What Are You Doing Right Now? (202 Viewers)

[Fint]

A year ago, my sister enters her apartment building, goes to elevator, has a a black ski mask with knife fucker waiting for her to get out to rob/rape her (she recognized coat, same guy that was following her outside for 30 minutes), she verbally fights him off in little tuzzle with her bag, SCREAMING HER LUNGS out, was late, just after 01.00, but NO FUCKER reacts in this big building, despite having around 3-4 neighbours in that floor alone.


She was lucky she resisted a bit for 10-15 seconds to discourage him, and even more so I was inside her apartment (she didnt know), happend to come by shortly before because missed my last train. Ran down the stairs and chased the fucker on pure adrenaline for 1-2 minutes outside with no shoes lol. Lost him in the woods.



In the next neighbourhood/council meeting month later, I asked who heard her screaming for help, after awkward fussing 3 people said they did. Made me so angry to see their sheepish faces. Told them I hope to God someone is there for you if the same ever happens to you...

Wow that's scary as shit man, thank fuck you were there otherwise I dread to think how that could have played out.

When it comes to family, there's no choice between fight or flight instinct I think, it's all fight.

Hope the cunt shat himself out there in the woods

 

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[AFL_ITALIA]

Hm. Actually, I think it's men to be blamed for pretty much everything. Men generally became bunch of pussies who show way too many emotions while girls are more hide and seek. Also, if you're sitting in a bar and girls scan, then yeah -- they will chose the pretty face that stands out. Doesn't have to mean much if the guy has an empty head or doesn't know to take the advantage. If you're the one gaming and making the first step I'd say what matters the most is the shit that you talk. Most of the guys fail miserably at this and I noticed it as well. Sometimes even when I hear my friends talking to some random girl I feel embarrased. But hell, I'd always give them the credit because I'd rather see that than to turn around and don't even approach. IMO men are just weird and in most of the cases they are just bad at approaching girls. Once you figure out the game I'd say it's quite easy to pick. Remember that they always want something unique and it's your job to take the advantage of it.

I'd say this comes down to more of what you're looking for. If you want a one night stand in a bar or a "fuck buddy" somewhere, it would obviously be stupid to "catch feels" or imply that you are. If you're looking for something more serious though, would it not make more sense to show emotion? I do agree though, most men colossally fuck it up when approaching a woman. I can't even count the amount of times I've seen them say or do dumb shit with one of my friends and just ruin it for themselves. But, in my opinion, women also have very unrealistic expectations when considering what they bring to the table as well. For this reason, it turns me off to approaching women (I'm also anxious as all hell) when I know I'm most likely going to be rejected because I'm not at least an 8-9/10 and 5'6" tall (basically don't even bother).

The dating app won't help. People hide way too much behind facebook, tinder and other apps. Basically everyone has balls to send a PM into some inbox of a hot girl while literally 5% or less wouldn't say anything in her face which is quite sad in my books. It does take guts but at least you show it to her face. They are not that mean as some project them to be, as long as your head is in the right place.

But they DO work, I've seen it work. But it all depends on 1) what you're expecting out of it, 2) who you're expecting out of it and 3) how long you're willing to try. But I agree that it's much easier over an app and therefore holds less weight.

You're already in a good spot, man, as you recognized that you suck at it. Now comes the part where you work on it. Don't try to escape it through some bullshit app. Even if you use those (IMO), those should only be a bonus or something extra on the whole thing, but not the main package.

And btw this is me telling it, who has been (or is) anxious as fuck.

The thing is, I'm not into bars and clubs. That's just not me. So for me to go into a bar and try to get with someone wouldn't make much sense for me personally since that would mostly highlight my inadequacies rather than show me in a good light. As for other settings, it is considered by some to be borderline sexual harassment these days:

Spoiler

"Good morning," for example is in the same category as everything else

I have tried physically approaching women, but I just freeze up and look like a dumbass. But I struggle talking to any stranger anyway so I know it's not just that. I've gotten A LOT better at it over the years, but the way I see it these apps are just an easy way to work my way into killing two birds with one stone. But I definitely do understand where you're coming from, just have to work into it.

Of course, the above is all just my opinion based on whatever biases and exaggerations I have but still. Can't believe I wrote this much .

