I don't see how people can love someone else sometimes even after 3 years of dating. IMO, that really only happens when the vulnerabilities come out and people get to
really know who each other are.
But that's not as high a bar as I thought we were talking here.
That no contact rule is pretty much a given. But sometimes when you're dealing with someone real immature about owning their own emotions, that no contact bit can happen without said final talk ... which is just goofy weird. But I've had it happen before ... was kind of a shock to the system about how someone was lacking the basic relationship skills to even have the final talk.

True
Easy on the Adele there, mate.
Me likey! :superhapp
So you're one of those people who cries over animals but not dead children I see...
Impressive!
Is she high at the same time and gets all clingy? Or is it just your perception of her when you're high?