Oct 28, 2010
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Must’ve been a long time ago because that shit will turn a normal person bankrupt.

One Big Mac without the meal is $7. About $11-$12 for the meal with small drink/fries.

That means $28/meal for the dude and if he’s doing this three times per day, that’s a total of $84 per day.

He’s probably adding some fries and drinks in there, not for every meal but probably a total of three large fries and three large drinks to wash those fuckers down.

Easy $100/day

That’s $3k/month on food alone.
 
Apr 14, 2005
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Attractiveness
Enjoy their company (rare)
Emotionally stable
Not stupid
Not a hoe & family oriented
So first priority is hot and last one is not a hoe lol

Based on my experience in life and what I have seen from my friends, the nost important things to look for is a feminine and nurturing woman who has the natural disposition to be a good mother and wife, stable mental state(for a woman), stable family, good with money,, and one who respects and trusts your leadership and ability to provide. All the other shit is irrelevant imo.
 
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Must’ve been a long time ago because that shit will turn a normal person bankrupt.

One Big Mac without the meal is $7. About $11-$12 for the meal with small drink/fries.

That means $28/meal for the dude and if he’s doing this three times per day, that’s a total of $84 per day.

He’s probably adding some fries and drinks in there, not for every meal but probably a total of three large fries and three large drinks to wash those fuckers down.

Easy $100/day

That’s $3k/month on food alone.
His dumb wife was the enabler. She told me that he would throw a hissy fit if she didn't get him whatever he wanted.

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BTW, a pack of cigarettes costs about $10/day = $300 per month.
And 2 packs $600 per month. You can lease a decent car for that sort of money.
 
Oct 28, 2010
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His dumb wife was the enabler. She told me that he would throw a hissy fit if she didn't get him whatever he wanted.

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BTW, a pack of cigarettes costs about $10/day = $300 per month.
And 2 packs $600 per month. You can lease a decent car for that sort of money.
She might be the enabler but he’s the piece of lard stuffing that much McDonald’s in his mouth.
 

Dostoevsky

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So first priority is hot and last one is not a hoe lol

Based on my experience in life and what I have seen from my friends, the nost important things to look for is a feminine and nurturing woman who has the natural disposition to be a good mother and wife, stable mental state(for a woman), stable family, good with money,, and one who respects and trusts your leadership and ability to provide. All the other shit is irrelevant imo.
Really really important ima and usually ignored part. Judging by her fam you get a much better pic of hersellf too.
 

Quetzalcoatl

It ain't hard to tell
Aug 22, 2007
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So first priority is hot and last one is not a hoe lol

Based on my experience in life and what I have seen from my friends, the nost important things to look for is a feminine and nurturing woman who has the natural disposition to be a good mother and wife, stable mental state(for a woman), stable family, good with money,, and one who respects and trusts your leadership and ability to provide. All the other shit is irrelevant imo.
Being able to enjoy their company is irrelevant? I'd say that's the main point of a relationship in the first place.

Attractiveness may be a superficial expectation but it's necessary for me, as it is for most people.

Feminine and nurturing for sure, should have mentioned that. But yeah, good mother and wife ties in with being family oriented.

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I don't mean like Tinder or those apps, but one of these Okaycupid or Eharmony sites. Maybe I can find a nice Italian or Spanish bella.

I'm only half serious. It's a thought.

Really really important ima and usually ignored part. Judging by her fam you get a much better pic of hersellf too.
Stable family is good. But I tend to get along better with girls from dysfunctional families like me :lol:
 
Oct 28, 2010
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    ALC

Being able to enjoy their company is irrelevant? I'd say that's the main point of a relationship in the first place.

Attractiveness may be a superficial expectation but it's necessary for me, as it is for most people.

Feminine and nurturing for sure, should have mentioned that. But yeah, good mother and wife ties in with being family oriented.

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I don't mean like Tinder or those apps, but one of these Okaycupid or Eharmony sites. Maybe I can find a nice Italian or Spanish bella.

I'm only half serious. It's a thought.


Stable family is good. But I tend to get along better with girls from dysfunctional families like me :lol:
Is your family truly dysfunctional or just an island fam?
 

