What would you rather have...? (6 Viewers)

Lilianna

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Apr 3, 2003
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he was bad in bed too :eek:

you know why?
cause they just say:eek:k,i'm good looking and they think that looks is everything.

this is very true.
good looking ppl have never tried for everything and they suck everywhere.

but we still like them :rolleyes:
 

Slagathor

Bedpan racing champion
Jul 25, 2001
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:dielaugh:

++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++
he was bad in bed too :eek:

you know why?
cause they just say:eek:k,i'm good looking and they think that looks is everything.

this is very true.
good looking ppl have never tried for everything and they suck everywhere.

but we still like them :rolleyes:
Yeah... that makes us even dumber :wallbang:
 

Dan

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Mar 9, 2004
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good looking people usually develop little personality because they never had to work because they were always given a step up..

Unless you are really lucky and you have a partner with the ugly duck sydrome- someone who was ugly when they were younger, therefore had to develop a personality and then becomes good looking.
 

Gep

The Guv'nor
Jun 12, 2005
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++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++
i vote for brains.

good looking ppl-but stupid-are much worse than ugly clever.

i had one of the worst experiences with a HANDSOME guy,who was sooooooo stupid...... :wallbang:
Poor you!:down:
 

Lilianna

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++ [ originally posted by Dan ] ++
good looking people usually develop little personality because they never had to work because they were always given a step up..

Unless you are really lucky and you have the ugly duck sydrome- someone who was ugly when they were younger, therefore had to develop a personality and then becomes good looking.

but usually those ppl have very low self-confidence which is terrible too.
 

Lilianna

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Apr 3, 2003
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++ [ originally posted by Erik ] ++
True. Not that I've ever found someone like that :groan:
i have.

ppl who used to be VERY ugly,even when they actually become good looking they don't see it.


it's very difficult for them(and for you trying to convise them that they actually look good :wallbang: )
 

Dan

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++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++



but usually those ppl have very low self-confidence which is terrible too.
True, but then its up to you to build their self confidence.. you can even mould them into a confident person whose confident is dependant on you, should one be so inclined.
 

Lilianna

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Apr 3, 2003
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++ [ originally posted by Dan ] ++


True, but then its up to you to build their self confidence.. you can even mould them into a confident person whose confident is dependant on you, should one be so inclined.
if you are patient enough and you know how to do it,then yes.

though,i think that someone must build their self-confidence by themselves and not depend from the others.
 

Gep

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Jun 12, 2005
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++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++


if you are patient enough and you know how to do it,then yes.

though,i think that someone must build their self-confidence by themselves and not depend from the others.
Be proud of who you are no matter what. I know a few unfortunate friends who are not blessed with looks (they too agree) but have the confidence to talk to any girl. And guess what mostly suceed!
 

Dan

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++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++


if you are patient enough and you know how to do it,then yes.

though,i think that someone must build their self-confidence by themselves and not depend from the others.
That would be the ' right ' way to do it yes... ;)
 

Dan

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++ [ originally posted by Erik ] ++
Mould them? Little psycho bastard :D
If I would ever meet a woman like that, whatever morals I would have would soon fly out the proverbial window :D
 

Lilianna

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Apr 3, 2003
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++ [ originally posted by Moggi D'Messiah ] ++


Be proud of who you are no matter what. I know a few unfortunate friends who are not blessed with looks (they too agree) but have the confidence to talk to any girl. And guess what mostly suceed!
confidence do miracles.

i believe it that they have girls.
 

Lilianna

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++ [ originally posted by Dan ] ++


That would be the ' right ' way to do it yes... ;)
well,few years ago i was depressed for over a year.
had many problems and the depression was growing.
all my friends were trying to build the confidense inside me but none of them succeded.

when I decided that enough is enough and that i can't be wasting my life like this,i did everything possible to erase these bad days and build myself and my character from the begining.

now,i am a very self-confident person and proud for what i managed to do
 

Seven

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Jun 25, 2003
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++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++


i have.

ppl who used to be VERY ugly,even when they actually become good looking they don't see it.


it's very difficult for them(and for you trying to convise them that they actually look good :wallbang: )
I used to have a friend who accused me of always saying she was ugly. In reality I spent hours telling her she was beautiful. She was a goodlooking girl to begin with and she was my friend, so I pretty much had to. But she would still go mad and interpret everything I said as an insult while I was doing my utmost best to make her feel comfortable. When we were in the Louvre a year and a half ago I had to talk to her about it for an hour. IN THE LOUVRE FFS. Harsh as it may sounds, she's not my friend anymore. I'm trying not to talk to her anymore. I simply can't do it anymore. She drains too much energy out of me.
 

Dan

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++ [ originally posted by Lilianna ] ++


well,few years ago i was depressed for over a year.
had many problems and the depression was growing.
all my friends were trying to build the confidense inside me but none of them succeded.

when I decided that enough is enough and that i can't be wasting my life like this,i did everything possible to erase these bad days and build myself and my character from the begining.

now,i am a very self-confident person and proud for what i managed to do
Its a step everyone has to take if they are in that position. I built up my confidence to the point of sheer arogance by just improving myself, whether it be forcing myself to ' take that last step ', or taking better care of my looks.
 

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