 

[IliveForJuve]

The good thing about clubs is that everything gets easier after the first rejection.

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

Don't just approach any random woman. You should at least try to make some eye contact with them first. If they avoid making eye contact with you don't bother. If they make eye contact with you a few times, then it's worth a try.

 

[IliveForJuve]

Bitches that are checking you out most likely want you to approach them.

@AFL_ITALIA, have a few drinks and get your silver tongue on

 

[swag]

Make it a gym. Get in shape. Fuck a 20 year old. Buy a convertible. Have a proper midlife crisis.

Quoted for truth.

@IliveForJuve Get well soon buddy.

In Thailand, Hepatitis and Ping Pong go hand in hand.

Hepatitis and Ping Pong being the name of the two midget trannies in Bangkok I hung out with my last night there.

Asked the students to name their favorite brand and write how they would react if the brand took a political stand that is opposing their worldviews. One of the answers:

"If they simply supported a candidate that didn’t have all the same ideologies as me, I think I’d still buy their products. But if they took a social stance that was specifically opposing my moral views, like if they opposed gay marriage or Islam, then I’d have a lot of trouble sticking with them. I’d probably find an alternative because there are a lot of options in their market."

Gay Islamic marriage is a brand.

Become successful, prominent in the community, and charming. Get her to fall madly in love with the new you, propose in the sweetest way, and plan her dream wedding.

Then sudden twist. Dump her ass on the night before wedding in as cruel a way as possible then go on an interstate spree and murder between 50 - 100 random women via strangulation or blunt force trauma. Get arrested, convicted, notoriety and die by execution.

Everyone will recognize your deeds. Everyone will know she once dated you. That'll show the bitch.

Spoken as if from experience.

Become a Christian and court someone with that.

I dunno. I once asked out a hot chick for lunch ages ago. When I found out she was totally into the God Squad, it was such a turnoff though... all that talking about "His" plans for her, etc. Took me about 5 minutes to figure out the "He" was capitalized and all.

Made my deck shrivel up and fall off. So I do believe in God.

Any dude who uses bumble has obviously no self respect. You wanna meet girls? Work on your bod, your game, or get rich.

Also quoted for truth.

I guess. This hyper out of control feminism that makes everything into a discussion about male privilege does not really exist in Belgium though. At least not the way it does in the US. So I'm not too sensitive about stuff like that.

Bumble just perpetuates gender stereotypes. I say out with it.

What happened to just good ol fashioned speaking to one another?

People are just not developing social skills these days

Bunch of lames

Why talk when you can stare at your phone all the time whether you're with or without the person, you know?

I love when Tuz has serious discussions.

Must be a dry month.

Man, I hate my maid's son. Motherfucker touches everything with his filthy hands.

Good thing you aren't wearing pants around him then.

The good thing about clubs is that everything gets easier after the first rejection.

Clubs and prison.

 

[AFL_ITALIA]

Bitches that are checking you out most likely want you to approach them.

@AFL_ITALIA, have a few drinks and get your silver tongue on

Saturday

 

[X Æ A-12]

Spoken as if from experience.



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Better off Ted

 

[.zero]

The first objective

 

[Bianconero81]

Hepatitis and Ping Pong being the name of the two midget trannies in Bangkok I hung out with my last night there.

You should let me know next time you're in town.

 

[swag]

Better off Ted

Such a handsome man...

You should let me know next time you're in town.

 

[lgorTudor]

Better off Ted

it's one of these shows I thought I was the only person in the universe watching it

great little show

 

[X Æ A-12]

it's one of these shows I thought I was the only person in the universe watching it

great little show

No, i think a lot of women watch it

 

[InterMerda]

Fuck u all I'm drunk as fuck

 

[X Æ A-12]

I remember the first time I was drunk

 

[IliveForJuve]

I even remember the date. It was on August 8 2008.

 

[X Æ A-12]

Weird

 

[IliveForJuve]

Weird

It was a classmate's birthday so Facebook reminds me the date all the time.

 

[Enron]

Solo mission Saturday. Relaxing with a couple beers and some baseball.

 

[X Æ A-12]

It was a classmate's birthday so Facebook reminds me the date all the time.

Well nah, that it was 8/8/08