brothers...i wanna to cry now >,< (2 Viewers)

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Ahmedios

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Nov 11, 2006
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Arif said:
So what if she refuses him? He is bad enough now, he didn't tell her how he feels, and he has to listen to both of them (her and his friend) telling him how they chat to each other and how are they having good time. That's worse than being refused after he told her about his feelings.
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Arif, I mean that if he tells her that he loves her without knowing what she feels, he may get shocked. Besides, if he announces his love, there would be no point of return; there wouldn't even be a friendship between him and her anymore.

As Rab said, he may tell her that he likes her (if he thinks that she may respond even a little bit), but not to tell her that he is in love with her.

Indeed, I'm not against your opinion, but I'm asking for more patience.
 

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HelterSkelter

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Apr 15, 2005
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I think that if you're great friends with a girl,turning that friendship into a romantic relationship is hard in MOST cases.Obviously there are exceptions,but moving on to the next level might look easy to the neutral because you can put in the "hey,you know her so well,it'll be perfect for both you" argument in there.but its pretty hard actually.Im been through this in the past loads of times myself,though now i am in a great relationship with someone whos been one of my best friends over the years.What i have is probably an expection,but i dont think it works out that way in most cases.
 
Vero Bianconero

Vero Bianconero

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Fender, next time you're chatting on msn ask her CASUALLY if she fancies your mate. if she says she does, text "ooooh, shame, i thought you knew about my feelings for you..." :)... if she doesn't, say "gooood, i'm happy i still have a chance!" :)...
DO NOT FORGET THE SMILE AT THE END OF EITHER MESSAGE!!!
and then say you gotta go now. no more messages, NOTHING! leave her to guess if it was a joke or you were serious. even if she feels you love her she can never know for sure. then wait until she contacts you first. and she will, trust me. you see, she will think about "me and Fender" possibility even if she never did before.
then, it's your chance, when you meet her in person (forget msn this time!) to see if there's anything in her eyes that you hoped for. good luck!
p.s. yeah, those smiles at the end of the messages are important 'cos you can always (in case she says no) say it was a joke and you love her as a friend! best friend...damn best friend...
 
Byrone

Byrone

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Dec 19, 2005
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Fender u sound quite young & the problem with most youngsters is that they think they know what love is.Your problem is infatuation,plain & simple!

The fact that you only wanna make a move because ur friend is interested shows that ur not serious at all.Listen to Bozi or get some weed,hire some ladies of the night & booze the night away.
 
Cuti

Cuti

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i'd speak to your friend first, tell him how you feel about her, and see what he says. If he says he feels it is true love, say you have the same feelings, and say the words: BROS OVER HOES.
If he says no he doesn't feel like it is true love, i'd speak to the girl saying your true feelings.

If that doesn't work i'd listen to the guy who is in Carmen Electra's undies :D

Byrone said:
The fact that you only wanna make a move because ur friend is interested shows that ur not serious at all.Listen to Bozi or get some weed,hire some ladies of the night & booze the night away.
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