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Maresca

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Holygr4le said:
Yeah..., I did.... But then we had some difficulties... Long story. I´ll tell you some time over a latte...;)

Read this as long.... True story...

http://juventuz.com/forum/showpost.php?p=849742&postcount=44
hey, that´s really great mate, well done:touched: this must be big ture love. Colin must be lucky to have you.
I do belive in love. But Actionly I don´t know if I am gonna have such a great love again :frown: I loved a woman more than any other women I knew, but it did not work at the end, and I fear that I am not gonna find such love again:cry:
 
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    Maresca said:
    hey, that´s really great mate, well done:touched: this must be big ture love. Colin must be lucky to have you.
    I do belive in love. But Actionly I don´t know if I am gonna have such a great love again :frown: I loved a woman more than any other women I knew, but it did not work at the end, and I fear that I am not gonna find such love again:cry:
    Stop whining or i slap you!





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    Maresca said:
    hey, that´s really great mate, well done:touched: this must be big ture love. Colin must be lucky to have you.
    ????????????????????????????? :lol:
    Maresca said:
    I do belive in love. But Actionly I don´t know if I am gonna have such a great love again :frown: I loved a woman more than any other women I knew, but it did not work at the end, and I fear that I am not gonna find such love again:cry:
    Of course you will.
    And when you meet a girl it is not easy to grow in the same direction.
    We do it the wrong way this days.
    First we get in love then we get to know each other. It should be the other way around...
     

    Maresca

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    Holygr4le said:
    ????????????????????????????? :lol:

    Of course you will.
    And when you meet a girl it is not easy to grow in the same direction.
    We do it the wrong way this days.
    First we get in love then we get to know each other. It should be the other way around...
    Actionly I thought there can be only one true love in life. this is my fear.
     
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    Maresca said:
    :D sorry, but I still feel sad, when I think about her
    I know the feeling.... Love is a hard thing.
    But I want my girlfriend to be my best friend..., and she is not... How do you do then? :confused:
     

    Maresca

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    Holygr4le said:
    I know the feeling.... Love is a hard thing.
    But I want my girlfriend to be my best friend..., and she is not... How do you do then? :confused:
    this would be diffecult.. what do you expect from your best friend? I mean from which point of view?

    I have a very close friend (girl), we understood each other very good from the beginnig, we talked about everything but, I never thought about her to be my GF. Would you mean, she could have the perfect one?
     

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    Maresca said:
    Actionly I thought there can be only one true love in life. this is my fear.
    Hi guys,maresca i know how you feel but if it was true love she would have come back to you. trust me i just broke up with the love of my life 2 days ago and i am hurting badly but i know that if it is true she will come back one day, if not then it was never meant to be and one day i will be happy again
    depressing stuff but you have to look forward in life and not back
     
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    Maresca said:
    this would be diffecult.. what do you expect from your best friend? I mean from which point of view?

    I have a very close friend (girl), we understood each other very good from the beginnig, we talked about everything but, I never thought about her to be my GF. Would you mean, she could have the perfect one?
    I mean that I want to be able to talk about anything with her. that we respect each other and our differences. But she does not. I know it´s not on purpose but she stands so hard behind her beliefs that I hold back in my honesty toward her. I respect her opinions even though I don´t share them but she´s to egocentric and that is a huge problem for me.
     

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    Holygr4le said:
    I mean that I want to be able to talk about anything with her. that we respect each other and our differences. But she does not. I know it´s not on purpose but she stands so hard behind her beliefs that I hold back in my honesty toward her. I respect her opinions even though I don´t share them but she´s to egocentric and that is a huge problem for me.
    well your differences are what will keep you together in the end,there should be a bit of friction in a relationship to keep the spark there but you should always be able to talk about everything
     

    Maresca

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    Bozi.78 said:
    Hi guys,maresca i know how you feel but if it was true love she would have come back to you. trust me i just broke up with the love of my life 2 days ago and i am hurting badly but i know that if it is true she will come back one day, if not then it was never meant to be and one day i will be happy again
    depressing stuff but you have to look forward in life and not back

    After we broke up, she came back and then we were together again, and then broke up again. she wanted to come back. but then I told her, that I don´t want to see her anymore. she was really upset with that, and then I had a new phone nr. which she does not have and then I never heared of her again :frown:
     
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    Bozi.78 said:
    well your differences are what will keep you together in the end,there should be a bit of friction in a relationship to keep the spark there but you should always be able to talk about everything
    I cant talk to her at all...
    It is a shame that it has come to this...
     

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    Maresca said:
    After we broke up, she came back and then we were together again, and then broke up again. she wanted to come back. but then I told her, that I don´t want to see her anymore. she was really upset with that, and then I had a new phone nr. which she does not have and then I never heared of her again :frown:
    well i have to say that she is following your wishes,if you made a mistake be big enough to admit it and go and talk to her,if you feel you made the right choice then you will move on and find someone else. i think you only feel this way because you are still singleand when you meet someone else you will not look back any more
     

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    Holygr4le said:
    I cant talk to her at all...
    It is a shame that it has come to this...
    thats a shame, even more of a shame to bring a child into things if you cant talk

    not having a dig buddy just saying that it was a lack of communication on my GF's part that broke up our relationship
     

    Maresca

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    Holygr4le said:
    I mean that I want to be able to talk about anything with her. that we respect each other and our differences. But she does not. I know it´s not on purpose but she stands so hard behind her beliefs that I hold back in my honesty toward her. I respect her opinions even though I don´t share them but she´s to egocentric and that is a huge problem for me.
    I had the same problem with that friend of me, that I told you about. she allways thinks that she is right.

    it is very diffecult to change this character in a person.
     

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