Totally depends on the type of person and how they can use their power
And not even about sex. Women can use sexual power without even trying to or even wanting to use it. Being friendly and nice to a guy can get you whatever you want. Its not all about flirting, its mostly about being nice IMO. Of course depending on the situation, like if you want free alcohol in a club

then alittle flirting works.
For guys its simple. A guy with a strong sexual power will just attract girls that want to love him. And thats where it ends.
Women can use it much wider. Women can use sexual power without even trying to or even wanting to use it. They can use it everyday for almost everything. Being friendly and nice to a guy can get you whatever you want. Its not all about flirting, its mostly about being nice. Of course depending on the situation, like if you want free alcohol in a club

then alittle flirting works.
I cant really use it that well, i think like maybe 65%
2 people i know though (a guy and a girl) can take it to 100%
So yeah, it dosent depend on the persons sex i dont think. Although its probably likely there are much more women who can use it

You just either have it or you dont.