Yeah, I agree. I dont have any children yet but I bet it is 100% worse because when you grow up and have a family they become tighter to you than ever your mother and father
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Gray, If I may ask.
What on earth are you talking about?
It's selfish that my biggest fear is that my wife passes away and I live the rest of my life alone?? Me being emotionally shattered because I lose my wife and best friend is selfish? Trust me,I wouldn't wish it on my wife either, but she is a far stronger person than I could ever dream of being, and in all likelihood, she wouldn't suffer a nervous breakdown if I were to pass away before her
And who is this "they" that you are talking about??
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Which juve photo thread....?
Which juve photo thread....?
There hasn't been a post there in over a month, although I tell myself that I'm going to post the rest of the pictures ASAP. But there's still a ton of photos. You'll be surprised (or jealous) to see how close I got to the players while they were practicing.
Well I guess it varies from person to person, but in general, I was always under the impression that it was a service to your life partner to stay alive until they pass away.
It's like the relationship between myself and my father, for example. I honestly hope that he passes away before I do, because I'd never want him to go through the pain of having to bury his own son, no parent should. Do you see what I mean?
It's like the relationship between myself and my father, for example. I honestly hope that he passes away before I do, because I'd never want him to go through the pain of having to bury his own son, no parent should. Do you see what I mean?
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The respective spouse of the person in question.
Ahh I studied oedipus rex 
I hardly think that happens very often, though. Getting attached to your mother is hardly the same thing as...well...y'know
The respective spouse of the person in question.
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Actually they say (and I've seen it) that fathers get more attached to the girl (his princess) and mums get more attached to their sons (mummy's boy) + cos of that the boy in some cases gets an oedipus complex. Hope my son won't have that and find myself with a knife in my back
Actually they say (and I've seen it) that fathers get more attached to the girl (his princess) and mums get more attached to their sons (mummy's boy) + cos of that the boy in some cases gets an oedipus complex. Hope my son won't have that and find myself with a knife in my back
I hardly think that happens very often, though. Getting attached to your mother is hardly the same thing as...well...y'know
OK, gray.
I still don't understand why you called me selfish because my biggest fear is being alone?
Of course, you want to do all you can to stay alive, and in a perfect world, pass away at or nearly the same time. But how often does that happen? Unfortunately, unless it was a major disaster, not very often.
All I'm saying is, I couldn't deal with being alone, and especially being without her. It's not as if my greatest fear was materialistic in nature, it's purely emotional. Now, when it comes to this board, I consider you a friend, and you know that. However, I feel that you are a little off-base on this, for the simple fact that you don't know the type of loving relationship that my wife and I have. She is my everything, and she always has been from the first moment I told her I love her.
So please, can we refrain from this subject before you/I or both of us say something that we'll regret?? I consider you a friend, and I would like to keep it that way.
I still don't understand why you called me selfish because my biggest fear is being alone?
Of course, you want to do all you can to stay alive, and in a perfect world, pass away at or nearly the same time. But how often does that happen? Unfortunately, unless it was a major disaster, not very often.
All I'm saying is, I couldn't deal with being alone, and especially being without her. It's not as if my greatest fear was materialistic in nature, it's purely emotional. Now, when it comes to this board, I consider you a friend, and you know that. However, I feel that you are a little off-base on this, for the simple fact that you don't know the type of loving relationship that my wife and I have. She is my everything, and she always has been from the first moment I told her I love her.
So please, can we refrain from this subject before you/I or both of us say something that we'll regret?? I consider you a friend, and I would like to keep it that way.
Okay, I'm sorry, selfish was a bit too harsh a word. I was just saying that it would be in the other person's best interest if you didn't leave them alone in the world. That's why it's ideal for a wife and husband to die together.
There's nothing wrong with being afraid of loneliness, it's a human instinct. I think we just both misunderstood eachother's words.
I wish the best for your marriage, and i hope i didn't undermine its importance or the nature of your relationship.
Cheers, brother
There's nothing wrong with being afraid of loneliness, it's a human instinct. I think we just both misunderstood eachother's words.
I wish the best for your marriage, and i hope i didn't undermine its importance or the nature of your relationship.
Cheers, brother
Thank you, gray.
For the record, you didn't undermine it's importance, it's just that unitl now, I never really divulged any information regarding our relationship.
I should get my wife to read this. Maybe then she'll break down and pay the 75 euro shipping fee to get my Nedved jersey.
See, now THAT'S selfish and self-serving. But it's for Juve, so I think it's allowed.
Do me a favor, check the old testament for me, and see if you can find that passage
For the record, you didn't undermine it's importance, it's just that unitl now, I never really divulged any information regarding our relationship.
I should get my wife to read this. Maybe then she'll break down and pay the 75 euro shipping fee to get my Nedved jersey.
See, now THAT'S selfish and self-serving. But it's for Juve, so I think it's allowed.
Do me a favor, check the old testament for me, and see if you can find that passage
