think of it this way, in this day and age, every women is "bought" not in the sense that you go up to her and say "here's 10 grand now be mine" more like you have to take her out on dates, buy her flowers, buy her food, buy her jewelery, buy her presents, not to mention all that gas money you spend to go to her house and take her out, the phone bills for when she calls you and talks with you for 25 minutes straight about the most pointless things ever which make you wish lightning would just strike her at that moment. Then you have to spend money on the wedding, dower/mahr. Not to mention all of the time time wasted to to at last be able to have sex with her, and since time = money, and women consume time, therefore you are spending money on women.