get a vbookie event on this ?

and fender keep ur chin up mate

For real, let's do it

 

[Elvin]

Why is it that a guy should always do the first thing? Chicks are so much braver by nature. The rules gotta change

 

[The Arif]

Agree with Bozi..and now that you're in this kind of situation, you need to tell her how you feel. Keeping quiet is gonna hurt you more. Just tell her how you feel, and even if you still wouldn't have a chance to have something more with her, you would feel better though.

 

[Ahmedios]

Agree with Bozi..and now that you're in this kind of situation, you need to tell her how you feel. Keeping quiet is gonna hurt you more. Just tell her how you feel, and even if you still wouldn't have a chance to have something more with her, you would feel better though.

And what if she refuses him completely and he gets embarrassed?

I prefer him to be patient until he knows how she feels towards him, then he can express his love to her.

 

[The Arif]

And what if she refuses him completely and he gets embarrassed?

I prefer him to be patient until he knows how she feels towards him, then he can express his love to her.

So what if she refuses him? He is bad enough now, he didn't tell her how he feels, and he has to listen to both of them (her and his friend) telling him how they chat to each other and how are they having good time. That's worse than being refused after he told her about his feelings.

 

[RAMI-N]

So what if she refuses him? He is bad enough now, he didn't tell her how he feels, and he has to listen to both of them (her and his friend) telling him how they chat to each other and how are they having good time. That's worse than being refused after he told her about his feelings.

And what if she refuses him completely and he gets embarrassed?

I prefer him to be patient until he knows how she feels towards him, then he can express his love to her.

Arif is right
Confrontation is the best thing he can do.
If he keeps quiet, then she may think he loves her as a friend not as a lover, and could move away from him with his friend!!!
Believe me, women like to hear men saying "I Love you", even though they know so!