OK, gray.
I still don't understand why you called me selfish because my biggest fear is being alone?
Of course, you want to do all you can to stay alive, and in a perfect world, pass away at or nearly the same time. But how often does that happen? Unfortunately, unless it was a major disaster, not very often.
All I'm saying is, I couldn't deal with being alone, and especially being without her. It's not as if my greatest fear was materialistic in nature, it's purely emotional. Now, when it comes to this board, I consider you a friend, and you know that. However, I feel that you are a little off-base on this, for the simple fact that you don't know the type of loving relationship that my wife and I have. She is my everything, and she always has been from the first moment I told her I love her.
So please, can we refrain from this subject before you/I or both of us say something that we'll regret?? I consider you a friend, and I would like to keep it that way.