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Being able to enjoy their company is irrelevant? I'd say that's the main point of a relationship in the first place.

Attractiveness may be a superficial expectation but it's necessary for me, as it is for most people.

Feminine and nurturing for sure, should have mentioned that. But yeah, good mother and wife ties in with being family oriented.

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I don't mean like Tinder or those apps, but one of these Okaycupid or Eharmony sites. Maybe I can find a nice Italian or Spanish bella.

I'm only half serious. It's a thought.


Stable family is good. But I tend to get along better with girls from dysfunctional families like me :lol:
i say do it, go find yourself a good woman on one of the more serious websites.

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His dumb wife was the enabler. She told me that he would throw a hissy fit if she didn't get him whatever he wanted.

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BTW, a pack of cigarettes costs about $10/day = $300 per month.
And 2 packs $600 per month. You can lease a decent car for that sort of money.
smoking a whole pack of cigarettes in a day is truly disgusting
 

Siamak

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So first priority is hot and last one is not a hoe lol

Based on my experience in life and what I have seen from my friends, the nost important things to look for is a feminine and nurturing woman who has the natural disposition to be a good mother and wife, stable mental state(for a woman), stable family, good with money,, and one who respects and trusts your leadership and ability to provide. All the other shit is irrelevant imo.
Loyalty and honesty are remarkably my top priorities. Money is not the criterion, I prefer a man to be in a better financial position than his wife.
 
Apr 14, 2005
71,310
Being able to enjoy their company is irrelevant? I'd say that's the main point of a relationship in the first place.

Attractiveness may be a superficial expectation but it's necessary for me, as it is for most people.

Feminine and nurturing for sure, should have mentioned that. But yeah, good mother and wife ties in with being family oriented.

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I don't mean like Tinder or those apps, but one of these Okaycupid or Eharmony sites. Maybe I can find a nice Italian or Spanish bella.

I'm only half serious. It's a thought.


Stable family is good. But I tend to get along better with girls from dysfunctional families like me :lol:
What do you mean by enjoy your time?

The main purpose of marriage is actually not about you. A healthy home and well adapted and behaved kids is what builds and maintains civilizations. And that takes work. Even biology supports this idea. Mating mechanics filter our the gene pool.

A certain degree of compatibility is needed(you determine that soon enough) and you need rust to be comfortable around each other. But I disagree that the purpose of marriage is enjoying each other's company.
 

Quetzalcoatl

It ain't hard to tell
Aug 22, 2007
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What do you mean by enjoy your time?

The main purpose of marriage is actually not about you. A healthy home and well adapted and behaved kids is what builds and maintains civilizations. And that takes work. Even biology supports this idea. Mating mechanics filter our the gene pool.

A certain degree of compatibility is needed(you determine that soon enough) and you need rust to be comfortable around each other. But I disagree that the purpose of marriage is enjoying each other's company.
Enjoy their company = wanting to have them around and being able to live with them and see them every day. Of course it won't be every single day you feel like that, but I mean not feeling the need to send them home in the morning after they spend the night.

I said wife initially, but marriage and kids is secondary. Firstly I would just like good companionship, while also filtering for motherly/wifely qualities.

And that's what's really hard to find, someone who's presence doesn't irk me. I know that's a me problem lol
 

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There’s always Grinder :sarcasm2:
OK, Senator.

what would you say your top 5 realistic expectations in that person are? Prioritized
Attractiveness
Enjoy their company (rare)
Emotionally stable
Not stupid
Not a hoe & family oriented
If you do it right, the person you meet will change you. For the better for the most part. And by changing you, the rigid, prioritized list you went in with just got torn up. Or at least altered.

People who seek a romantic partner with rigid lists are bound for disappointment because they treat it like a job interview and are disappointed that they hooked up with an employee. A relationship focused only on you without external growth is confining -- and more of a vanity project than anything.

The real magic is in finding someone who makes you different, who changes what you thought you wanted out of a partner and life. They would not be the sort of person you would have anticipated with your prior checklist, and you wouldn't know that until you first met them and they changed you over time.

Cornfields are trouble

 

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